Do you prefer a lot of friends or just a few?

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I like just having a few friends because then I really get to know them and trust them. Big friend groups always have back stabbing bitches lmaoo

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Maybe one or two if that even.
I have many many friends or many people that call me friend
And I will call them friend too until they give you reason not to

But one of the things about life or friendship is the respect

A true friend won't bring up your name just to talk about something
A true friend if they're telling the story will tell the whole story and not leave out anything to make themselves look good
A true friend went over hearing two people talk about you and they hear a lie or something that is not true will stick up for you and say sorry but you got the wrong guy there

There are many people that call me friend they will talk but they forget half the story or they twist the story to make themselves look good that's really not a true friend I don't really care because I know the truth and that's all that really matters and plus the truth always comes out

But there are people that might call you friend that like to create drama havoc chaos because they live in that world they don't have a life so they created by drama

Those are people that you want to stay away from because those are the people they will always take themselves down and try to take others with them it is kind of like an evil place and dark side but that's where they live because they don't have a life or any friends and they think by creating drama this is how you get them well I have news I've run from people like that

Because drama is made to keep you angry to keep you on the wrong side of the right side and if you go there the odds are if you don't have a life you're going to stay there and be miserable all your life

So I don't have any friends that cause drama because I don't like that side of Good and evil I'd rather just stay on the good side be happy stay out of the people's business and just live life without drama I do have a couple good good friends.

And there are a lot of people that call me good friends because of what I believe in

LukeAurelin · Accepted Answer

there are types i mean

people you know and you talk to or greet and have some fun time when you are around all friend stuff but not close enough to call any time you want or hangout often.

and there will be certain few people "Friend Group" at every point of your life based on your proximity. like school friend grp, college friend grp, work frnd grp etc they are friends but not close to me now. local friend grp.
it is about how you spend the time with them when they are around how you have fun.

But in life through out you will find certain people who you keep in contact in whatever means and have no awkwardness even after years of not being around each other those people were the ones you mostly got connected to.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I like having like a group of like 6 but I tend not to want to hangout with people much now that I am older. So I wouldn't really say I have friends anymore.
Your one friend in the green shirt looks almost exactly like my friend Tia when we were younger lol.

rosemilk · Accepted Answer

very few. i can't keep up with a lot of people and hate small talk sooo few friends it is!

Levin · Answer

I work in an office, and honestly, women together, it's vicious.

I learned the hard way that you have to be very careful what you say, because whatever is said in confidence won't remain that way.

And yeah, teenage girls seem particularly bitchy.

And yes, for me, few. Quality definitely over quantity.

Staximus · Answer

When I was in high school and shortly after, I had a lot of friends. I don't have time to hang out with all of them anymore, I have 2 jobs. I only hang out with a few of them now, and 5 of my good friends have moved out of the state. I no longer want to go out to all the parties and bullshit, bars, etc. I just want to stay home and barbecue, have a couple beers or shots with my brother and a couple of friends, take a couple bong rips and call it a night like an old man haha. Maybe go to the mountains, take a hike and see some trees and shit.

Summeroflove · Answer

Yeah I agree I can like a lot of people but I’m selective of who I let in to my personal circle. There are too many Judas’s out and about who will pretend to be your friend but will stab you in the back, talk behind your back, and are using people.

There is a lot of “nice” people who just go behind everyone’s back to tell people what they really think. So they seem really nice when you meet them but all they do is go behind everyone’s back

MrOracle · Answer

You can have lots of acquaintances but it's really difficult to have more than a few real friends. Being close friends requires a real commitment and lots of time investment, and that limits the number of friends you can have and how many that can be your friend in return.

Alexender_Williams · Answer

if you read this and somehow get through all of this then you have my word.. when i was in grade 11 i met a lot of new people (im in grade 12) some of them were nice and there was one of them was just wanted my money i couldnt see it but when i realized i was in grade 12 and now we dont talk and now i only have one friend and he's best i mean it.. well thats it i hope you like it

Nikki1989 · Answer

I love my friends, but I have too many of them. Add work colleagues into the mix and I could be out socializing 7 nights a week if I had the energy for it.

