So back story...
My boyfriend has been going through a lot of financial stress and changes and has more 'bad' days than good. I try and support him and get him in a better mood. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. We normally call eachother in the evening to talk about our day and say goodnight etc. The whole day I didn't bother him because he was busy and didn't really want to talk so when he called me I was happy so I could share how good my day was but I saw how down he was and frustrated so I decided rather to help him get out of it but then as Im trying to talk to him and tell him a story he is distracted with something else and didn't hear anything I said. I got a bit upset because Im trying to be his support and he is ignoring me, I explained that it was rude. I didn't yell or throw a fit I just firmly explained how it wasn't nice to which he went into a spin and got mad at me trying to just end our conversation.
Now we arnt talking, AGAIN... am I wrong for how I acted and how should a girl act in this kind of situation?
No , you are far from wrong , his guy with all of his issues , and you providing too much empathy , he is never going to get out of this circumstance , its lifetime for people like this , and they just want to bring others down.
You have a right to be happy , he will never make you happy , he is only ever going to bring you down , you have problems of your own , cut him clean , let some other poor sap deal with his self centred expectations , the problems are HIS , not yours.
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No u are not in the wrong bur equally sounds like he is not in the best mindset to be a good partner in a relationship
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