Why I Hate Being A Woman (Page 3)

[Kenni]

This ain't about being masculine or having strong features.
This is about a serious lack of self esteem, which no one wants to associate with cause no matter what they say you'll keep swimming in your self loathing.
I suggest you seek professional help about that.

[DollySummers]

1- your like a amazonian women
2- again amazonian women
3- You’ll find a man for you
4- all women are programed to think their ugly
5- You should open up, and you will find caring people
6- who cares what others think stay single as long as you like

[wolfcat87]

All women don't think they are ugly...

[AbdKilani]

You have a kind heart that l that matters ❤️♥️
*hugs *
I know one day you will find someone
Don't think like that just think of how great you are, and focus on being feminine

[justyourbasicgal]

A real woman is a woman that's not a hallucination and you can actually see her. Being a real woman isn't defined by your looks and don't care what others think, it's easier said then done but it's going to help you in the long run. Also, it's okay to be single and forget those that make fun of you because they're probably in bad relationships and can't handle that there's no one pushing you around. Open up more and try to gain confidence, trust me you'll get people that care.

[iskg679]

You aren't ugly. Insecurity tends to makes you think these things that aren't happening.

[mermaidrocketship]

So what if you’re ugly? I had a roommate who (not kidding) looked like the ogre version of Princess Fiona. Huge. Deep voice. Masculine. She’s married with a baby. Stop watching the bachelorette and rom coms. Look up the BBC show Miranda. Not all women are submissive little waifs. There are many unattractive women in healthy, satisfying relationships. You can find love just like everyone else.

[Hannajenky]

You need to work on yourself and your self esteem before you worry about getting a partner.

Quit feeling sorry for yourself and change your attitude. Life is not fair, too bad if you do t like it.

The only thing you can change is your bad attitude.

[shaunnxx1]

Your opinion of yourself will likely change once you've met the right guy. Besides it's what you think of yourself that matters. Fuck what others think and want.

[vikramdua]

From your discrpition you seem pretty cool. Looks are always subjective and not all a man looks for. I would love to date a woman who is strong and can take care of things by herself (read as you) . Also my fav singer is tracy chapman so a tad deep voice is really good.

[Bobaprincess]

Please don’t hate yourself. God created everyone in a unique way and he didn’t make any accidents. You are the way you are for a reason and that’s what makes you you! Embrace it. Until you do have confidence in God and yourself then you will always feel like this. Once you have confidence you will feel beautiful

[jss123]

I'm really sorry you feel that way. You've just met the wrong people. You're certainly not ugly. No one is. Its true there's someone for everybody. I'm 48 and also thought that about myself. So I csn relate to how you feel.
I'm now seeing the most fantastic woman. She thinks she's ugly but she's absolutely beautiful. Everyone thinks so except her. Its taken me a year to get her to realize how special she is. Don't give up. It sometimes just takes time.

[Anonymous]

You are underestimating yourself. There is a variety of men and women in this world. Different people are attracted to different types of people. You want find any human beings without flaws. A smile goes a long way, and the character is the real jewel. Sounds like you have both, so smile. :)

[Anonymous]

Having a pity party does not make you attractive. Focus on what you are good at, and go from there.

I struggle with depression and used to focus on all the bad things but the biggest results I got were from changing my world view. Neither drugs nor therapy helped this. I had to do the work. I suggest you start changing the way you view the world now so you don't regret wasting half your life down in the dumps.

[Anonymous]

Actually, I prefer tall, dominant and sporty type of tomboyish girls, I'm 100% certain there are lots of guys who would like you.

[Nicole9582]

Awww okay girl just going to say no one should feel that way:( everyone’s perfect in their own ways and I am the same as you like iweight lift every single day. But I believe that once you learn to love your self is when you can find love. It sounds cheesy and I’m not there yet but that’s what I believe and I’m sure you’re perfect and you don’t need to think of your self like that ❤️

[numerouno85]

Awww Cmon now, no more pity party it can't be that bad, I guarantee you are being hard on yourself. Tall, powerful, strong women are very attractive. Serena's the same height, strong and powerful and smoking hot!!

[Gedaria]

You are your own worst enemy , you say you are ugly , that is you speaking , body language people pick up on , they pick up on your negativity.
No matter what sex you are how tall how big , it is all relative to your demeanour , you smile and chat to people , they will respond...

[uravgguy]

I think it's because of the environment that you feel so alienated. Maybe a change of pace will be healthy

[PixiSophie]

1. 77 is not that big here in the Netherlands most people are tall here 😇 plus I'm sure even you can get a boyfriend if you put yourself out there

[BurgerKing99]

Stop judging yourself on other people. Be comfortable and confident with who you are. I guarantee there is a guy out there who would find you attractive. You don't have to date your co-workers. And please tell your negative inner voice to bugger off. Every time you get a negative thought, tell it it's wrong. Be confident with who you are.