My "friend" accused me of ghosting after my phone died and her message didn't come through on whatsapp. I was unavailable for barely 16 hours.
I have always made clear how much I value our friendship and I have never blocked her in the past. But she already assumed I purposely ghosted her and told me goodbye.
To me, this was all a misunderstanding and I send her a ton of messages on multiple platforms to explain my phone died and that I valued our friendship too much to just ghost her. but after 6 hours of no-reply back, I told her that it was frustrating to me that she hadn't replied back. Especially since I know she saw at least my original message telling her it was all a misunderstanding.
The only reply back I got was that it was unfair off me to expect a message while she was busy. I told her I didn't want to continue this on text, I would meet her tomorrow to avoid any other miscommunication. She replied that she wouldn't meet me. At this point I was annoyed as hell that after basically spamming her to make sure she knew I wouldn't ghost her, she didn't even seem to care.
This escalated to the point where she said she didn't want to be friends anymore and I told her that if she was going to act like a child, I didn't want to continue either. Than she twisted this around to me wanting to end our friendship and removing + blocking me everywhere.
I don't feel like I did anything wrong. I made damn sure she knew I didn't ghost her but that my phone died. Yet she didn't even seem to care enough to even reply to my message.
Am I wrong for expressing that it frustrated me that she didn't reply for 6 hours?
