Is attraction for women completely different from what men think? And is it true that they only responded to something totally different?

[Anonymous]

A lot of people have different opinions. Mostly say need to dress to good.
Have better looks.
Or stylish.
I believe women also do care about looks but afraid or not comfortable admitting it. Even if the behaviour is too toxic for them to handle.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. First off talking about a woman like they're a monolith is as silly about talking about men like they are a monolith. Are all guys the same? Foolish women will say, "yes". But we're NOT yes we have many of the same tendencies. But so do WOMEN. And THIS is the way you need to think about it. This is how guys who roll women over and over again are able to do it. Because they know how to play all those tendencies. It doesn't mean that some women aren't harder than others. Just like women who are really slutty game players are able to roll so many guys. Because she knows guys tendencies really well. She knows how to play him. The single greatest thing you have learn about women is that most of them are TERRIBLE judges of character. Most of them there brain lags about a mile behind her feelings. Which means most the time she's not even using her head. She's going almost entirely on feelings. So whatever you can convince the "feeling goblins" in her head to tell her, you're in. Because this is the second thing you need to understand about women. Once a woman makes a bad choice, she would rather double, triple, and quadruple down on that bad choice than admit she chose wrong.😆 you may be the guy she hates in the future of her life and the one she considers ruined it and blame every guy afterwards for. But until she finally cuts her losses , you can cheat on her, borrow money from her, etc.. Because she will not want to quit. All you need to do is work those feelings of hers. Like Eddie Murphy said, "As long as you LOOK genuinely sorry and apologize she will listen to your story", and probably forgive you.😆 it's just the way Women are built. You can't tell them anything logical. But they will buy anything that gets her feeling flaring ALL DAY.😆

[Asker]

Nearly convinced.
I agree that arguing logic with some women is too difficult.
And I have seen everything you mentioned.
Like women will never admit that she is wrong, I think it's not in their nature.
Also I don't like the game played. I hate those games cause it's just not a good thing.
I never wanna be a part of it.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand. I didn't say cheat on her necessarily. I'm just saying you could if you were inclined to do so. But unfortunately you do kind of have to lie to women. Because unless you're all the things that attract women already. Telling her the truth is not going to move the needle. And when I say lie I'm not saying tell her you're the heir to saudi family's oil fortune. I'm simply saying paint yourself in a light that will attract and KEEP her attention. And this really isn't that bad. Both genders, basically all lie to eachother. You can call it lying or you can call it wearing the mask. And if you don't want to do that then you should probably reconsider whether dating is something you even want to do. Not trying to be a jerk, just being honest. No one in the dating world is 100% honest. NO ONE!

[Anonymous]

Of course women care about looks but looks alone is not enough for her to be turned on and want to have sex. He needs confidence, charisma, intelligence, style and this is shown through subtle things like body language, movements, facial expression, tone of voice, word choices. So many women lust after Jake Sully (Avatar) literally because of the way he tilt his head head sometimes. I feel men would never understand these things. What actually caters to the female gaze and what women are attracted to.

[Asker]

I think I get it.
But not everyone is a player. Some of them are just people who haven't got any of the qualities.
Sometimes they are simply just pure and kind, I think those people can't turn on girls.

I can understand most of it.
From my perspective for men it's the effort that counts.
But real efforts like making things easier to live with.
Quality improvements of some sorts.
But I don't think any girl falls for those things.

And you say gaze can matter but from my perspective "gaze" can be very subjective.
The gaze from the person you like is warm sun.
But the same person and the same gaze if you don't like the person will be like a serial killer target lock😂😂.

[Abbycado]

There is obviously a difference from a guy that dresses neatly and has good hygiene.

That does not automatically mean I’m attracted to that one guy, but it also means the next girl might be.

There are things that you can control and others you can’t.

[Asker]

I agree but not fully.

[AI Opinion]

Attraction can be quite subjective and personal for everyone. While some women may prioritize a well-dressed, stylish appearance, others may value traits like kindness, intelligence, or humor more highly. It's not necessarily about discomfort in admitting preferences but rather the individual differences in what each person finds attractive. Looks can be important, but they're not the sole factor, and many women seek a deeper, more meaningful connection. It's about balance and personal chemistry! 😊

[Anonymous]

I think it's mostly the same.