What can we do to make sure non-rich women will still care about their appearances after graduating college?

[Anonymous]

It's no secret that women are at their absolute hottest and actually about their looks the most in their college years (18-23 years of age). While the same goes for men, there is one major difference.

The major difference is that non-rich men (at least the vast majority of) still care about their looks after college just as much as, if not more than they did in college. The vast majority of non-rich men actually continue to go to the gym to workout, take care of their skin, get fashionable haircuts, eat healthy, and wear fashionable clothing to try to attract gorgeous women. However, the same cannot be said for non-rich women, as they all completely let themselves go. They stop working out completely (which leads them to all being fat and possibly obese), they don't take care of their skin (leading to saggy and wrinkled skin and manly-looking faces), they start eating junk food left and right (another contributor to women being fat and possibly obese), and they wear completely unfashionable/unattractive clothing and get unattractive haircuts.

So what can we do to get non-rich women to stop letting themselves go and actually take care of their appearances after graduating college, like the vast majority of, if not all non-rich men?

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

That’s really sexist. First I think it’s that a lot of lower class people have less access to a decent schedule and they don’t have time to cook , or go to the gym as much or to afford to eat healthy. They are just busy and buy fast food (men&women). Also once they have children it’s kind of hard for their body’s to bounce back.

[SunsetRise]

Where the hell are you getting your information? I don't believe for one second that the vast majority of low- to middle-class women would ever just "let themselves go" right after college. You can't prove that. You also can't prove that the majority of men will take care of their appearances throughout their twenties.

There are so many people I know that have let themselves go WITHIN COLLEGE.

As for things "we can do to get non-rich women to stop letting themselves go and take care of their appearances", I really don't think there's anything you can do without sounding rude. I hope there's not. Because so what if women want to eat and chill instead of going to the gym or putting on makeup? Why do you care so much? It's ultimately our decision what we do with our bodies and no one else's.

[Asker]

The vast majority of, if not all non-rich post-college men actually keep trying our absolute hardest to be the Greek Gods or the Adonis the gorgeous women fawn over the moment they see them. But I have never seen a single non-rich post-college woman look like she put even the slightest of effort into their appearances, and yet they all demand an extremely wealthy Adonis or Greek God to be their boyfriend or husband. This essentially means that no matter how much effort we put into our look and how handsome we try to be, non-rich post-college women will force us to settle for them even as they let themselves go and haven't put even the slightest of effort into their appearances.

[SunsetRise]

My great-grandfather once said, "You can fix a lot of things in life, but you can't fix stupid."

[Asker]

I am not the stupid one here. I am basing this off of reality. I have only seen men take care of their appearances after college when they are not rich. But the same cannot be said for women at all.

[SunsetRise]

Okay.

[hahahmm]

What you do is think about this *before* you take a woman seriously. If a woman has no self-control that's a red flag. If she eats like a pig & doesn't exercise, that's a huge flag, regardless of how fit she looks today... think about the long term. If you meet a woman 5-10 miles down a hiking trail, it's way more likely she's going to stay fit long term compared to the woman you found chugging coleslaw at the local mall.

Look at how much muscle she has too. In my experience the women with lots of muscle age better. I'm not saying she has to look like she's on roids or have a six pack (ha). Women should have a higher body fat percentage than a man... But she's not all soft. Especially the legs. Tells you a lot.

[hahahmm]

Same thing goes for if she takes care of her skin. if you see a woman who never uses any kind of sun protection or moisturizers BEWARE. She's going to age like rotten tomatoes down the road. Her being lazy about that stuff is a symptom of her being lazy about more stuff too. The things that are good for you in life tend to take more work than the things that are not. Yes, in theory she can learn this stuff later in life but most don't bother.

Far as rich guys with fit rich women... part of the reason is that those guys mentally have high standards and don't leave any doubt in their woman's mind that they expect her to be fit & be concerned about that. He knows 1000% he can get a better looking woman any day of the week so his approach to his woman being lazy is different. Now some women will take this as meaning that he only cares about her looks. I take it to mean that he respects himself too much to let her disrespect him by taking everything he provides her with for granted and not valuing his preference for a fit looking woman. And yes, he should be fit too. Non rich guys with this thinking will be with women who stay fit long term also.

[Avicenna]

It's up to women to decide what they want to do with their skin and diet.

What you posted about men taking care of themselves isn't quite accurate- some of us do, but I doubt it's a majority

[Asker]

From what I observed, it is a vast majority regarding non-rich men. But regarding non-rich women, it's nothing more than a pipe dream at this point to find one who puts even the slightest of effort into their appearances after college.

[Anonymous]

"The major difference is that non-rich men (at least the vast majority of) still care about their looks after college just as much as, if not more than they did in college. The vast majority of non-rich men actually continue to go to the gym to workout, take care of their skin, get fashionable haircuts, eat healthy, and wear fashionable clothing to try to attract gorgeous women."
Lmfao that's funny

[Asker]

It's not funny at all. It's actually true.

[KodeSoal]

“It's no secret that women are at their absolute hottest and actually about their looks the most in their college years (18-23 years of age)” LOL. This is hilarious. I’m hotter now than when I was a college student and I’m going on 26. Not a huge age difference, but just wanted to debunk your claim. I’m 40 pounds thinner now, have no acne, am rich and have really nice clothes, have a personal trainer, etc. Just because a woman is “younger” doesn’t mean she is hotter, sorry.

[hahahmm]

He's saying that because he's 18-23. Anyhow, most women start going downhill after 20s because of their lifestyle choices and because modern life doesn't really require much physical work from them. Some women age like wine but at some point they go downhill too -- usually. And different women have different ages at which they start to go downhill. For one woman it's 28. For another it's 40. For another it's 60. Or whatever. But it looks like if a woman exercises & eats healthy she can keep herself looking good indefinitely.

[GoldenTulip]

Lol but still you don't have the guts to ask this question openly. You hide on anonymous. Afraid for people who are against this. because this is bullsh*t. I don't know where you get this information from?

[vee31]

Everyone have to be the best version of themself.
Starting from themself ofc.
Minimum from how they look.
Believe if ourself is a gift for someone in the future..
And listen to life lesson from 50 y old woman..

[Asker]

"and listen to life lesson from 50 y old woman"

Yeah right, post-college non-rich women don't put even the slightest of effort into their looks, and they despise young (18-23 years of age) and gorgeous college women simply because of their looks. They have no credibility.

[msc545]

Make sure they keep dating rich guys.