Would a man avoid you if he's developing stronger feelings for you?

[Anonymous]

I've been interested in a guy for months and I thought he was in to me too.He started the staring tha'ts when I noticed him and felt attracted to him instantly (sometimes he'd be staring at me with his friends),I catched him blushing 2/3 times when he didn't expected to see me and his friends where near.He confused me a lot too.One day he'd ingore me next day he would stare at me a lot.I'm very shy around him,and due to his confusing behavior I didn't wanted him to know that I'm in to him,cause I didn't wanted to look like a fool if I would find out that he wasn't into me at all.So I only looked when he looked, and I ignored when he ignored.But two months ago I blushed near him, and I think that's when he and his friends concluded that I did like him too.And later when I saw (out of the corner of my eye) him walking past me he was smiling and glancing at me but he looked quickly away, when I looked at him. So I thoiught maybe he likes me too.So the day after I wanted to approach him but I couldn't find him.Now it seems to me that he's been avoiding me the past two months at school. I never see him where I used to see him. Two times I stayed away a few days cause I was ill. Then when I went to school I accidently run in to him, and he and his friend were staring at me the whole time, I felt so awkward I couldn't look him in the eyes.Next day he was no where to find..At first I thought maybe he had less lectures that month or he skips some classes or goes directly to his house cause he had work to do at home or something else.., but now I have the feeling that he is avoiding me cause I still see some of his classmates. I find it so strange that this guy would be trying so hard to avoid me two whole months.I wouldn't try so hard or do it to any one whether I'd be interested or not..\If I don't like some one I still would go to school, still be nice and act normal, but make sure that I wasn't leading the guy on.So I don't understand why he behaves this way, cause we just locked eyes and then I would go to a study room to study..Or I'd pass him and we lock eyes again.. so I wasn't stalking or creeping him out, I think.

(Btw. We're both religious, he's 20, I just turn 21, I'm old fashioned (believe guys should do the approaching), he's popular has a lot of (attractive female) friends, and seems confident, but I've catched him blushing twice when he saw me..I guess he can be shy too, I'm only shy around my crush, but I'm good at hiding my feelings, and we've never talked, never been introduced to one another, but we have mutual friends and our brothers &sisters 're best friends, my friends say I did enough and should forget him cause they think he had his chance to approach me but he didn't..& that I'm out of his league, but I do not agree with the out of league thing cause I find him very attractive and cute, intelligent and I heared he's a very nice guy) Guys/girl, do guys act this way if they don't want things to progress, or if they are in denial?

[psychochick1986]

Honey I've been through this my man did the same crap sometimes he was into me even willing to hint towards feelings and other days he ignored me or went as far to put me down. I loved him for 4 years in silence we were f*** buddies for 2. One day out of the blue I get a call that made me drop my phone it was him telling me I'm the only woman he wants and needs and lets be together I asked him if he's sure and it lasted only 25 days he broke it off saying I was to good to him and we went back to our normal arrangement of fwb. Recently I let it all out on Facebook because when I try to tell him how I feel I can't speak so I posted I could shout it to the world that I love that man but I can't tell him. He came home all giddy even went as far to shave his but and kept speaking fast saying it was a special night he told me never been so nervous and he loves me then he made love to me whispering it in my ear over and over. A week later he says he meant it in a friendly love type of way. He's torn between stringing me along, being afraid to get hurt, being afraid to put himself out there and he's just as confusing probably more then any other man, My point being hun if you want to know you have to take the first step because he may never do it men are cowards just be honest if you can't tell him to his face go old school and write a note guys actually love that sh*t so they can remember everything you say they are just as sentimental as we are. Every guy struggles with fear of rejection its up to you to let him know you are interested if you want results then be brave.