Do you think that a 1/2 brother that you didn't grow up with and haven't had very many encounter's with you has the right to judge you?

[sage2021]

Especially if you are a very nice person, have always helped other people, worked for 30 years, is a single mom and the best mom a boy could want, you've never used drugs or alcohol, you've stood on your own, other people love you, you are an overall good person? How can he make a sound judgement against you if he only knows you were abandoned by your father at an early age only for you father to get remarried right away and have a son who was not abandoned by his father. He is basing his judgement of you purely because you grew up without a father who never paid you child support, but bought your brother brand new cars, gave him money, took him in rent free for 10 years when he was an adult, then moved back home with his Mom into his 50's.
And he is judging you?

[FunkyMonkee]

Apparently, everybody can judge you, no matter who or what their status is in your life. My ex-sisters thought I was retarded or at least having mental problems just because I was seeing a kind of shrink because of an emotional thing (I was dumped by my 2nd girlfriend and life, in general, was treating me like shit!). And they and my brother, all of whom were younger than me, treated me like I was the youngest of the 4 of us. In the meantime, they KNEW that I was smart enough that I could solve problems they could even BEGIN to fathom!! People in my band thought I was some kind of dummy and didn't know what I was talking about yet, time and time again, I proved them wrong!

[NathanDavis]

whether rightful or not...

we are all going to judge others anyway

[AimeeKyle]

Everyone has the right to judge anyone. The real question is do you have to agree with it and/or continue to listen to it once you’ve heard it. That answer is no.

[JayBones2469]

Judges pass sentences. He isn't judging you he has an opinion. Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one, but you only have to worry about your own.

[LiamS95]

He has no right what so ever to judge you.

[sage2021]

@LiamS95
Thank you for your honest answer. He wrote it in an email and based his opinion on other people he has been around that grew up without a parent and how they weren't emotionally intelligent. But he doesn't even know me. I say no fair. No fair to judge me based on other people's experiences with him. And now he doesn't want to communicate again.
I'm just throwing up my arms and saying "Oh well" to him.

[LiamS95]

You're probably better off without him in your life.

[sage2021]

@LiamS95
You're right. I've gone my whole life without him, I don't need someone that's not on my side and has weird thinking to be in my life.

[Kelly6]

@sage2021 I strongly believe not