I have been seeing this guy for about a month and a half now... When we are together everything is magical.. We do sleep overs and all that stuff but his never ever taken me out on an official date but that's okey because he works in the mine and they have crazy working hour's and shifts... Now the problem am having is, i feel like he doesn't want to open up emotionally. I would really want to know more about him but all the time i ask questions he says i will get to know more about him with time, this even prompted me to stalk him on social media were i found a picture of him wearing a wedding ring when i asked him about the picture he just said, that's just a picture and that i should stop digging into his past... like he would never want to talk about his past as at now etc... he told me before he used to be a very emotional guy and would cry whenever happy or sad. now he says his belt himself strong enough not to show any emotions, he says the time his dad passed on he never cried or showed any emotions. when we together his very affectionate he loves to cuddle and his very protective... the problem only comes when his away, he would go a day without communicating, he would leave me on read, he would not answer my calls and not even call back... I did sit down with him and explained how his lack of communication affects me he promised to improve but still its the same. I have tried to make myself understand his personality but i really don't like it am only holding on for the fact that when am with him his amazing. My friends say maybe his been hurt in the past and he tries not to get too attouched too quickly and that his protecting himself from heartbreaks. Other friends think that maybe his testing me emotionally. But i think maybe his in a different relationship elsewhere but he would never tell me. Am i crazy? am i asking for too much? am i rushing things? Can someone please help me analyze my situation because am confused.
Someone shouldn't jump into anything with another woman if he's still mentally fucked up about the previous one cause now he's treating the other woman some type of way because he's still fucked up about the other, I can't really tell you how to handle it cause the decisions you make, should be your own decisions but I will tell you that you shouldn't wait around too long for him if he never gets out of this stage where he's creating more confusion than anything, he should eventually open up to you and him telling you not to dig into his past is kinda weird considering he's keeping you in the dark and seems like he wants to keep you in the dark, if a girl has interest, he will be curious to know more about you so him being all secretive is somewhat shady but you should try communicating with him more and try to make him open up more in general.
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Someone shouldn't jump into anything with another woman if he's still mentally fucked up about the previous one cause now he's treating the other woman some type of way because he's still fucked up about the other, I can't really tell you how to handle it cause the decisions you make, should be your own decisions but I will tell you that you shouldn't wait around too long for him if he never gets out of this stage where he's creating more confusion than anything, he should eventually open up to you and him telling you not to dig into his past is kinda weird considering he's keeping you in the dark and seems like he wants to keep you in the dark, if a girl has interest, he will be curious to know more about you so him being all secretive is somewhat shady but you should try communicating with him more and try to make him open up more in general.