Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conway-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them. In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men. Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
@RingOfFire Usually its the older men who want the much younger women. But these much younger women just don't crave old men. Women tend to like men just a few years older, not much older.
Are you talking to me? You can't be because I never said anything even remotely close to that. Sound like you need to put words in my mouth so you can be angry at me or something. Very weird.
You manufactured things that you fantasize that I said when I said nothing even close and then you used that fantasy to find some crazy reason to be bitter towards me and imagine that I am a misogynist. WTF! That's just plain CRAZY! 🤪
I feel the opposite - I find women in their 30s till 40s to be hot and sexy asf. I would literally have sex with them everyday and every night, I am currently in a NSA with a 35 year old milf, just love her full matured body and brains :P
Women dont usually date for peak physical beauty though. An older man with money, power and wisdom is often more attractive than a younger man even if the younger man was better looking.
And that plays a role in what they determine is attractive. For example girls have been going crazy over my gray hair thats really starting to come in. I wouldn't say gray is ideal but in a younger crowd when teen girls are rubbing my beard and touching me while ignoring a good looking 20 year old maybe gray hair is what they determine to be attractive.
@bamesjond0069: So in other words a gold digger? You claim you are a millionaire on this site before so that's probably why they are all over you.
The ugly reality is physical attractness matters to both genders whether they admit it or not, and once you reach pass a certain age and you don't have good genetics, you begin to look old and like 💩
Besides, the fact once we start to get older and pass our primes are general energy levels aren't the same, sexual drive isn't the same. Youth is the glory, not has beens. I know it sucks but it's the harsh reality for literally everyone.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy I honestly see nothing wrong with older men using their money to date younger women. It’s only bothersome when they start to get angry, misogynistic and complain about how these women only wants them for their money, or how they might cheat on them with younger guys. If you wanna play the game don’t bitch about the rules.
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I don't know why but I find women in their 30s the hottest
Honestly think 30s are sexiest. But older men in general are hotter
It's been said 100 times on GAG. Men age like wine, women age like milk.
And some men are born ugly af do it doesn’t matter how they age
@Needtovent I don't agree guys around my age are most attractive
@Yyyyu the point I’m making is that if you’re unattractive, you’re going to be unattractive at any age right? Especially for men.
I just looked at your age. I find 21 year old men to be like babies so I guess it’s all about perspective.
i don't think thats always true. Men look best late 20s- early 30s
"Are women the most attractive in their early 20s and men the most attractive in their late 30s?"
I'd say that's about right.
i find men to be most attractive late 20s- early 30s
Tastes vary, but I think that statement captures what the majority opinion is.
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conway-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
I've seen those figures and polls, but there is a lot going on there.
One thing is that who you are most attracted to and who you want as a partner are not necessarily the same.
@RingOfFire Usually its the older men who want the much younger women. But these much younger women just don't crave old men. Women tend to like men just a few years older, not much older.
My ex was 27 years younger than me. Is that much younger?
I doubt you had an ex that was 27 years younger. Many men on here lie about such things to boost their ego
who the hell dates a man so old that he can't even fuck anymore?
How did you get so bitter?
But thats the truth, ain't it?
No it's not.
Of course. You just said that men are hotter at 89 than at 29.
why would anyone believe you?
Are you talking to me? You can't be because I never said anything even remotely close to that. Sound like you need to put words in my mouth so you can be angry at me or something. Very weird.
i think you're the one who is angry which is why you're a misogynist.
You manufactured things that you fantasize that I said when I said nothing even close and then you used that fantasy to find some crazy reason to be bitter towards me and imagine that I am a misogynist. WTF! That's just plain CRAZY! 🤪
I would recommend psychological therapy.
You're the one who is bitter on here. Your passive aggressiveness is extreme. Not to mention your blatant obvious lies to slander women.
Whatever you say honey. 🤪
you're 66, when are you going grow up? you're living proof that some people do not mature with age.
Maturity isn't everything you know. There is a lot to be said for immaturity. 😉
Well its no wonder you're still single and unmarried at 66. No woman would be able to stand your attitude and lack of respect.
I think you have a crush on me.
I think the statement "Are single men over the age of 35 damaged goods?" applies to you perfectly.
Yep! It's a crush! 😍
I guess it hurts too much for you to admit it right? haha
I'm sorry
Well at least I got a laugh out of you instead of the grunts.
I've been around. I know a crush when I see one. 😎
You also know that you've been around long enough that women no longer find you physically attractive anymore.
I wasn't aware of that. But thanks for letting me know.
Have to run to go cry. Feel free to PM me if you miss me later. 😉
Of course you're not aware of that. You haven't been on a date in the past 35 years.
I feel the opposite - I find women in their 30s till 40s to be hot and sexy asf.
I would literally have sex with them everyday and every night, I am currently in a NSA with a 35 year old milf, just love her full matured body and brains :P
Both are at their best in their 20's. 20's are the peak years of physical beauty.
Women dont usually date for peak physical beauty though. An older man with money, power and wisdom is often more attractive than a younger man even if the younger man was better looking.
And that plays a role in what they determine is attractive. For example girls have been going crazy over my gray hair thats really starting to come in. I wouldn't say gray is ideal but in a younger crowd when teen girls are rubbing my beard and touching me while ignoring a good looking 20 year old maybe gray hair is what they determine to be attractive.
@bamesjond0069: So in other words a gold digger? You claim you are a millionaire on this site before so that's probably why they are all over you.
The ugly reality is physical attractness matters to both genders whether they admit it or not, and once you reach pass a certain age and you don't have good genetics, you begin to look old and like 💩
Besides, the fact once we start to get older and pass our primes are general energy levels aren't the same, sexual drive isn't the same. Youth is the glory, not has beens. I know it sucks but it's the harsh reality for literally everyone.
@bamesjond0069 those women don't find those rich old men attractive there is reason why so many mens complain about cheating and dead bed room
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy I honestly see nothing wrong with older men using their money to date younger women. It’s only bothersome when they start to get angry, misogynistic and complain about how these women only wants them for their money, or how they might cheat on them with younger guys. If you wanna play the game don’t bitch about the rules.
@Dali-chan: You don't use materialist to attract. Either you're with the person from the heart or not.
I think they both look good when they are 17. After that everything run down
I find women in their early 20s much more attractive
Physicaly in their 20's but looks arnt everything. Nothing hotter than a mature woman in her 30's
I find men most attractive in their early and late 20s I think same about women
There' are great women of all ages.
I like guys in my age group
Like everyone should
I’d say early 20s for both
16-30 for women. 30-46 for men
its late 20s- early 30s for men.
Nah. Depends on the person.
True for the woman not for the man
Yes that is about right
Also, men age like fine wine and women age like milk. Take it for what you think it's worth.
Men are most attractive from thirties to forties.
Depends on the people
18-49 is the limit for me.