I've been expressing so much about others that wronged me and yet I was unfair to someone once. In 9th grade, sometimes I would give an attitude (not always though, sometimes I was in a good mood) to some quiet girl that liked drawing if she tried starting a conversation with me. I once told her she should go to a different HS because she doesn't belong here with an upset tone of voice. Ironically I was somewhat quiet myself too. Then from grades 10-12 I was nicer to her and greeted her on the hallways and vice-versa.
This might sound off but back in 2018 or 2019, I did what the others didn't do to me. I searched for her on FB, told her I remembered her and apologized for giving her an attitude for no reason. She accepted it but doesn't recall that I was ever mean to her, just that we would talk about history class. My claim didn't ring a bell to her at all.
Ironic isn't it? I've been wronged by others (till this day none has ever reached out to me) and yet there was one time I wasn't super nice to someone.
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That was sweet of you to reach out to her.
Thank you. It really sucks that very few people do that.
Meanwhile I really was treated poorly (a lot worse than how I treated her) from grades 4th to 7th and had to real with a jerk in 8th grade. None ever reached out to me. They just either moved on. A girl that was awful for the entire 7th grade, then greeted me in a friendly manner in our freshman year of HS, as if we were friends lol.
I don't like when girls are mean to you, and then act like they were your best friend!. I am dealing with this girl now in school. So we used to be friends and we both were mean to boy. One day I realized how mean I was and felt horrible 😫 I started being nicer and she didn't like it. Now when I see her she calls me a slut but I know I'm not.
Yeah I hate that. I've been bullied in middle school and that's an awful experience. It wasn't just someone giving you an attitude sometimes. At least I didn't label her any nasty nicknames nor got others to ridicule her. Maybe that's why my claim didn't ring a bell to her; because I wasn't that awful nor a bully.
Trust me if someone really bullies you.. that's definitely seared in our memory forever.
I know what you mean. This girl that calls me a slut, she started doing it a couple of years ago and it really hurt me. Especially when she had other girls saying that to me as well. I would cry. Then this girl that was a senior told me that she would have a talk with her and never said it again. I was 15 then. Now she's back at it again but it doesn't bother me cause I know I'm not a slut. This girl came into my yard a couple of years ago my little brother was playing with his friend and she grabbed my brother by his hair and dragged him through the dirt. I ran outside and grabbed her hair and pulled it and asked her how she liked it? She's just mean!
Female can be just as vicious as male bullies, sometimes worse because they're destroying your self-esteem at that moment.
I'm sorry to hear about what she did to your younger brother but glad you came to his defense. Hopefully she stops bullying at some point. Have you try reporting it to the school staff or school principal?
No I haven't because she's the only one saying this to me and it doesn't bother me because I know I'm not a slut. If it were group of girls saying It would bother me more. I just ignore this girl. But yeah nobody touches my little brother or sister they answer to me. Nice chatting with you 😊
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