Abbycado · Answer

It is a smaller group if you mean very close friends.

Raphaëlle · Answer

A couple of friends are fine. Social connections and hanging out takes time and sometimes you cannot be bothered. I could not keep up with having a lot of friends and being involved in their drama.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

I don't know all I can say you are showing way to much skin and it's very inappropriate don't you think? That crop tops and mini skirts says it all how bad this younger generation has become.

melnc · Answer

Having a lot of friends just means you're really good at collecting fake smiles. Quality over quantity, right? But hey, some people seem to enjoy being popular. It's cute in a desperate kind of way

katiesmuff · Answer

I think we can have many friends, but we seldom have more than a handful that you would call a really good friend.

LadyBecks · Answer

Just a few friends. My dad always said, if you could count your good friends on one hand, consider yourself lucky

MemeSupreme · Answer

a few bc having a lot of friends means you're not gonna have a lot of time to yourself a lot of people to keep in touch with and see

Tarifa · Answer

I love the term 'back stabbing bitches'. I prefer just a few, the ones you can really rely on.

Garud · Answer

just for a chat and to say what's up dude, many but to spend a lot of time with, very few, 1 or 2 or 3 max

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

A few because some girls are mean and haters

Unit1 · Answer

Quality over Quantity.

12karen · Answer

I have a lot of friends, a big friend groups but I'm really close to a few of them, my three besties and my cuz is my best bestie.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Smart girl keeping small circles helps you be more aware of who you have in your life

bowenw · Answer

A few good ones.

cinema75 · Answer

I prefer a few great friends over a multitude of acquaintances.

Jakefromstatefarm6 · Answer

I prefer only having a few. I don't like being around a lot of people in general

Jay-_- · Answer

1 real friend is good enough for me. Me and bro against the world.

ThebestIndian · Answer

Smaller group of friends for daily hangouts and larger group for occasional hangouts

Anonymous · Answer

I keep my circle small. It's not really a choice. Few people deserve the label, "friend"

kaucky1 · Answer

a lot of friends if they just girls hermaphrodites or trans..

Sofie01 · Answer

I got many acquaintances. But my circle of 4 friends. One my Ride or Die Best friend.

nawtee_me · Answer

You have some beautiful friends and you as well….

tani_pie · Answer

Just a few obviously.. don't like anything overcrowded..

Strongballs38 · Answer

Lot of friends, but good quality 😉, if not then I don't want any

Darkest-Knight · Answer

I would like only a few friends.

Peggee4U · Answer

I like a small select group of friends and a lot of acquaintances

PessicaJeter · Answer

Definitely a smaller group of friends.

AlinaJanowska18 · Answer

I never had a lot friends...(

Cutegirl06 · Answer

Just a few

Jennz6 · Answer

Just a few really good friends

glennos89 · Answer

The woman on the right side is 🔥

Aimée__LJ · Answer

Lots of friends but a few very close ones 😊

exitseven · Answer

I just have a few. Some have died.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

My only friends are from the military

Babygirl_S · Answer

A few loyal friends

Alex-Snow · Answer

I prefer quality friends over quantity.

Wise4myage · Answer

The more the merrier!

jeremy_09 · Answer

I will volunteer to take #3.

polodude2013 · Answer

Small friend group 💯

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

2 or 3 close friends is all that I need.

Flower7 · Answer

I prefer none.

BigBear876 · Answer

Just a few. I don't like fake friends

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Don't have any friends

khyabaldwin14 · Answer

just a few I’ve always had a small circle

danielle872024 · Answer

Few is fine

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

just a few

BlckGrl · Answer

I just want 2

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Me too

jamesgoldman · Answer

A few close ones

MK1997 · Answer

A few

Pterodon · Answer

Just a few

In_Trance · Answer

Just a few

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

None.

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