he is honest not attractive at all. Looks wise I'd rather go for you or the guy on the left. I wouldn't even consider your friend. maybe girls just wanna get into his pants the same way he attracts those girls.
I was in your situation back in high school. It's not just looks, although it's a part of it. It's something in his attitude that brings all the girls in. If you can identify what he's doing right and you're doing wrong you'll be doing well.
She's prettier than me she thinks she is super hot and she's really fake and back stabs me all the time...that may or may not be the jealousy talking :P Still I'm not the only one who says it! She's losing all her friends over her personality, and as soon as guys get to know her they drop her. Beautiful though.
Yes, I did and whenever guys came up to us they would flirt with her instead of me. I think all of my friends are pretty. I'm not jealous, I'm generally happy for one them. I just wish guys would talk to me sometimes.
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Yes! But I'm fine with it :) I'll be more comfortable approaching you than your friend, as long as you are friendly to me when I talk to you. And most girls here won't admit that they'll approach your friend or guys who look better :P Regardless, don't compare yourself to him. Be happy with what you want and prefer in your life. If you want a life with big sluts, that's your choice. But me thinks you are worth more than that ;)
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thanks. I don't compare myself to him, I just know who may be a bit more attractive than me. that's all
that's cool :) It happens. But hey, the you in the next 20 years may be one very handsome bloke compared to many men of your age. Some guys look much much better as they grow older!
Frankly, I don't have this problem with girls going to one of my homies and ignoring me.
And it's not because of my looks that this doesn't happen often.
This is because of my personality. When I'm in a room, I make my presence known. Not like an obnoxious douchebag, but I will "work myself" into a group's conversation. I shall not be ignored. :)
yeah...ofcourse... but I don't mind it... if he got all the attentions I know at times I got jealous about it... but I just don't mind it because I know some are attracted to her but NOT ALL ;)
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Yeah, when two guys go out together, and one is a lot more attractive girls REALLY show how superficial they are. I have a very hot friend, and I am average looking I think.
It is amazing how little attention I will get.
You shared a great real life example of how terrible and full of sh*t women really are when it comes to looks!
Sounds like your almost using him to get girls. That's a bigger issue than being jealous. I'm attracted to a guy that can hold my attention no matter whos with them. You shouldn't need a crutch or wingman.
You said he will bring you the hot girls since your his BFF and with advantages of having a good looking friend you don't have to do any of the work. I get it, the "getting girls with my boy" sh*t but it's kinda pitiful.u say you don't want sluts but just want hot girls. Be superficial is just as bad as being a manwhore or something.
I'm not telling you anything. You can't help it if girls flock to you hot boyfriend and not u. Its just my opinion but looks are not thing only reason girls don't talk to you around him. You might be doing something or not doing something. I'm not hot but I'm personable and can talk to just about anybody.
That's not necessarily true as in the case of me and my chick magnet friend back in my day. We met at school and I didn't even know he was a big hit with the chicks, not at first, see below lol. My friend knew I liked some of the girls who liked him and he even tried to set me up with one of the girls.
Yeah, she's gorgeous and I'm slightly above average.
It's all good, I do wish I were that beautiful but it's alright. I'm more thoughtful of others because I had to develop a personality and she didn't as much.
You're better looking then him. He doesn't have girls around him because of his looks. It's because his personality is a high D and I :) (D.I.S.C assessment)
it's his personality that makes him attractive to girls not looks.
But yeah I totally feel you. I try not to compare my looks to my friends tho :)
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lol, eh I have to disagree because his looks are all the reasons why the girls only talk to him and nobody else. I think your saying that because your a decent looking guy yourself. No homo haha.
On your profile pic your face looks nicer then his. Maybe those aren't really good pics of him. But you shouldn't put his pics on here (just saying) but I totally understand. My brother is way better looking then me, and constantly I get told that he is better looking then me lol by my parents and friends. He is the one that always the girl, especially when we like the same type of girls. They just pick him over me. It's kinda frustrating lol I can't be with him and get girls, I get no attention
And the sad part of it is, my mom or Dad never told me that I was I am cute or good looking. and I didn't get laid till I was 18 and thought the whole time I was ugly. We are almost the same age one year difference and went to the same school elementry/middle/high school and college. So I guess you get an Idea. I still love him tho :) by the way people say he is better looking then James Franco. (the guy that played spider and best friend)
"THE ONLY problem with this is that he attracts some really big sluts that don't want to do with anyone BUT him." Its funny how you're calling them sluts cos they don't want to have sex with you.. if they did would they not be sluts?
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i didn't mean to say it like that. I call them sluts because I know what happens when they hook up with my friend
Lol to be honest he's not that good looking.. it must be his personality or something.
Yea I've had friends that are more attractive but I don't know it never really bugged me unless like I caught my boyfriend checking them out or something.
and oh yeah the question Do you have a friend who you KNOW is better looking than you? YES I do! all of them ! but I'm the more social one so I get the attention mostly
I wouldn't say they are better looking than me we are all the same. But they all have pretty good personalitys and are really outgoing, I am shy and reserved so I get overlooked.
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Lol I'm always the friend that gets hit on and tries to hook guys up with my friends. But of course, there will always be someone better looking then you are. And by the way, that guy is really attractive, but I think you're cuter, so I don't know why the girls would ignore you.
