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The Designer Dress And The Cheap Shirt. An Article On 'The Chase' For The Ladies. (Page 3)
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A lot of girls play games because they want to see if the guy they're interested in is the same as other bad guys they've met and known. Girls learn to play games to weed out the players and find the good guys. I'm not saying it's "right", but so far, that's all some of us know. I guess logically speaking, "why play games to find someone who doesn't play games?" It's hard not to, though, when so many guys respond to the game and some literally ask you for it. If a guy doesn't play any games
[cont] becomes more attractive as he gets to know her. If you put everything on the table, clear your entire schedule and act like you're already in a relationship with a guy you just met he's gonna move on quick. Why? Maybe because there's no mystery. Or maybe he enjoys the flirty aspect himself. I don't know but I do know it's a good way to be.
While some of you have good intentions, there are some guys who will totally take advantage of a girl who acts like the "Cheap Shirt" before they are
I have to agree with bond007's quote when he said: "And yea.......I wish every girl knew that not all guys are thinkin about girls like girls think about guys.". I think the guys who are objecting this article are the guys who are actively interested in having a relationship. Most guys you meet are not going to be that upfront. Girls play games because guys play games. Not saying every girl and every guy does b.c we all date differently, but to MOST guys I know/dated/talked to/friends with
No disrespect to you, but hearing these kind of things frustrate me. Maybe it's because I'm 5 years older than you, but how come dating simply cannot be about 2 people getting to know each other? I definitely agree with some of the concept, but the method of carrying it out (I believe I speak for a lot of men) is annoying. Why play the games about waiting to text and pretending like you're busy? I believe that if only women did this, it wouldn't be so bad, but the fact is men are also told to
And he will get confused and move on.
When you're trying to get with someone, just be natural and be yourself. Don't MAKE time for them in the beginning. Show them that you have a life and that you can be independent. You don't NEED another person.
Do not PRETEND that you're busy when you really are not and don't not respond to texts or phone calls when you really could have responded.
itssimplekeepitreal did say that if the chemistry is there, it WILL work out.
Bond: the fact that you sound like a middle school kid makes pretty much everything you have to say null and void. it also proves a point. ladies, if you follow her advice, bond is the kind of guy you're going to get.
Standingpretty has it 100% right. Don't go out of your way to make it easy or make it difficult. Do what comes totally naturally. Anything else just makes you either a self righteous drama queen not worth spitting on.
Seem like an article about fashion advice turning into a rant right out of "the Rules" and outdated thoughtless book, I wonder how much success the writer has
Nice foray into the manipulative nature of women. The next time a woman accuses men of misrepresenting themselves to create attraction, this is what I'm going to link them to.
NOTE: this article is for women to like a CHALLENGE. bit of a thrill seeker - and tend to work better with ALPHA males, or ones with egos ... not shy men.
I think you are putttng too much stress on game playing like 'acting mysterious.' You actually have to BE mysterious, not ACT it. As you say, chemistry can't be forced. Neither can it be acted!
This definitely was a way different perspective on the subject than I've seen. Lol, there's a lot of "hidden info" for a guy reading, very good!
Excellent! This has explained it to me better than any similar advice on the subject of 'the chase' ever has.
And in the most fulfilling relationships I've ever had, we both knew what we wanted and we both skipped the BS.
Bunch of mind games, I don't know about you guys, but a girl who would purposely do this to me is not worth my time.
[cont] I'm not saying all guys are dishonest but they don't exactly show all their cards either so why should girls?
I really LOVE this article. I think you did a great job of explaining all this information. awesome!
Do some of the same things to "not appear needy", and it ends up being a back-and-forth psychological power struggle.
I think everyone plays games if they know it or not. Playing games can be fun. (:
Hmm...What if both sides read the same article and are playing the same games with each other? I guess nothing will happen between the two.