I don't either.
who has the balls to admit it? you can go anon if you want
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who has the balls to admit it? you can go anon if you want
I had a lot before covid, but they decided that I was an enemy of society when I opposed masking and social distancing, and refused to get jabbed. 2020 is also when covid sanctions forced my band to break up.
I have a few left, though, along with my sister. Most of those are long distance and we talk on the phone and text every once in a while.
My wife is my best friend.
My wife still works part time at her hair styling business and she is also involved with a couple of groups. So she has quite a few friends.
at least you have a wife. many of us dont have anyone. Your generation got married so you have it easier when you get old. My generation 30s is anti marriage, and commitment phobic... i don't see it getting any better by the time I hit your age
I had girlfriends from the time I was sixteen. They were long term and monogamous, but I wasn't interested in marriage or kids.
I didn't start thinking about finding someone to spend the rest of my life with until I was in my mid-30s.
I finally found the right lady when I was 40 and married her two years later. She is 2.5 years younger than me.
We've been married for almost 30 years now, We are both completely committed to each other and to our marriage.
Don't give up. It's never too late. You are still very young.
Did you end up having kids?
No. I never wanted any. My wife had a miscarriage shortly after we were married and we were both heartbroken. I mostly felt really sorry for her.
Then we decided that we were too old for kids, which was fine with me. At that point I was 43 and she was almost 40.
She would have made a great mommy but I'm not sure if I was cut out to be a dad.
Many years later, we were talking and she said she was glad we didn't have any kids. We're both happy.
no such thing as the right lady. you just find someone who is good enough and you roll along with it.
there is no such thing as the perfect person. no such thing as the right person.
you're just too in love to see her flaws.
just the same way no matter how terrible your son is, you still say he's a good boy
My friends and I are separated by distance… some far, some a lot closer… but people are busy with kids now, work, the usual stuff, and you only get to see people once, if only a few times a year max… it’s just a part of getting older I think.
I’ve learned too that you have to protect yourself too, as you make moves through life. People will know you for who you’ve always been, and when you show big signs of growth or if you challenge their perception of you and who you always were, things can get weird.
Sometimes you have to keep your growth and achievements guarded. You’ll find that even people you considered closest to you can be jealous or show signs of it, and you can grow apart a bit that way.
I don't really at the moment. I just got out of a relationship and I put all my focus on my boyfriend when I am in a relationship and I don't bother trying to make friends because I want the kind of relationship where my boyfriend is my best and only friend. So now that it didn't work out, I am pretty much starting over from scratch. I have a few old friends from school but they live elsewhere and we text here and there but it's not much.
No friends. I know people but no one actually makes the effort to want to speak to me or see me. I know friendship works both ways but it’s clear they can’t be arsed to make the effort.
What hurt though was when a long term friend didn’t wish me a happy birthday recently. She made the effort in previous years so why not this year? I have accepted that I’m never gonna have friends or a partner to share my life with.
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I have a few really good friends of many decades, but I don't often get to see them.
We occasionally talk on the phone.
Once in a blue moon, we'll get together for lunch.
Since my wife recently passed, her sister has become a great friend to me.
We talk daily, for hours sometimes.
It's mind-blowing to me how my wife was so emotionally closed off, but her sister, now long widowed herself, has become so close to me.
Our relationship is in no way a traditionally romantic one, but wow, we're so very close.
I'm a lucky man.
I have tons of friends and just a few real friends but the only time I see them is if they need me to fix something in there house or there car.
There comes a time when you like yourself you know who you are and it doesn't bother you. To be a lone it just depends in what stage of life your in
And remember just because today is like this doesn't mean tomorrow will be everything does change I mean
I would love to get into another relationship and I'm sure when I'm 100% ready I will do so but until then I take the time to learn think and just become a better me of course
finding somebody online is really nice too to have good conversation with and form a good relationship
I have no close friends. The closest one I had died 3 months ago, the one before that just stopped talking to me last summer, for some reason.
Any other friends I have are scattered across the country or just never bother to come see me at all, even if they only live a few doors away from me.
@Staximus One's in Illinois, one's in Texas, I'm near the east coast, another in Arizona, another in California and my girlfriend is in England. I'm nearly broke and don't drive. How would I go ee them. The two that live here are usually too busy to socialize. And, if the weather will EVER co-operate, I've got a SHITLOAD of house cleaning to do!!
friends come and go. go out and make more friends
@Staximus I guess I'm gonna have to. I WAS planning to, eventually because I knew Ron couldn't do it forever but, who knew he was gonna die so soon?
