NO!, Round faces are the most feminine and you are drop dead gorgeous, you will find numerous people who like your look. That doesn't say anything about your soul, but you have nothing to worry about your physical appearance. Your relationship with Christ matters more, but he designed you for a purpose. Insecurities come from Satan as this attacks your purpose. Christ values you regardless of what the world (or men) think of you. I personally don't try to look at my appearance so much. I have my own insecurities, I have grey tooth, crooked nose, and scars but that doesn't affect my soul. My value is in Christ, not this world. I've been told I'm handsome, but that doesn't push away insecurities. What I find is when I'm sad I look bad, but when I feel happy I look good. These aren't objective standards and are unstable. I find Joy from thinking objectively and listening to God. When I do I don't worry. Please don't damage your body to appeal to a lie. Your soul will last forever, but the body doesn't.
Don't make the surgery mistake. Surgery affects your body, not your insecurities. Insecurities can only be dealt with by diving into them. Now, I can tell you that you already look beautiful but this probably won't convince you since you are insecure about your face.
I have had to deal with insecurities before and what managed to free myself from them is to realize that I was not that bad. Sure I'm not the most handsome guy in the world, but I'm not the ugliest either. I do have some qualities, some pros too and my cons are not that big of a deal in the end.
The best way to deal with insecurities is acceptance, accepting yourself as you are, especially things you can't really change. It's okay to be yourself and I don't think most people would feel negatively about your face. In all honesty, I did not feel negatively about your face, quite the opposite. I think you look pretty and the roundness of your face is something I did not even notice. Don't worry, you are good enoug.
I personally don't find anything wrong with your face. I also don't think your face shape is due to your jaw, I think it is just the hormones at your age. I had an EXTREMELY round face throughout my teens and although I started losing it a bit in my 20's, it's just now starting to actually get some definition. But to be honest, I probably won't have a truly defined face until I'm closer to 30 if I'm anything like the rest of my family. I find this is not uncommon, either.
If you want to give the illusion of a less round face, you could try wearing a hairstyle or applying makeup in a way that creates that look, but I really think there's nothing wrong with the way you look right now.
I think we all are our own worst critics and pick apart things we see as serious flaws that others don't think are bad or may not even notice.
Also, FWIW, I've rarely seen cosmetic surgeries significantly improve the way a person looks (if at all). Most of the time, they actually end up looking worse or fake.
You’re right, I’m trying to learn some contour methods but I’m not the best at makeup. Also instead of jaw surgery I also thought of temporary Botox that gives a slimmer face but kind of scared of the long terms effects. Thanks for the helpful advice :)
No problem! :)
You already have a small jaw and a quite large forehead (not overly large, it just stands out), a surgery like that would make you look disproportionate. You can try shorter hair (shoulder length) with lots of volume and that would make it look more slim and more suited to your preference.
Also, if everyone had the same features it would get quite boring. I would say your proportions and features are just fine, don't mess up with that
You’re right I thought of cutting my hair and my whole family thinks it gives the illusion of a smaller face like u said
Yeah, but not too short, just shoulder length or slightly under and make sure it has lots of volume, because the volume gives that illusion mostly. It's just it is easier to achieve with short hair.
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If you have a round face, then your face is designed to be round.
If you get surgery, your face will look "off" like it doesn't match what it's supposed to be, but only people who knew you from before will know what's off about it, but everyone will think it's "not quite right" in some way.
You think some other kind of face is more attractive? To whom? The man you should be trying to attract is a good man with a loving heart who falls in love with you, not some horny fuckboy who thinks you would look better if your face was shaped more like his favorite pornstar.
Not to be mean, but you'd better get some dignity and learn how to love yourself, or you're going to have a horrible, terrible life where you sacrifice everything about yourself to impress people who don't give a fuck about you. Contemplate this seriously.
Do you wanna look like "everyone else". I mean if everyone started doing surgery we'd all look like an array of dolls. I think social media portrays a distorted version of reality, and if you wanna find some peace of mind Id recommend you take a break from social media. .. You should know surgery come side effects, and it still doesn't guarantee that you will be confident.. confidence is a state of mind.
