Guys, is it weird if a girl ask for your opinion when buying clothes?

Question

Like when she can't decide on an item/outfit and asks you which one you like more or you think suits her the most. I am not talking about her fishing for compliments.

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

I'd embrace it but only to be honest with her. I'd clearly like not to get trapped. If you ask does this make my butt look big, I'd like to be helpful. Maybe saying it the right way but my thing is I would like to be honest in the right and helpful way. I'd like to be the one that helps others to say that dress or those pants look really good on you. I'd like to help you find something flattering now if that means asking for a person at the stores opinion for backup I might do it. But I do know what I like but I would also have to adjust to what a girl likes too

MeanderingTrex · Accepted Answer

I think it's important to note that when a woman is asking for an opinion, it's because they like to know what men think. It's also worth noting that if they don't like your opinion, they just get what they want anyways lol

NightFlirt · Accepted Answer

Here's the thing about clothes shopping, I may like an outfit, but if my SO doesn't think it flatters me, or just thinks it's blah, then chances are I'm not going to wear it again. So I encourage guys to go shopping with their girlfriends so she buys clothes that she thinks are cute and you think make her look beautiful. If you don't like something in the store she'll most likely not buy it, and you won't have to say that she looks good in an unflattering outfit that she bought without your input on.

RedKitteh · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I'm more of a mysterious type when it comes to appareance, so I rarely ask a guy to help me choose, however, if we're about to go out together, I will definitely ask him. I want to avoid a situation where I'm dressed radically different/better than him or viceversa. The point is to look nice together ^^

By far, they were very responsive and actually cared about me asking their opinion, so in my opinion I don't think it's weird.

nathanp97 · Answer

I hate it, because that implies I have to go with her to the store. I hate shopping! I also have no idea about fashion, so what I think looks good others might hate. + anything less than responding with "you look amazing in both" could put you in the dog house.

Mika1999 · Answer

Yes it’s weird, typically girls think that just because a guy says that looks better on you that he’s in to you (wants to fuck you) and that makes their egos bigger, then they reject the guy (even though he didn’t ask you out and doesn’t even look at you that way)

Then the freaks out and ends the friendship.

IME

cicchis0 · Answer

I like it, assuming it is not just fishing for compliments, as you say. I feel like my girlfriends have all been pretty switched on when it comes to understanding what looks good on them, so I know that most of the time they already know whether something suits them and they are just trying to involve me or please me. On the odd occasion when I can tell that they are genuinely unsure about something, I am flattered that they have asked my opinion.

brigfrey25 · Answer

Most often when you ask for a pick you have already chosen one in your mind and you just wanna see if the guy chooses the same or not. It's a weird Fetish you can say lol. Same with us when we ask to pick. But yeah weird depending on the type of clothes.

Mroz75 · Answer

No its not weird at all, on the contrary, and ofcourse not for fishing compliments, but it simply means that she likes my opinion about it, and i may be a special person for having the ability to give her my opinions about it.

Asking for someone's advice about clothes in general means that you care and close to this person, so you'd take their opinions about it. And they wouldn't lie about it. So no its not weird at all.

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

I have no idea about fashion and in my experience the same is true for most guys, so I do not recommend asking guys, unless you know they will be honest because they will either say you look good or you don’t because they don’t understand anything else.

Snickermarstwix · Answer

If I don't know her I'll be open to give her my opinion but if she's my girl... Why would she give a damn? I mean I'm already used to see her dressing very well but I'll still ask her : you want to wear it with what?
So she knows how much I know each one of her cloth cause she's the only one I'm looking at 🙃

Madhatter920 · Answer

No, it's not weird to ask someone's opinion and I don't like or dislike being asked. It doesn't matter to me. I'll answer, if asked, and then literally never think about it again after the choice is made.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Not weird at all, why would it be? I’ll give her my honest opinion on whatever she chooses and tell her that just because it’s my opinion doesn’t mean it’s right especially if she likes something and I don’t for some reason.

EmmaMary · Answer

If I have my husband in tow whilst out shopping, I will very often ask for his opinion on some item of clothing.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

in past relationships. I would typically go shopping with my female spouses. to offer my input when asked.

best was when it was something that flattered her body well. or even made her look more sexy then normally.

AlexRodrigues · Answer

I don't think it's weird in all fairness my ex use to ask all the time and thinks it's fine I wise to tell her what I thought she looked good although as a guy sometimes I would just lie lol just so the clothes shopping could be done but to be honest I don't really have good sense in fashion I just wear what feels good in all fairness 🤣🤣

IAMNathanael · Answer

I might think it would be weird of her to ask my advice. I'm probably the last person you'd want to take fashion tips from.

BCA6010 · Answer

I don't think I've ever even been friends with a woman who didn't ask me for an opinion about her clothes. I don't mind being asked, but I hate when they get upset for giving an honest opinion.

MrOracle · Answer

It's fine, but don't be that girl who asks for opinions and then always choses the opposite thing. A couple of friends had girlfriends who did that and even as an outsider it was annoying.