It's not that I can't drive, I've already driven thousands of miles, driving my band back home from gig's in Erie (over 300 miles away) and Youngstown (about 100 miles away), as well as a few other times and everyone says I'm a really good driver but, I just don't like being in control of this huge, speeding chunk of metal that could kill someone if I make the slightest mistake, or if they do!! And there's WAY TOO MANY self-important psychos on the road that think their phone call is more important than road safety and I just don't want to be another road statistic!! I'd LOVE to live to be a little old man!
No one really has friends , not true friends. People think they do, but they don't really. Get sick and you will find out. Spouse maybe. If people are lucky maybe one person. Just because you know someone , doesn't not make a friend. I see this all the time. Well I know this guy.
spouse will always be there for you. unless you marry someone super shitty
I only have about a dozen close friends, but I know too many people to count. In my line of work, you meet new people every day, so your contact list can grow quickly.
i meet no one at my job. what do you do?
What is a friend? When you get to this age most of your friends have been taken into other directions by life (kids, careers, etc.). It's nobody's fault. It's just that natural progression of life. If you can count your friends on one hand you're doing pretty well.
I have very few friends. By choice. I'm an introvert. I don't like most people. And I don't need them to like me. So keeping my circle of friends small is my preferred way to navigate life.
@Staximus ,
Yeah, I get that reaction from people all the time. And it my be true. But I can be a great friend to people who deserve it. But those who don't may as well not exist. I don't need everyone to like me.
Hey, I’m sorry to hear that you’ve currently not got friends. I don’t have a boyfriend. Either situation can get lonely sometimes.
I do have friends but not as many as I used to.
If you are talking about on this website? Then yes no friends. Few people talked/texted them suddenly ghosted/ went inactive or few even blocked without any reasons. 😶
The only friends I have are the ones I live with and sometime there not my friends.
Don't know what's brave about it.. I personally pushed almost everyone away from my own bullshit. Really stupid decision by yours truly. Fucking anon.
They are all dead, although I have two friends I hang with every once in a while, I guess it counts
Irl 0. If they were willing to get 2 know me id have friends
where do you live? maybe we can be friends
that’s easy to admit when you’re pink anonymous isn’t it?
Its strange how many people would come on here post random shit but never answer the question
haha and what am I gonna do as a pink anon seeing that you have no friends?
so kinda like a proud way of saying you don't have any friends.
listen man, I live in NYC. I got no friends, no husband, no boyfriend. Every night I come home from work, just sit there, stare at my empty phone where no one texts me at all. My phone is so silent, I don't know why I bother to even buy a phone. Nobody to talk to. Nobody to check up on me on how my day went. During my worst days, I have no one to vent to. Nobody to do things with.
This type of life is so meaningless.
Its easier to just chat here tbh.
what about you? how are you coping with no friends?
@iron_man
is it easy to make new friends where you live?
I'm in NYC, its competitive as hell trying to make friends here.
@iron_man
Friends come and go. Very short lived. The most recent guy I dated... we stopped talking. Now I'm left with no one.
@iron_man
not interested in befriending anyone from latin america. Is florida friendly?
I'm thinking about moving down there to find a husband.
Over here in NYC, there is just way too much competition. Unless you are rich or beautiful, you have no chance here.
yea man, I never even wanna tell anyone in real life about this otherwise, they would think im weird.
its hard as hell making friends here. I have attended multiple social events without any success of finding friends. All we do is exchange numbers and never hear from each other ever again. I even invited them to dodgeball or volleyball. Never heard back
@iron_man
maybe it's just your location in florida? maybe i should avoid miami then.
what do you do for a living?
lets connect somewhere else. do you have instagram or facebook?
there is a dodgeball meetup every week near me. I've always wanted to go but can't find anyone to go with. so i don't end up going at all. living this type of life is just sad.
@iron_man
we can chat in direct message but i have a habit of forgetting to check there all the time. Talking via this comment section also has privacy issues since anyone can come and read everything i tell you
i messaged u
@Iron_Man dodgeball, i only played that at school. Every day i would lure the teacher into a corner, leave him with no balls, and then defend him from any other players so he has no choice but stand there and watch. Then i would yell at him "you said no teaming up!" Until he quit playing with us.
If you mean no friends on G@G, then yes I don't have any friends on G@G,
But in real life I have some good and loyal friends by Grace of Almighty Allah.
I only have online friends - no real life ones 😞💔
I thinks it's strange an anon user giving permission to other users to go anon? Anyway, why do you have no friends?
I have lots of friends that I never see because I'm always working and sleeping
That would be me, most of my friend betrayed me.
I got like "1" friend, few respectables-and a lot of haters!..
Eventually subtraction will become addition. Just wait. Some day Apple will fall down
I have 2 close friends.
i do but its really easy to not have any tho
I have a small number and about to reduce.
I have no friends.
I have 2 close friends
Me… sadly
I basically don’t
Nah, not a loser
I don't
Right here
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