Let me tell you a story of my so called "best friend." We became close over the course of three whole years due to a mutual need for emotional support (bad relationships on both ends). After about three years, for the first time, we were both single. She then stepped things up to the next level and began to treat me like a romantic interest. Yet when it was ever addressed she would always tell me that "we're just friends. It won't work if friends date." I would have accepted that answer if she wouldn't try to hook up with me all the time. After a few months I had enough and point blanked her. The end result was a nasty argument and we didn't talk for two months. After those two months we went to a bar together to catch up and rekindle the friendship. As always, she jumped me back at my house and we hooked up. Just the same though, she pulled back and gave me the "friends can't hook up/date blah blah" speech she always did. I dropped her completely.
My advice is to take it at face value. If she calls you her best friend then you are just that.
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What does it mean when a girl calls you her best friend?
It's a pretty big deal when a girl calls you her best friend. It means that she trusts you, likes you a lot, and enjoys spending time with you. It's a sign of a strong friendship, and it's something to be treasured.
Of course, it's not all good news. When a girl calls you her best friend, she's also saying that she expects a lot from you. She expects you to be there for her, to listen to her, and to support her. She may also expect you to share her secrets and confide in her. So, it's important to be prepared for that level of intimacy.
But overall, it's a huge compliment when a girl calls you her best friend. It means that she values your friendship and sees you as an important part of her life.
Means absolutely nothing. You're never going to get anywhere with her. She'll love to talk your ear off about all her bullshit then she'll find a boyfriend or other friends and you'll be ditched as you become obsolete. I used to try "friendships" with girls and that's how they inevitably ended. My advice to you is to preemptively distance yourself. Girls don't make good friends.
This isn't necessarily true. I have feelings for this guy- we are pretty close friends, and even though I have feelings for him I don't want a relationship. He's not friend zoned, he's just only currently my friend, but it doesn't mean I don't like him or even love him...
it means she thinks of you as a friend only, do you keep trying to hit on her? she might have to keep repeating best friend to you because you won't take the hint the first time
It could mean anything, but in your case ... "Almost everytime I call or text this girl she's like hey best friend..." I agree with the guys on this one.
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Means you're deep in the friendzone, stop being so nice. Be an asshole sometimes. Don't bend over backwards for her or stress over her opinions, don't be afraid to disagree with her or stand up for yourself(and for her to other people) and I promise you best friend text will turn into boyfriend texts... eventually
It means you're permalocked into the friendzone. Which, if you're cool with that then great, but if you're wanting more from her, forget it. You don't have to stop being friends with her, but spend your vital time and energy pursuing women who want more than friendship.
The truth is & truly, I'm sorry for having to tell you this; shell never sleep with you & views you as an emotional tampon. NEVER invest more of yourself than she does. ALWAYS monitor reciprocation & if it doesn't exist go cold. She probably jokes around to her friends how she's using you.
It's her telling you that she will never date you or have sex with you but that she wants you to be an emotional boyfriend for her so she can fuck the shallow men she is actually attracted to.
You could be 'friend zoned'
or she has interest in you.
We don't know your conversations so...it's hard to tell exactly what the 'Hey best friend...' can be.I have a HUGE CRUSH on my friend, but I'm to shy to tell him so. So, I tell him we're best friends so he won't know I like him, because I'm not ready for him to know.
Its her setting the bounderies, you are only a friend to her.
Exactly like it sounds. You're in the friend zone and she considers you her best friend.
You have just entered... the FRIENDZONE
do do do do, do do do do, do do do do, doooooooIt means no sex , just her ear to tell you all her problems ;)
It means you ain’t have a chance. You are an emotional teddy bear for her. She might talk to you about the guys she is attracted to.
You're at her gay-friend level, as a guy.
She likes you as a friend
you, my friend, have just been friendzoned.
Means you're going nowhere fast. Trust me
it means you'll never become her boyfriend
could it be that she is warming up to you?
Do you like her as more than a friend?
My boyfriend has a girl best friend smh
She's interested in you as a friend
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