Do you ever get nice treatment because people assume you are from the same country as them?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Okay, funny thing.

I just arrived at one of the temples to celebrate the Chinese New Year, they examined people, out of two guys 1 questioned where I am from, but another one told him to let me in.

I just came inside, with the army and monks and my Georgian and Irani friends were not allowed to come from this entrance 🤣🤣

I think they allowed me here because I speak Chinese and they were confused whether I am part Chinese or not and didn’t want to discriminate, hehe cute.

Waiting for my friends to arrive, they were sent to another entrance for the detailed examination 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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2 mo

Okay, these people are very nice, they let me in a restaurant while it’s not open yet. The owner came to wish me Happy New Year personally.

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2 mo

I was too overexcited cause it’s my first time for a night out, after breaking my leg…

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I get that a lot being half-Japanese where sometimes people treat me very kindly until they realize I'm not full Japanese. Then some people start to distance themselves from me when they realize it. Other people move closer and get fascinated like, "Please teach me English!" It tends to be divisive when people find out that I'm "hafu" as they call it here.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

The majority are very nice when they realize I'm not full Japanese but I still get a few here and there, especially in more rural parts of Japan, who seem to get confused and weirded out by it.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I am actually from here in Japan though, born and raised in Shizuoka. But my mother is American (white). So I am half-white. And I also lived in the US for quite some time.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Gosh I feel like VIP, literally everyone, even Chinese people are outside. 🤣🤣🤣

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I stopped the police to take me photos, he took me photos. Haha very nice people. I love the Chinese.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I promise, everytime I go out I come across such nice adventures haha

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I'd love to visit China! I lived in Singapore for a few years and picked up some basic Mandarin there.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Haha, my friends outside are in the huge queue, poor girls. I am relaxing in a restaurant where I am literally the only person sitting, nobody’s allowed hehe

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, you should, Chinese are very kind and hospitable

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Total VIP treatment! I'm afraid I've never gotten that before.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I wonder, why such things happen to me, might be because I am very friendly and people find hard to say NO to me 🤣 I do feel lucky indeed.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Being a good-looking young woman might help as well!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thank you. I swear there are girls much prettier than me, probably it’s partially my optimistic attitude, people hate to say no hehe

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Having a great attitude also helps a lot. I actually think it makes women more attractive anyway, even physically (shows in their body language). I wish I had this superpower.

[HawkPerception]

When I was in Mexico on vacation with family and we were at a restaurant and I said "gracias" to the server, be sat on the table and with the biggest smile, he was like "You are Mexicano?" He definitely got all excited that I might have been the same race as him. That was when I was around 11 I think.

And then when I tell Trinidadian people that I'm Trini, they always seem more receptive to me.

[IslaTheWitch]

lol

no, I don't think so :D

My accent makes it obvious I'm not from the same country, lol...

[Amara_09]

Yes…. but I have been a foreigner in some places and well……you get nice treatment too

[love_conquers_lust]

It’s kind of default to treat people nicely because it’s profitable. Although there legal ways of discriminating here. But it’s not allowed when servicing the public. The law is pretty complicated.

[NathanDavis]

I've gotten better and nicer sometimes... when they realize I am Mexican as well

[msc545]

Congratulations! You have just experienced pretty privilege. Probably this is not unfamiliar to you. Nothing wrong with it!

[loveslongnails]

Sometimes, and it's known as a "granfalloon", a term created by Kurt Vonnegut from Cat's Cradle. LOL

[DagonbroughtMehere]

No, but then if You met Me in person You would understand why.

[laly520]

I never noticed any change

[888theGreat]

But you look Russian or Asian?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You don’t know how I look…

[888theGreat]

I am asking