Do You Care What The Opposite Gender Wants Your Appearance To Be?

Question

like, i get it, certain things your opposite gender finds attractive that you don't find attractive about yourself. like, for example, people say i look good in saree and my personal opinion of me in a saree is i look fat and too traditional, both of which i detest, one more than the other, and many guys would also be of the opinion that i don't look as good in a gown as i do in salwar kameez — BUT I DON'T LIKE SALWAR KAMEEZ, AND MOM THINKS NOT CARING ABOUT MY OPPOSITE GENDER'S OPINION ON MY DRESS MAKES ME LESS APPROACHABLE.

so while choosing outfit, do you care what your opposite gender is gonna assume based on that?

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Do You Care What The Opposite Gender Wants Your Appearance To Be?

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razelove · Accepted Answer

I care if I'm currently looking for someone to sleep with. Other than that I dress for my comfort only. It is very important if you're looking to attract women like crows to shiny objects that the appearance gets them close. There is no difference between men and women for appearance being important in creating that first ten seconds or so of talking.

Men won't approach a woman who isn't attractive to create that opportunity, and women won't give it to you if you look like a slob. If you aren't looking to get laid though, it is absolutely irrelevant as long as your hygiene is good.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I never cared...

even if my exes had a preference for something different, I didn't change it for them... not like they never asked me either, but still

besides that... there's 4 billion of the other gender out there, and not all of them are into the exact same thing, no matter what... many will be into you, just the way you are and the way you want to be

and there's a lot more who are still going to be into you... even if there's this or that, that they do not exactly prefer

being genuine is the most attractive of all things...

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Not much, primarily it's my personal sense for style, elegance and comfort that determinants my outfit choice. Of course I will attract more male glimpses with outfit like a prostitute than in wool pullover and black jeans. However I don't think I gain something useful if lot of guys in a nightclub get blood deficit in their brains because their entire blood moves to their pants while watching me dancing.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I take notes of what they find the most appealing but I don’t apply it unless I’m close to losing their interest and THEN thats when I pull out the trump card 😂

ChiTown33 · Answer

Only if it suits me as well. Like for example I know most women don't care for facial hair. I like rocking a goatee. But I also find facial hair kind of bothersome at times. So I wouldn't fight very hard to keep it if she didn't like it. Know what I mean.

Luffy1990 · Answer

Yes I sm gonna care a little. (In terms of hygiene) ) I wear what ever I want , and hope I run into the right woman. Your mom should let you be you , so you can have a guy fall for you just the way you are.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Not really, I do things that I want for my own appearance, not what others want. I’m the one who’s stuck with my own appearance for my life, other people come and go. Aslong as I like what I see then that’s all that matters.

VikingWarLord · Answer

Chics seem to equate a man's looks with how fat his wallet is

They did this street test where they put a pic of the same guy in a picture

one with him as like a day laborer working on construction
and another of him as a doctor

Random women rated him a 5 or 6 when shown him as a construction worker

But other random women rated him an 8 or 9 when shown as a doctor.

exitseven · Answer

I used to care a lot more than I do now. I just try to look good for my wife.

Randalama · Answer

I did until it became fashionable to shave your balls. Dudes shaving their arms, backs, legs. Wearing the tight pants with no socks. I'm not shaving my balls. I'm not wearing the skinny jeans with my underwear hanging out. Ima wear my jorts with pride and dignity. I already know how to jerk off so I don't have to gaf. WTF? Now I'm upset. Your question has upset me.

AdithyaR · Answer

I've learnt long ago that it doesn't what I wear, I'm not gonna be anyone's choice to date.
So might as well like what I wear.
And honestly it doesn't matter if someone thinks I like a model in a certain outfit, if I don't like it, I'm not wearing it.

Counterclocking · Answer

I care because I want a good looking woman. Looks definitively matter to me. I definitely want a woman with long straight hair, nice body, dresses well (wears dresses/skirts, pantyhose, and pumps (high heels 👠 a plus). I want a woman that will look her best and attractive to me at all times. I care about a woman’s appearance. As you would figure, I’m a heterosexual not a homosexual.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I care more about the opposite gender because I'm heterosexual and want to be approachable. I am totally willing to change anything as long as it doesn't involve plastic surgeries, especially my behavioural traits.

I do believe in equal rights for men and women but I think women have the responsibility to be phyically attractive since men are more visual and we are more emotional.

There are men who desire women like Amber Heard while I could never like a man with a bad personality regardless of his looks and money.

Spade_01 · Answer

No. If not anything, it'll be too tiring for me in the end. She'll either like me for how I look or she won't. I'm not going to compromise how I want myself to look.

PointTaken · Answer

I don't care. She should be comfortable with what she wears. It's not the clothes I'm talking to or the hair. It's the person. I don't wear slacks or fancy shirt. If I wear a button up shirt, it'll be open with a t-shirt under it.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, that is totally their problem.

EmmaMary · Answer

As far as I'm concerned if they don't like it, they can lump it!

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Not really, I have a style that most of my girlfriend's liked, so it was never a problem. I think that is one of the reasons it drew them to me.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Nope. That guy sounds like someone who never left his basement and gone to a festival or concert before. What a sad life.

McGrill · Answer

I don't really care. Its what you are in your eyes. No one is giving you the money or even your bills to point fingers at you and tell you that.

Anemone978 · Answer

I don't care unless I want to impress someone of the opposite gender which isn't often lol

Siri137 · Answer

I couldn't care less, and I agree with the 'tweet' in that image.

QuietVerbena · Answer

Not really, no. I agree with you on this one.

Jin-Jin · Answer

Hell no, I don't care if other people hate the way I dress

the_sinner · Answer

Not anymore. I try to look presentable but I can’t just go by other people’s expectations.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I don't really care what other people think. I wear whatever I'm comfortable with. I just make sure that I look presentable

call_me_scar · Answer

To some extent yeah but for the most part I just try to be comfortable

HaveNoName · Answer

Only if my wife had a problem with some trend of mine, and only if I feel she may have a point.

TallAnon · Answer

If I wasn't trying to impress the ladies, I'd be wearing a bedsheet and I'd be bald.

serious · Answer

The answer is No.

shortster · Answer

I hope that they like what I look like.

humanearth · Answer

Dont give a shit

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah multicolored hair is mental health issues

Anonymous · Answer

Just my husband. I like to dress nice for him.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Non-binary has no opposite.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Certain salwar kameezes look better than others.

SunnyRS · Answer

No, I try to look the way I feel comfortable.

Pterodon · Answer

Never

YaseminSirketikli · Answer

nope

TrillXHippy · Answer

Nope

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Nope

Swxaddy · Answer

To a degree yes

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