Simplicitysake · Answer

I like it and honored when my girlfriend honors me by asking my opinion. Some guys aren't comfortable enough with fashion to take a stance.

SjE78 · Answer

if a girl comes to me and asked me for my opinion then i'd be flattered as she thought my opinion would be valuable enough to ask

coachTanthony · Answer

————If women start asking a man about outfits and what to wear he might just be headed into... The Dreaded Friendzone!

ohshee · Answer

I like it I love it because I would live to pick out the things I would love to see her in or dress her in

MrKinktastic · Answer

I’m pretty used to it, but can really only compare outfits directly in front of me with any kind of accuracy

Lynx122 · Answer

I wouldn't mind if she asked me but I'm not someone that enjoys shopping so I probably wouldn't be there in the first place. :D

jasco · Answer

Most girls ask guys for a opinion if they want to be seen by that guy or by someone else but I dont really care I do it for them if it made them happy and as long as I didn't have to try anything that's perfectly fine

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Nah, if anything it’s a compliment cause it tells me that she not only trusts me but that she thinks I have good taste.  Both great things

Stingray444 · Answer

I actually feel honored.. Especially if it's someone I love/crush on

msss98 · Answer

I drag ny boyfriend and he doesn't seem to mind 😅😅😅

Titanic1912 · Answer

I like it. I can go into the fitting room with her while she tries on some clothes. I can turn around while she’s changing and then face her when she’s ready and give my opinion.

BoxySama · Answer

I would find it flattering, and it would mean she has a good sense to tell that I know what is up 😎
you may not like my idea, but I promise you that you will at least get up on idea better than that, that is what I am good for

high_kyle · Answer

Don't overload me with questions about ever item and its perfectly fine

Paul09 · Answer

Not weird at all. Not sure why it would be weird? I'd actually take it as a compliment. She cares how she looks in my eyes with a certain item. To me that is a great feeling.

Avicenna · Answer

I'd help to the extent I can, which probably isn t much.

moststrangestguy · Answer

Girls asking about. Clothes is the same when guy asking about hair we need help we want you to find us most attractive so help us get the best hair

Snakeyes7 · Answer

I like it but I will warn to take my advice with a grain of salt. I don't know what is considered acceptable in the female groups but I may just give thumbs up to everything.

humanearth · Answer

It's normal for me. I get asked all the time. Why? Because I'm a crossdresser.

william7160 · Answer

They never listen but I'm happy to give my opinion Anyway.

theCobbler · Answer

Why not? If You're a couple and seeing each other regularly. I like my eye Candy to look her best!

Trooper205 · Answer

I like it! It's sweet and cute! Someday, I hope to have a Girl who asks these questions. (And admits to fish for compliments as well)

ex-gager · Answer

Girls usually ask guys for opinions while matching clothes, even though they know that most of the guys have no sense in women's fashion 😂😂

james2018dean · Answer

I think it's good that she would ask her boyfriend/husband for an opinion. She is thinking about him and what he likes. That's very sweet!

chris_987 · Answer

Yeah it’s dumb, cause why would we ask for opinion on video games especially since you don’t play then. And we don’t wear women clothes so...

Sapio · Answer

not wrong at all, it's just we boys kinda silly about this stuff so we usually keep running away from it lol

Justlooking15 · Answer

Two sets of eyes are always better and I want to make her feel as comfortable and sexy as she can.

Anonymous · Answer

I do not shop with girls, I avoid it as much as I can. I would give my opinion on what I would like her to wear out of few given options, but my opinion is not the best in terms of fashion.

Eagle_93 · Answer

No it's not weird at all. In fact I quite like it.

Shark_61695 · Answer

I'd offer my opinion but I don't exactly have a sense of fashion.

ryanne · Answer

Don't mind as long as it ain't every piece of clothing lol

Slim57 · Answer

If she wants you to choose something yeah, if she wants you to PICK between some it's fine, one of my exes told me to pick an outfit for her one time and I was like uhhhh really...

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Depends on if there very appealing to a guy if so no

Dmann80 · Answer

Not weird at all... But why is it so important to ask when you already have decided what to wear? 🙄

Noodle_fan · Answer

i love it , especially if she asked my opinion not just clothes , but lingerie as well

joethemoe912 · Answer

No not at all id rather not be wearing something I dont like

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Nope not weird at all I shop all the time and have a good fashion sense

Anonymous · Answer

It's not weird. Sometimes they need a second opinion because they are on the fence about an outfit

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's an indication that she thinks you have good style or that she like you. Either way it's good.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Rare, but it's usually to buy something she was going to anyway.

green1supremacy · Answer

No. The man is weird if he does tell his woman what looks good and not good.

TallAnon · Answer

I love it 😁 They're usually very happy with the advice too

eagle1951 · Answer

If i went with her, than i don't mind giving. my opinion

P3p3peeeeee · Answer

I hate it. Girls always ask for opinions, but at the end of the day they do what they want.

anrc28 · Answer

I want you to hade nice dress that suite you the most

LoU_Hades · Answer

I'm just sitting in the store and enjoy the show

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