How do I "innocently" turn guys on?

[Anonymous]

What things can I do that will turn a guy on, with out looking like I'm trying to turn him on? things like licking my lips absent mindedly, letting my sleeve fall off my shoulder etc. (especially since everyone sees me as innocent… I like the innocent reputation but at the same time I wanna be the innocent girl that still is seen as sexy)

(additional question I tend to take showers at my guy friends place while my guy friends are sitting in the living room guys what do y'all thing of that is that weird, teasing, slutty or irrelevant?)

[animalwithin]

Whats your end goal here? Innocent to me is a shy, sweet, reserved girl, not one who lets her clothes hang off her body and walks in a towel in front of a bunch of guys after she's done showering.

If you just want to get a guy's attention to show him you're interested and turn him on towards you, just flirt with him, wear attractive clothes, spend time with him. What a girl does only turn's me on so much, its who she is that makes me go crazy for her.

You could always just sit really close to him as he plays guitar ;)

[Asker]

I don't walk around it my towel btw.. I put clothes on and for some reason I always do it when I'm drunk .. I don't know why anyway.

Can you specify what to do when flirting and wearing attractive clothes

[animalwithin]

Be curious about him, ask him questions about him, genuinely have a desire to get to know him. Its a huge turnoff when a girl just isn't interested in getting to know who I really am. Smile when you're around him, compliment him on subtle things like his laugh or something that he does, talk about doing things together.

As for attractive clothes, not much to it, just wear something attractive. That does NOT mean wearing revealing clothes. Just wear something that compliments you.

[Scoopie]

You can act innocent all you want, in the end any guy will know you're not truly that way. So there's no point in doing that in my opinion, I know I certainly wouldn't appreciate it.

And yes, taking that shower is pretty weird if you're not living there or staying for a couple of days. Can't you just shower at home?

[ArabianPwincess197]

i've been told I'm soft spoken and that's a turn on

sometimes its your words that you don't even realize can turn a guy on like I was talking to this guy about something pretty normal and the next thing I know is he writes he's gotten hard

you can't be innocent lol no offence if you want to do all those things to a guy

[Ultima]

"you can't be innocent lol no offence if you want to do all those things to a guy"

Truth!

[ArabianPwincess197]

i didn't want to offend her but that's the first thing that came to my mind. Being innocent is when you have no idea or motive to make the other person want you, its when you say something that you don't the full meaning of sometimes - what she wants is kind of a tease correct me if I am wrong I'm not good at these sort of things lol

[Lafemmedeschats]

It's a bit um hm like insecure of you to take showers in front of your guy mates. As to being innocently sexy I can not help you there. Sorry.

[snowangle]

Stretch your arms and arch your back. I've heard from my guy friend that it drives him crazy when a girl does that.

[qwer1234]

Scratch yourself slowly on your breats and rub yourself between your crotch. If someone asks, tell them you haven't take a bath for months you've got lice.

[Asker]

thank for the help

[qwer1234]

Ok, I think you're really innocent. Listen, it was a joke. Don't follow my advice.

[RandomStudent]

One time this girl I like did a yoga pose in the middle of class. Not sure if that is too obvious, but it is a big turn on. Sadly my crippling shyness forced me to turn away, and pretend like I didn't see the yoga pose. You don't even need to do yoga, just Google hot yoga pose, and do it.

[Anonymous]

This really cute and innocent looking girl made eye contact with me from like 100 yards away in an airport. Neither of us broke the stare. She actually ended up dropping her boarding pass right in front of me.

Unfortunately, I didn't even notice she had dropped it until someone else gave it to her. I was just completely lost in her eyes up until she passed me. Then I was checking out her back side. She had a really cute walk.

[Asker]

so are you saying eye contact is a turn on?

[Opinion Owner]

yes

[Theguyoverthere]

Just be outright and drop the games honestly. Pretending you're minding your own business gets you ignored. Players just use girls who act like that for sex and throw them out. But if that's your thing... by all means.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you wanna be the innocent girl who suddenly gets all hot and heavy when we least expect and pushes us into the cleaners cupboard and starts ripping our clothes off...

...oh sorry my imagination was getting carried away :p

[Dionysos]

Depends on the guy. You gotta find out what gets his motor running because each of us is a bit different. Guys don't do subtle very well. You kind of have to hit us in the head with it before we'll realize what you want.

[AdamThomas]

Red lipstick - automatically makes me think about her giving me a blowjob.

Other than that, just being really feminine. Wear cute dresses (not slutty though), soft voice, good eye contact (yes it's a turn-on).

[sweetXspice]

Not all women are that feminine though. I don't usually wear dresses unless occasions call for it. I agree with everything else. The color red does always seem to get a guys attention though.

[AdamThomas]

Not all women are feminine, I know, but that's what most men find attractive. Most women prefer a masculine man even though not all men are.

One thing I love about my girlfriend is that she wears a lot of dresses, rarely jeans and t shirt.

[wendigoRed]

Be yourself and you can maybe turn you on, him on, the principle, 45 year old handsome neighbor, your best friend, Channing Tatum you'll never know. Guys like girls who are comfortable in their own skin.

[neoagent1]

just smiling at us when making eye contact with us is a perfect start

and the showers at a guy's place as long as you're not walking around in front of them in a towel isn't a big deal

[JohnnySS]

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=iVc04znrjP4

[cavmanier]

lol wrong!

[kangaru]

Lol

[Anonymous]

Try standing a little too close, kind of invading a guys personal space, that is ultra hot.

[MoneyBeets]

Be good looking, cute voice, touch him, smile, be funny.

[Asker]

that alone can't turn him on can it? maybe attract him but not turn him on?

touching wise any suggestions on where and how? like his stomach or back or?

[sweetXspice]

Depends on what your goal is... from experience, touching him is a good idea. nothing perverse, but making eye contact and touching his arm is a good one. If you want to be a little more forward, keep eye contact and rub his leg about halfway between the knee and private region. Above all, just be yourself.

[Asker]

Mm these work but they are anything but seemingly innocent

[Anonymous]

Why do you want the innocent reputation? just be real.

[Asker]

i am innocent, but I still want to be sexy.

[Opinion Owner]

well doing sex acts pretty much makes you un-innocent.

[kangaru]

to me is just be yourself

[Anonymous]

Give us a 'sex stare'

[Asker]

Thats pretty obvious