Why are girls and women allowed to wear pants and cross dress when if boys and men wore dresses, they'd get laughed at? (Page 4)
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why doesn't society judge males who fuck different females everyday while if a girl has *2* or more partners is instantly called SLUT ?
This is not a sex based question. This is a fashion based question. I would appreciate it if you answered the question instead of throwing come backs.
no not at all
i am just comparing things
all things are related to each other afterall
they call us sluts but there isn't such a word for males who are worse than dogs
So you don't have an opinion on my question?
@chico_brah maybe you have an answer brodda
Yeah, cause that's such an important issue...
Maybe guys just don't like dressing like girls?
But it's okay when girls/women want to dress like boys/men? What makes it okay one way and not the other? Why are toyboys heralded but effeminate boys ridiculed? It's cross dressing, regardless which sex does it and why would males doing it be worse than females doing it? Pants didn't gain acceptance until the 60s or 70s and now because it's what females do, it makes it ok? What if all men abandoned pants for togas? Would it be okay since that's what all males are doing? What if women quit wearing lipstick and all men wore it? Would it be okay since all men do it and no women now do it?
tomboys, not toyboys. lol
What makes it ok or not ok is people's narrow mindedness. There is no law. There are conventions though. Why won't you go to work dressed as a clown? The way you dress says a lot about you. It sends a message. When you are trying to push a brand or coordinate a team towards a common goal, you want the way you dress to conform to that vision. You want to show the others you are going in the same direction they are.
Oh yeah, because you have to be appeasing towards society and your friends and workers? So you don't get to experience your individuality because you may not get a paycheck and working is everything?
It says a lot but it doesn't say everything. Why should I be bashed and you heralded because I'm not following a social norm but you are? What gives social standing the thing that matters? Everybody isn't looking to follow trends and some do unortodox things but it works for them.
Some cultures hardly wear clothes. Do tribal nations look bad because they don't wear all those fancy clothes that actors and athletes wear at ESPYs and EMMYs? We are creatures and human animals. Human and beasts are both animals. We aren't beasts but we're animals. A long time ago, nobody wore clothes. So if we didn't wear clothes today, that means we're freaks because we don't celebrate our inane animalistic traits? What makes your mindset on clothing better than my mindset on nakedness or less clothing?
You don't HAVE to. You can wear whatever the hell you want and people have the right to laugh at you. If not being laughed at is more important to you than dressing as you wish, then live with your decision. If you want to dress differently than other people, then it means you don't care what they think. If you don't care what they think, why would them laughing at you be a problem?
Clothing is important because it protects us from everyday hazards. Also for sanitary reasons.
If you took the bus naked, I wouldn't want to sit in your spot afterwards... Currently where I live, it's -15°C outside. I'd like to see how you would fare outside naked with no boots.
Being laughed at doesn't mean I'm doing wrong. Most people today aren't wise enough to know where they come from.
I easily can say you don't care what I think by choosing to wear what you do. You care about acceptance. That's why you wear what you do. Why not wear whatever and see if the acceptance comes to you or not instead of forcing a probable acceptance to it?
I really don't know I'm actually quite interested now myself but I believe in that if woman can do what men do. Men should be allowed the same thing.
Women we laughed at when they first started wearing pants. Now it's acceptable, it might go the same way for men cross dressing.
if a guy can pull off the walk in heels or looks good in a skirt go for it.. just as long as its not mine or looks better than me😉😜
What what you want Fuck what anyone thinks or that's my opinion
I live in a country where men wear dresses (kandorrah) so...
cause people want something to judge to be Asshole and screw what anyone thinks
you think you can also wear dresses but not girlish ones the ones for guys are ok. in some countries men wear dresses because the weather is too hot. like arabic countries
You know a dress is better for men than pants is. A pants traps heat which may negatively affect testosterone production. Tight pants and underwear are known to lower fertility in men.
'''The world shouldn't judge, if a man wants to wear a dress let em.'''
You are in the western culture. That is the way it is. 😜
Totally agreed with @electrikrainb0w nothing to add
We should all just go back to loincloths
Hell Yes. I love that thinking.
@bleh no please. how about inventing a new kind of clothes?
can you honestly tell me - Men will look half as good as women who wore pants and jumpsuits, if they choose a dress or a leg piece?
It's because in our society, being masculine is seen as a good thing and being feminine is a bad thing, especially if you're usually masculine.
Unless it's your culture, for example Scottish kilts, those are women's clothing items. Pants are unisex, but dresses and skirts are not.
Yes but like why can females get away with wearing male clothes without ostracism when it wouldn't work if males wore female based clothes?
Like I said, pants are unisex. Dresses and skirts are not.
Women airplane attendants wear suits and ties and that's male wear and nobody cares. If I wore a female cheerleader uniform, people would be grossed out. Why the double standard?
That's just how it is.
Nobody is stopping you from dressing like a fag.
Do you say a woman is dressing like a fag when she wears a full suit and tie as an airplane attendant? How dare you mention any sexuality assumptions to me based on clothing.
Nope, because women don't usually look like fags when they dress in men's clothes.
Men that dress like women are almost always fags.
It isn't just how it is. Quit accepting answers as it just is how it is. Start putting debates into this and be a man, not a wuss.
I have nothing against you, sir. I just wish you could see what I am saying.
I can see why you want to challenge double standards.
I don't accept everything as "how it is", but this is something that I will just accept because it's a stupid battle to fight.
men should be able to wear dresses just people are sexist
a man should be allowed to where kilts or skirts or tunics... it's only fair
As long as nothing is hanging out then guys can wear what they want.