What you CAN do that is healthy, is practice and get better at the things that you love. Example, if you like drawing, then do more of it, because you will become more confident, and happy. If you dont know what you like, start trying different things. You are only 18, so dont be afraid to start any hobby you want, you have plenty of time to get good at it! You can also google for free online workshops on self-development. Self-development is the road to confidence and happiness. So read up, watch videos, do workshops. You will feel great and realize you are beautiful
Ok I know first hand how insecurities will make you feel and it doesn't matter what anyone says you still think its wrong well here is where I wish I had payed more attention to that infomercial on YouTube the other night I'm going to go find it I'll be back shortly but you won't even notice that I was gone
Found it its called
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Honestly... Unless your just a narcissist then no matter what kind of body or face you have you'll find something you don't like...
My advice is just to realize for yourself that there will always be people that don't like it and there will always be people that love it... So just take a step back and breath then pay attention to and surround yourself with people that support and apretiate you rather then judge you.
It's the face you have... So the sooner you learn to just accept that then the happier you'll be in this situation... If you can't change it y bother writing about it. Your obveously very attractive so just enjoy it
The guy I like always describes the ideal women with round face. And he looks like a model and talk and fit and very sexy. I think it is the most feminine type of face. Long faces look like eggs and look unfit just long. Squarish faces look fit and resemble male features, which some men like.. they are attracted to manly features..
but men who like round, like very feminine girls. And I personally would not like to be with a man that is attracted to manly features lol
Wow that’s a new perspective, I’m my korean culture they think a small face and pointy chin is feminine rather than a round face
I looked through your questions and I notice you're very concerned about physical appearance. First of all, hopefully this isn't weird, but you're not really someone who has to worry about physical appearance as you're very beautiful. But secondly the confidence you get from strangers or other people is very temporary. You've gotta find a way to find that from within. Know that you are beautiful, and be beautiful inside and out. So to answer you're question I can't really help you. It's gotta be something you just find within yourself, out yourself out there and if some people don't like you for one reason or another, who cares, it's not about what people think, it's about being the best version of yourself!
The problem with surgery is that I think you have an idea of how you want your face to look and surgery isn't a magic fix all. Sure you may feel you look better but that won't necessarily make you feel more confident. Maybe initially but that can fade and you're left with a face you're not completely happy with so the answer then is more surgery, and more, and more...
The answer is, at least how I take it who cares? It's your face and even if you think there are problems most people dont notice the imperfections you do. We all have insecurities and while people may say "love your imperfections" it's more about accepting them. There are people who will the parts of you you hate one of your best features.
Yes, a lot of people tend to just find other flaws they want to "fix" after plastic surgery and just get more and more done until they've completely destroyed their faces. This is why some celebrities look so ridiculous. They get too obsessive about what they perceive as "flaws" and go too far with it. Look at how many with perfectly normal noses get nose jobs to get those ridiculous looking, freaky thin ones.
And I wish I had a rounder face! Lol
Mine feels so long. All we can do is accept how we look. I personally think you are absolutely stunning. Never noticed the shape of your face. We tend to focus on thing others never notice- as I see other commenters didn’t see a “round” face when looking at you. What people will notice is how you make them feel. So keep up the positive vibe and be kind. You will always come off as beautifully
If you are dumb enough to actually ruin that face with you deserve the reproductions. But in the unlikely event that you are actually that insecure maybe this will put it into perspective.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/QbxinUJcLGg
Why? Round faces rock. I have one as well and its never been a problem for me. In fact, its almost always an advantage.
Look at Gigi Hadid and Selena Gomez. They are considered to be one of the hottest celebs. Do they have high cheekboned bony faces? Nope! They have round facial structure and chubby cheeks which is amazing.
They look great and so do you girl. Rock what you got, don't hide it. You are perfect just the way you are :)
Awee thank you that makes me feel so much better 🧡
anytime cutie <3
I looked closely at your profile photos. Ah, you have a classically gorgeous face. I am not just saying that to make you feel better. You have nothing to worry about. Accept yourself and others will. Those who do not accept you are not worthy of your time.
