I am grown. Why won't they just mind their own business?

[tempirl2012]

My Sister, mom, Friends etc keeps on saying im dumb for getting back with my ex boyfriend because he had a baby on me and then cut me off when i lost my Job back in July 2023. They said im slow for allowing him to come back into my life after i begged them (my mom and sister to live with them because i was living in my car with my daughter) my sister asked me why i get back with him when he left me homeless that she was the one who got me a job to provide for my daughter. Like okay? Why can't they mind their own business? I love him still and THATS why. Plus i don't want him getting back with his so called baby mother anyway. Im sure he's a changed man.

[Oliverlogan263]

Look mama, I feel you - ain't nobody knows ya relationship like you do. But ya also gotta look at it from they perspective too feel me?

When they saw you out there strugglin after that dude dipped, that probably had them real worried bout you n yo baby. Moms n sis jus tryna look out, ya know?

And I know love make us act up sometimes, but you gotta ask - what he done to PROVE he changed? Words cheap. Seen it too many times where dudes come back round when it's convenient for them.

If you choosin to trust him again, aight - but you ain't a fool for keepin eyes open either. And maybe hear what ya sis sayin bout not wantin you out there hurt again.

Go with ya heart sis but protect it too feel me? Keep ya guard up til he show you consistent. You n ya baby come first - don't let no dude break ya down again aight? Love you, stay up!

[Anonymous]

Because they care

If you were my family I'd have dealt with that runt like Carlo at the end of 1

[LazerBean]

This entire post sounds like a troll post, but I'll play along. Because people's normal reaction to child abuse isn't to "mind their own business". You're ruining the life of your mom's grandchild. That is her business. Then again, this may not have happened to begin with if she had raised you better.

[EmmaMary]

@LazerBean

My sentiments entirely... I'm almost tempted to give one of my usual daily awards!

[LazerBean]

And this early in the morning, too. Smh

[tempirl2012]

🙄whatever

[EmmaMary]

@LazerBean

It's actually late afternoon here in the UK... Not that this makes any difference.

[Anonymous]

Because they love you and hate to see you make a poor decision.