Can men be happy with girls who aren’t the most beautiful and not under 25?

[robbo]

I know this sounds silly. But I spend my life on the internet. Okay so I should get out in the world? Males rejected me when I was in the public world. I did not match the phenotype of my peers. Now mixed girls are considered more cute and exotic and attractive. But I just feel ugly and sef hate and OCD has led me to pick at the acne that I’ve been suffering with for the past15 years. I’m like a meth addict I really get in there and leave sores on my face. And I also cut off all my hair out of self hate and keep obsessively cutting it and not allowing it to grow because I think it is uneven. I know what y’all are already gonna say, that my attitude is th e problem and what will scare people away. But I need to know that even if I fix my attitude i still won’t be seen as ugly. Because if I’m still ugly with a good attitude. I don't know I just want to die I just want to feel attractive.

[adventurous-1]

This is a really subjective question, what I find attractive may not be the same for someone else. I go for more than just the physical. The imagination, attitude, and type of person they are all plays into it. There's inner and outer beauty and most people one is more prevalent that the other but both are important. Remember the brain is the main sex organ, how you project yourself to others with your words, appearance, and expressions are vital. Find some positive things and start from there, Nothing worthwhile is easy, the work is its own reward. Just give yourself time to become the person you want to be and above all" don't give up!" pay attention to fashion, learn how to do makeup properly, and have a positive attitude when you are around people. Every journey begins with a single step, pick yours and start walking.

[slatyb]

Of course they can. There are very few women who are "the most beautiful".

[Anonymous]

It’s not your looks you just sound mentally ill and I hope you can find some happiness. If you see couples in real life it’s not just beautiful people that find love for sure. I hope you get some help and find happiness.

[Mac-One]

Beauty goes beyond looks and age is relevant. 25 is old for a 16 year old and young for a 40 year old.

[PraviteliNahuiValite]

Yes, according to users on this site.

And stop the fucking self hate.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes. I am fond of quoting a song by Louisiana fiddle player extraordinaire Amanda Shaw by saying "Pretty Runs Out." Outer beauty always eventually fades. Inner beauty remains.

[Dav1dTh0ma3]

Well, should the same be said for men. I mean don't all women want Channing Tatum?

[Anonymous]

For sure why not?