Best wishes,
JSmith
That would be very dumb you do tyat and you will be wishing you hadn’t. Your face will keep you youthful and in ten 20 years you will have a more defined Face while many people are starting to bow down to Gravity. I understand how you feel but trust me as someone who would trade in an instant— it will come back to grace you.
anyhow you are very pretty as it is. 💗
OMG is that you? You're gorgeous, and your face is beautiful. NO! Don't get surgery... why would you try and change what is already a beautiful creation? Confidence comes from within, but trust me when I tell you, you have nothing to be concerned about.
I've honestly always thought that you were gorgeous, so I still don't understand what you are insecure about. You call yourself a butterface and maybe in your culture people are used to other types of faces, I don't know, but you look perfectly fine to me. There is nothing wrong with a round face and you don't need well defined facial features to be pretty. Not to mention that besides your face, you have an absolutely amazing body.
Some women do breast surgery to be able to feel good with themselves. I understand why they would do it so if you need it then do it.
Feel good about yourself is halfway into happiness.
That being said! You look attractive and I don't think you should feel insecure. But do what makes you feel better. If you do it, do it for you.
Girl, there's more important things to worry about than the way your face/body shape is. If someone points out something that you can't change in 5 minutes, tell them to fuck off and go about your day. You just need to learn to not give a fuck sometimes.
Well unfortunately in my culture there’s a thing called “lookism” where they judge your worth based on how you look and it was always ingrained in my head since childhood that a woman needs to be beautiful
My parents family have always told me stuff about my face shape and it’s really annoying
You'll have 100 replies to this saying you're fine and gorgeous, etc. etc.
Which is accurate.
You are entirely boinkable. I never thought for a second you had a round face- and what would be wrong with that- until you pointed it out for me to look and see. I still don't see it. I do note you have oval boobs, or maybe round, I'm not sure. That takes more study. :)
Don't worry about it. You of all people don't need facial reconstructive surgery. You are girlfriend material as is.
Uhm your face is one of the most gorgeous I've ever seen.
Like, it's a personal dream of mine to get to sit on your face you're gorgeous! :*
There’s facial exercises and I would recommend drinking more water and less salt intake. Eat more healthy.
Isn't a round face pretty popular in Asian culture?
Not in my korean culture they always praise pointy chins, slim jawlines and overall small faces
I do not see any reason to be insecure, I think you are absolutely gorgeous. The thing is that no two people see a girl in the same way. What may not be as beautiful to one person is gorgeous to another. Do not put your happiness on the trends of others. Believe in yourself and let your inner beauty shine outward. To me you are gorgeous on the outside, but confidence in yourself (being okay with who you are) is very attractive and brings others to you and they will want to be around you.
I always liked your pictures and thought you were very beautiful. If you desire more of a jawline though, there is a simple exercise ball that you chew down on and it gives you stronger jaw muscles giving your face more definition. No surgery required..
1. Your "body shot" is stunning
2. That is where the men will look, not the face so much
3. Your face is cute and very feminine
4. You are (east) Asian, no need for the angular features of a Westerner.
Dont be insecure about anything I can tell you right now your round face is you,, it's beautiful your beautiful in so many ways except your self m and smile I've Sen lots of beautiful women before but your very beautiful
Ugh. You're so dumb.
Fuckin hot as shit and you're taking it for granted. "Boo hoo, I need to get plastic surgery because I made up some fake imperfection in my head."
Oh shut up you know you're perfect and just fishing attention. 😂😂😂😂😂 ... bitch I got a round face but I work myself sexy.
😂😂 yikesss 👀 it's true though
@RoastedToast honestly annoys me seeing nice looking girls do this. 😂
Well thank you but I’m still really insecure
😂 You want the best answer? Stop caring about what you look like and just enjoy yourself. Someone out there will like you no matter what you look like. The sooner you realize the happier you'll be.
