So to get this straight, you want to wear womens clothes but you're worried about the reactions you'll get and or how you will look?
I'm part of a group on Facebook for vintage fashion and such, it's a really nice group of like minded women but we also have a couple of guys there. One of them is utterly gorgeous when he's got a dress on and his hair done, most of us are jealous of him! But my point is this... Maybe trying out some clothes in the privacy of your own home first would be a good idea, and maybe get some feedback from a group online if you're worried aboit your style.
My own opinion of it is this: mens clothing is dull, so I don't blame guys for wanting to dress up and look pretty. If my guy wanted to I'd totally support him and make sure he chose some nice clothes! I hope you manage to find someone to explore with...
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What I find most weird about cross dressing is that girls can do it and no one blinks an eye (how many times every day do you see women with pants on instead of a skirt, boots instead of heels, no makeup, short hair instead of long?) Yet as soon as a guy wants to put on a dress people start treating him like he's less than human, wtf? Makes no sense to me. And in some times in history dresses and lace and heels have been as popular for men as they are for women now!! Seriously, if it'll make you happy then you should find a way to do it I say. And I bet you'll look super gorgeous when you do it ^_^
Personally, I think everyone should be free to wear what they want... but I've definitely met crossdressers whose parents did not approve. Often they went to pretty elaborate lengths to keep their parents from even finding out.
Tell you what. Why don't you visit the "crossdressers" subreddit on the Reddit site. There are a lot of people there who go through similar things; they might have some tips to give you.
https://www.reddit.com/r/crossdressing/
Do it, if your parents can't except you for being you and achieving what you want, then they're obviously not very supportive. And if you like it then good because you're figuring it out earlier rather than 40 years from now when you're saying oh shoot I should've done that. And if not, at least you can cross something off your bucket list.
I'll be brutally honest here. Crossdressing is one of the least accepted fetishes or kinks there are. Lots of ignorant people out there who jump to conclusions and think you are gay. Lots of girls also quickly jump to saying they would instantly dump their boyfriend if he ever wanted to crossdress. This is not something you do and look to friends and family or even people out in public to accept it with open arms. This is more of a private behind closed doors activity. I like to dress a bit, but it's only for the bedroom. I have no desire to dress out in public, I am not into that, so I can't help you there. But trust me when I say most people will not accept it, and if you do find a girl that likes it or helps you with it, you better marry her.
Nah, a negative version of what I said doesn't work; stop implying that it does. Ex. "A square is a rectangle, but a rectangle is not a square." -- I merely gave an example, and then you came on here and started spewing horse shit. At this point, I couldn't give a hairy fuck what side you're on, you waltzed in here like a nimrod and made assumptions as to what I did and didn't say. I mean, when you combine experiences and facts into a single assumptions, I think it's quite justifiable. I wouldn't say that shit if I never witnessed it. Fucking hell with this keyboard warrior shit on this app lmao.
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It's so much more common these days, than a lot of people realize. I've known a number of guys, all outwardly very manly, but harbored a strong desire to explore their feminine desires, to varying degrees. It's no problem, really. I hope you explore and find comfort with who you are and that those in your life that matter, will accept you in that way.
Personally, no, I don't like it. I prefer my man wearing pants and shorts, a kilt maybe, to a cultural robe. But I could never marry or date a man who wear makeup or dresses. Id happily be friends tho! I just can't see myself ever having a relationship with a crossdresser
You may enjoy this author and get some advice and tips from their non fiction books. Don't be afraid to do it yourself. You don't need anyone to hold your hand. Do it in private until you have the confidence to go out in public and then go out with others like you by joining local groups. Enjoy princess!
www.amazon.com/Barbara-Deloto/e/B00J21HWA4/It's fine to do, I wouldn't date a guy like that personally but that doesn't mean someone else wouldn't. I mean, if I had a dude friend who wanted my help I could try, but I'd be awkward as fuck about it probably.
Man, go for it.
I've seen girls dating trans girls. And it's not an issue.
Also the feeling of being treated like a woman is so different. You'll love it. Especially if it's your thing.
I used to be a model (a few times I modeled as a woman. Of course I looked different back then lol)
It's a cool experience regardless of your sexuality or your sexual identity.
Best option is to go to drag shows and they'll be able to give you a better adviceMy fiance loves dressing up like a woman, I find it sexy!!
You have a fantasy. Lots of people have fantasies that they never act on.
I think it's different for everyone honestly and you should explore it to find out what you like. I have a friend who likes crossdressing as a daily thing and wearing regular girl clothes and underwear out and shit. I think that's weird and I could never do that.
On the other hand I like lingerie and crossdressing in those sexy girl outfits and such just as foreplay for sex and my friend thinks that's weird so honestly what you want to do may not even be your thing just try it out and see.When I found out my ex cross dressed, I was really open minded about it. I’d pick outfits for him to try on whenever he felt like it. But once he got arrested for upskirting minors, I just hate the thought of my bf’s cross dressing for some reason.
Do what makes you happy. Fullfill your goal instead of having this feeling of something missing. Just go for it. Be aware of who you are and find out what you like. Dont waste time with fear. Even God is judged so let the world behind.
Well as with most things, I woudn't do it myself, and I probably wouldn't want to be seen in public with a man wearing a woman's clothes, but I passionately support your right to do it. Perhaps you'll want to limit your cross dressing to social clubs where that sort of thing is well and encouraged. You may want to start small, try things like make up, maybe a bra (I'm sure you could find something online easily enough).
Well, cross dressing is a very large community, you have everything from drag (me who try to look as manly as possible whilst wearing the showiest sluttiest clothes as possible) to femboy/trap (where they genuinely try to look like women) either way, your best bet is to find a club or a website or even a subreddit and find people with experience to help you
Maybe I'm old school or just don't understand but I almost look at it as any other fad thing... looking for attention... if your gay then be gay but do we honestly need all these transgender rules... like I was at my daughter's college and they had a sign up for transgender pronouns and etiquette... seriously
This is your life. Quit living in fear. In today's world we have excepted who we are. If it makes you happy, if you feel it is who you want to be. Then do it. There are lots of women who can help. Who will help. Go into a retail store and ask the women within it to do it. It is there job. You might even make a friend out of it.
If you want to cross dress go for it. The best place to get help is a drag queen rally. A lot of my friends hang out with drag queens and they are extreemly helpful.
If you want to do this in public, go to a gay bar. It's pretty safe there. Really nice people there.
It hurts no one so I don't really have an opinion.I have friends who crossdress; I have no issues with it
I love to crossdress, love wearing heels, skirt, yoga pants, etc
Honestly I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
I don't approve of it. Whether you like it or not, you are a man if you have XY chromosomes. Instead of trying to be something you're not, learn who you are and be who you are.
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