Okay your jealous I get that, but the thing is. Trying to control someone never works.
it makes them lie to you and do something behind your back.
if someone wants to do something they will do it. Forbidding them won’t change anything. It will make them learn to lie better.
all you can do is express to your boyfriend that you feel hurt when he talks to her and you prefer he doesn’t but the choice is up to him. Then wait and see what happens.
if he chooses to keep speaking to her after you say that. You then know that if you forbid him, he will lie and do it behind your back anyway. Because even after knowing you don’t like it he still talks to her.
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Not at all. Other girl bffs other than you is odd. A guy never stays bestfriend with a girl if they don’t want something more, if they didn’t now they definitely did bfore or def will. Stay safe💕
It's a hard situation. I wouldn't directly come out and tell him he can't hang out with her anymore, that's to straight forward. Also if he isn't telling you you can't hang out with another guy for example I would really not ask him to stop hanging out with her.
I'd tell him that you're a little bothered by it even though he keeps telling you everything is fine and you don't need to worry and if he might be able to cut back on the contact a bit, but just know that this might put some pressure on your relationship as well
If he only had a crush on her, and never was in a relationship with her, then it's unfair to expect him not to be friends with her. Assuming that he's not into her more than just a friend.
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I would set boundaries. Tell him you are uncomfortable with the situation and if he isn't willing to set boundaries, I would say thats a flag.
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