You’re right thank you for the advice
The fact that so many guys replied who I'm guessing are showering you with compliments, should be a clear indicator that it is attractive
See a. therapist. perhaps you are suffering from body dysmorphia. I suffer from the same. thing but not to your extent it seems. I don't really seem external validation but yet im very hard on myself. I hope the best for you
i would like to point out that there is nothing wrong with your face, you look beautiful, and I will definitely say never change it, as you look perfect the way you do...
it looks pretty but there are different ways to do makeup depending on the shape of your face, go to neimans or nordstrom or something and have them do a makeover and show you how
Well if that’s actually you in the picture then the problem
is in your head not your face and surgery on your face won’t fix the problem in your head.
i'm not against it, but i'd recommend you wait until you're 21 and your body is done changing. you'd be getting construction done on a building only to have an earthquake happen every year for 3 years
Look up celebrities with round faces and follow them on social media so you're getting a lot of representation of your face shape
No one is perfect. My nose is too big and I’ve got oversized hands. Just make the best with the body you have.
I don’t know for woman beauty is a weapon and I’d much rather have a big nose and big hands than face
I mean face always comes first before the body
My body isn’t all that great either so who would I impress really
Not really I was born short with average proportions that can’t be changed
I’m only 5’3 with average proportions so yeah sad life
Yup and besides height I don’t have a pretty face so
I don’t want to be an actor but the best version of myself like I already accepted my height but now I want to fix my face
Why is a round face considered unattractive? Is that you just critiquing yourself or have you heard other people say that?
Sounds kind of extreme; its like saying brown eyes are unattractive when thats just not true.
According to your profil picture you are really beautiful. So why having a surgery?
There is really no need to be insecure about your face :)
Girl, you're gorgeous. Strong features are not necessary to be beautiful, and you're proof of that.
Thank you so much I don’t hear that a lot, most people I bet prefer strong over soft features
Well still i don’t fit into a lot of peoples’ types sadly
Don't let small things out of your control determine how you live your life.
I think you are really cute the way you are and will only get more so with time
Girls would rather hear that they are pretty than cute, I don’t like hearing I look youthful or cute
I am sorry. But you are mighty young and saying you are cute is my way of keeping you at arms length. But ok if you must then ok I do think you are very pretty
It’s fine I can’t change how I look anyways
Look already. If I were half my age I'd totally make a run at ya. If ya showed up in one of my classes I'd try to make sure that there were always witnesses around ok are you happy now. Look you have it going on and you don't need to change a thing.
If you want to change yourself because you want to fine. But if this is a reaction to what other people have told you then dont. You might regret it you might not, make your own decision.
Well the only way to change it is with plastic surgery but I don't think your face is unattractive at all.
I don’t think my face is unattractive but my face shape hinders me from being “prettier”
Body fat percentage. Might come with consuquences though
Well the only way to change it is with plastic surgery but I don't think your face is unattractive at all. it is so hot and your soft skin and your boobs attract us the most... You are a cutie pie!!!
Not unattractive but not super pretty either I get it
i think they have jaw exercises for slimming and shaping the jaw but I don't know
They do but those aren’t that effective I tried them
I might do surgery in the future
Thanks
No. Your skin is clearly soft as fuck.
Own that.
You can have soft skin and a defined jawline/face shape but unfortunately I don’t
You really can't.
It makes your body less malleable.
You’re so pretty! Don’t do anything to your face L. Embrace who you are and “Rock whatcha got!”... is that you in that yellow top? (so sexy).
Promise me that you won't have some quack take a knife to your beautiful, beautiful face. You don't need surgery; your face is perfect just the way it is.
Do not get surgery - trust, it’ll be your biggest regret
That is just how your genetics played out
It sucks
Rock it with a self mockery 😎
Are you kidding? You are one of the most beautiful women on G@G... Why would you think of changing anything?
No, don't chop up your body. You look great, nothing is wrong with you. Learn to love what you have.
Me thinks you need a shrink. The epitome of ridiculousness.
Your face looks very nice, IMHO. It's what nature and genetics gave you so there is no reason to fret over it.
Surgery is an option, but even after that, it's likely you'll still be insecure (and look worse). It's more about accepting yourself in general.
If that's you in the profile pic, you're really pretty! :D
You really shouldn't be, and therapy might be a better idea than any sort of surgery.
your face is fine bd yoj an lovd your face its not scared or danaged looks good
Accept your self, being insecure about something you can't change is a waste of time, and quit toxic relationships that keep your insecurities on
You are gorgeous, don't be insecure at all it looks really very very beautiful.
Just stop being insecure. That's all there is to it.
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