Just found out that I'm pregnant at 20, should I abort my baby if I cannot afford it, I still live with my parents and cannot support myself yet.. ?

[Anonymous]

also cost of living is so high even as it is.. i'm so confused as to how this even happened.. i have a copper iud in place?

[888theGreat]

You should kill your baby because you were stupid? No. You will stand before God guilty of murder as in "Thou Shalt Not Kill". So if you do , you committed two stupid mistakes. One in which might cost you your soul and send you into bowls of Hell for ever and ever.

1) You are having sex and probably don't have a job.

2) Still living at home. Can't provide for yourself but can have unprotected Sex.

3) You have to be responsible for your actions. The baby has done nothing wrong, yet you want him or her pulled apart , tortured , and killed.

The young people today think life is one big party that everyone else should pay for. Sex for fun or boredom. No work ethic. No morals. Smoke Pot all the time. Drinking and driving. Lack responsibility. Always have Smart Phone in face. Play video games all day.

This country is going to hell with killing new generations with abortion (destroys future Tax Base) . No work ethic (destroying tax base) . Violence and Crime because kids no. longer hear what is right and wrong from parents. Many had just one Parent. Divorce which breaks down the family and creates poverty. Cursing God and insulting him with Gay Marriage. The country will not survive for very much longer.

[Anonymous]

It's not at all confusing, you had sex. It usually leads to children, just because people find ways to try to styme it doesn't mean its anything else. I doubt you where unaware of that fact, but choose the sex anyway hoping it wouldn't be you it affected (many do).

Your now simply at a matter of consequences. You just have to choose your consequence:

Having it: Difficult, rewarding, exhausting, fulfilling in the long term, complicates your romantic future, changes the entire course of your life, potential medical complications (but natural ones), loss of sleep and potential difficulty in your future career, costs (but also support of your family its hoped)

Aborting it: Mood swings, guilt, forever wondering what you migth have had, a sense of deep loss, possible serious medical complications (non natural ones); Its possible this might be your only chance to have a child. Noone can be certain. It's all a bit of a dice roll.

[Anonymous]

i wouldn't abort. give it up for adoption or have your parents pay for the baby... by the way i wouldn't suggest having your parents pay for the baby lol

and iud's are not completely 100%. there is always a small chance when having sex, no matter what. it's always a risk you take.

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED...DUPLICATE.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO. 🤣

[Kaneki05]

Well if the fathers not going to be, and you aren't in a place of wanting to be a single parent. Then abortion is best choice. Means you can live free for any new partner when you are ready.
Adoption is another option but why go through all that pain and effort, and likelihood that kid won't have a good life and if it does it can still come back years later when you've moved on in life.

[LazerBean]

Put it up for adoption please ❤️

[ChicoFromThe305]

I second this

[jahaims]

You are confused how cum in a vagina made a baby? You should abort for sure. You are too stupid to raise anyone.

[Asker]

I have the copper iud, it prevents pregnancy

[Asker]

It’s 99.9 percent effective

[jahaims]

Do you not understand math? That means.1% of the time, you get pregnant.

[Kaneki05]

So lemma guess you think people shouldn't have sex at all unless if it's for a baby because there is no way to actually prevent that 00.1% even people who've they though to be impossible have still got pregnant by the lowest of chances.
Which if that's your point, your the dumb one because humans aren't going to stop having sex for that 00.1% chance.