I gave him a hickey on accident now he won't talk to me?!?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy I've been friends with hooked up. We have hooked up more than once and I never left any marks on him. Well this time I did. It was a total accident. I would never do that on purpose. I don't think they are cute and we aren't together so I feel that isn't OK. But it happened and now he refuses to talk to me. He won't answer my texts or calls. I'm freaking out a bit because I do care for our friendship too. I just don't understand why he isn't talking to me over something that will fade in a couple of days.

Any advice? Do you think he will come around once its gone?

Or should I consider us friends no more?

[shawtylow14]

well it like the guy said its totally immature. like I feel as if he should grow up and get out his feeling. Some time hickeys are apart of sex. if it happens it happens. like and he wasn't complaining when you were sucking on him to give him the hickey.. like childish. once a guy asked me if giving a guy a hickey was a way a girl shows the guy as her property.. he asked me this because I gave him a hickey and we werent together but I was like what you gave me a hickey the last time we had sex.. but I don't know he is being ridiculous!

[Anonymous]

He will come around. You're still friends.

Perhaps, something happened and it's not related to the hickey.

Talk to him in person and ask what's upsetting him.

[HungryJones]

You have him a hickey and now he won't talk to you? What is he 10?

[Asker]

That's what I'm saying! I can't believe he is acting like this. Especially since we have been friends since last July and it will fade after a couple of days.

[HungryJones]

Lol unless there is something else that happened than just the hickey, I'd say stop worrying and let him talk to you again when he's ready. If I were you though I'd look for someone else to "hook up" with or whatever you do. Not talking to you over a hickey is totally immature :P