How can I stop my friend from sleeping around?

[Anonymous]

Me and my best friend on the vacation right now.

My best friend is sleeping around. Back home she was a shy girl and now she just went wild. Some of these men were as old as 39..

[-ananyme]

Well, I'm pretty sure your friend knows the risks and how unsuitable it might be for her to do so.

Judging your friend and talking them into quiting an atitude is always difficult.

Try to give hints of how it makes you feel eventually, if she doesn't spend time with you and leave you on your own while she's sleeping around. I don't really recommend that you give her some moral lessons, she will just be annoyed and will keep her position, which is more likely to ruin your vacations.

If she's really naive though you might want to warn her.

Basically, wonder why it's annoying you, if that's just concern for her, if you're jealous in some way, if you don't think she's aware of the risks and consequences ... and only if it's a concern for the right reasons (her own good) then talk her into it.

[risingphoenix201011]

Be honest with her and tell her how it concerns you and how she could end up in some dangerous and bad situations.

[Opalivian]

Your her best friend, talk to her not when there are people around. Tell it to her when she is focused in a more quiet area.

If she doesn't listen...just let her have fun. It's vacation after all. Just make sure she doesn't do anything "really" stupid.

[Mtsmith]

As a friend, just be sure she is aware of STDs, and using protection. This may be her way of exploring...as her friend, try not to judge, but be there if she needs you.

[Dylan1989]

In a situation like this you can't stop your best friend from sleeping around. She will only stop sleeping around if she wants to. But you can talk to her and let her know that you are concerned about her and just look out for her.

[AllDay]

Tell her you are concerned for her health and you deeply care about her

and you don't want to see her get hurt.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Show her some of the CDC's latest statistics on STD's. It should be enough to make her sober up.

[the90swerethebest]

You can't stop her from doing something. You can however, tell her how you feel. How old is she?