Why are ugly people so overconfident?

[Anonymous]

Recently my best friend is really grating on me she thinks every guy is staring at her when they are not people have called her ugly to her face yet she thinks she makes heads turn I really want to say something like girl puhlease but don't know how to say all my friends laugh at her because she is ugliest of our group and yet she thinks she the prettiest

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We all have that one annoying friend so maybe I should give her some tough love and say he not looking you

[Anonymous]

Damn let that girl live! Would you rather she walk around with her head down feeling bad and hating herself? We live in a world that tells women every day that if you ain't pretty you ain't sh*t, but somehow this ugly girl finds the courage to not let it get to her, and you, her best friend are mad? Yeah she is probably overcompensating but the girl is ugly. People have told her that to her face. Of course she's gonna overcompensate for it. Just let her feel good. Damn

This is why I can't stand most girls.I hate to say it but my gender is full of mean spirited bitches. Y'all are supposed to be her friend,a support group, yet y'all laugh at her behind her back and think how dare she be cocky even though people clown her looks for something she can't control. Really think about that and how you treat people.with friends like that who needs enemies?

If it were me, I'd accept her behavior as one of her flaws and not let it phase me. Obviously this is a defense mechanism she uses to deal with being seen as less than because of her looks. You and the people who call her ugly are really cruel.

[Asker]

No it's because she continually tells us he's looking at me when no one is that's the issue and were not being mean stop over selling yourself to us when we are with you and know nobody staring at you if someone was we will acknowledge it

[Opinion Owner]

Just ignore it or quit hanging with her.you know why she's doing it.she knows why she does it. Change the subject when she starts talking that sh*t then.but seriously don't act like you can't have some compassion for someone you claim is your friend. She's the ugly one around pretty girls, I'm sure that take a toll on her.

[IsabellaPiano]

Are you sure she's your "best" friend? Or even your friend at all? I'm sorry but I would never talk about my best friend in such a horrible way, and why does something like that affect you so much? Firstly not everyone is attracted to a person based on looks though it would be stupid to say it has no factor. And so maybe she could be a little overconfident, who cares? Its better than self-loathing, besides beauty is in the eye of the beholder what may be ugly to you my be pretty to someone else, we all have different tastes. I honestly don't see an issue here.

[Asker]

The real issue is whenever we out she always like omg did you see the way he looked at me why am I getting looks your not is my argument that's all

[justme20]

Have you ever thought just because you find her unattractive that a guy will actually find her gorgeous? You know not every guy is going to find you pretty. You will have guys think you are ugly. I think you should focus on yourself and not be so down on your "friend". I use that word wisely because friends won't call each other "ugly"

[Asker]

One of our friends is fat she is mean about her and okay I shouldn't say ugly less attractive but the point is no smoke without fire we are not mean for no reason she has started claiming one of our friends boyfriend is staring at her like really maybe I am letting a silly little thing make me so bitter towards her but in one hour ten guys are wanting you why tell us smile say hey then us guys will be aware she getting noticed

[TurbulentDan12]

Because people tend to not think that they're ugly. That's not healthy at all.

[mashura]

I don't have any annoying friends. Maybe you should learn to be more forgiving. After all we constantly preach about having confidence and here you are trying to tear her down just for doing what everyone tells her to do. Be confident and you will be beautiful or its all about confidence. My favorite guys like a confident girl.

[Asker]

Be confident she should no harm In that over confidence even in pretty people is ugly I'm just sick of hearing did you see him NO I DIDN'T

[mashura]

Wow your kinda mean. Maybe they are looking. Are you actually paying attention to every single person she is staring at. Also if she is ugly it could be a defense mechanism so she doesn't feel left out around the "pretty" girls. If she is such a good friend you would not have been so harsh with your words.

[lace1228]

Even if it isn't true, let her believe it. It makes her feel good and that is what matters. But a real friend would know that... Just saying.

[JumpThenFall]

maybe it's a defense mechanism?