Me and my best friend are equally good looking, he's just less outgoing towards strangers than I am. If he's bringing you girls to have fun with, then I guess just roll with it.
My sister is definitely the more beautiful of the two of us, but I'm more social, we're never in competition. I could understand being jealous if she were just a friend, but she's my sister and we get attention for different things.
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he is honest not attractive at all. Looks wise I'd rather go for you or the guy on the left. I wouldn't even consider your friend. maybe girls just wanna get into his pants the same way he attracts those girls.
I was in your situation back in high school. It's not just looks, although it's a part of it. It's something in his attitude that brings all the girls in. If you can identify what he's doing right and you're doing wrong you'll be doing well.
She's prettier than me she thinks she is super hot and she's really fake and back stabs me all the time...that may or may not be the jealousy talking :P Still I'm not the only one who says it! She's losing all her friends over her personality, and as soon as guys get to know her they drop her. Beautiful though.
Yes, I did and whenever guys came up to us they would flirt with her instead of me. I think all of my friends are pretty. I'm not jealous, I'm generally happy for one them. I just wish guys would talk to me sometimes.
Yes! But I'm fine with it :) I'll be more comfortable approaching you than your friend, as long as you are friendly to me when I talk to you. And most girls here won't admit that they'll approach your friend or guys who look better :P Regardless, don't compare yourself to him. Be happy with what you want and prefer in your life. If you want a life with big sluts, that's your choice. But me thinks you are worth more than that ;)
thanks. I don't compare myself to him, I just know who may be a bit more attractive than me. that's all
that's cool :) It happens. But hey, the you in the next 20 years may be one very handsome bloke compared to many men of your age. Some guys look much much better as they grow older!
Frankly, I don't have this problem with girls going to one of my homies and ignoring me.
And it's not because of my looks that this doesn't happen often.
This is because of my personality. When I'm in a room, I make my presence known. Not like an obnoxious douchebag, but I will "work myself" into a group's conversation. I shall not be ignored. :)
yeah...ofcourse... but I don't mind it... if he got all the attentions I know at times I got jealous about it... but I just don't mind it because I know some are attracted to her but NOT ALL ;)
Yeah, when two guys go out together, and one is a lot more attractive girls REALLY show how superficial they are. I have a very hot friend, and I am average looking I think.
It is amazing how little attention I will get.
You shared a great real life example of how terrible and full of sh*t women really are when it comes to looks!
Sounds like your almost using him to get girls. That's a bigger issue than being jealous. I'm attracted to a guy that can hold my attention no matter whos with them. You shouldn't need a crutch or wingman.
that would be true IF I was attracted to sluts
You said he will bring you the hot girls since your his BFF and with advantages of having a good looking friend you don't have to do any of the work. I get it, the "getting girls with my boy" sh*t but it's kinda pitiful.u say you don't want sluts but just want hot girls. Be superficial is just as bad as being a manwhore or something.
so what your telling me is to stay away from my friend because he attracts girls and not to have a "wingman"?
I'm not telling you anything. You can't help it if girls flock to you hot boyfriend and not u. Its just my opinion but looks are not thing only reason girls don't talk to you around him. You might be doing something or not doing something. I'm not hot but I'm personable and can talk to just about anybody.
well I'm just there to have a good time with friends. Whether they attract girls or not. I'm not using anybody
That's not necessarily true as in the case of me and my chick magnet friend back in my day. We met at school and I didn't even know he was a big hit with the chicks, not at first, see below lol. My friend knew I liked some of the girls who liked him and he even tried to set me up with one of the girls.
Wow so much for the anonymous user option? What happened there lol, well never mind :D
I think you're sexy :P
why, thank you
Mhmm
+1 for giving a genuine ego boost. :)
Yeah, she's gorgeous and I'm slightly above average.
It's all good, I do wish I were that beautiful but it's alright. I'm more thoughtful of others because I had to develop a personality and she didn't as much.
sounds like your trying to compete lol
Just pros and cons babe
You're better looking then him. He doesn't have girls around him because of his looks. It's because his personality is a high D and I :) (D.I.S.C assessment)
it's his personality that makes him attractive to girls not looks.
But yeah I totally feel you. I try not to compare my looks to my friends tho :)
lol, eh I have to disagree because his looks are all the reasons why the girls only talk to him and nobody else. I think your saying that because your a decent looking guy yourself. No homo haha.
On your profile pic your face looks nicer then his. Maybe those aren't really good pics of him. But you shouldn't put his pics on here (just saying) but I totally understand. My brother is way better looking then me, and constantly I get told that he is better looking then me lol by my parents and friends. He is the one that always the girl, especially when we like the same type of girls. They just pick him over me. It's kinda frustrating lol I can't be with him and get girls, I get no attention
And the sad part of it is, my mom or Dad never told me that I was I am cute or good looking. and I didn't get laid till I was 18 and thought the whole time I was ugly. We are almost the same age one year difference and went to the same school elementry/middle/high school and college. So I guess you get an Idea. I still love him tho :) by the way people say he is better looking then James Franco. (the guy that played spider and best friend)
*that he looks like James Franco just a More cuter version *
yeah, I came to realize they aren't good pics. the first one makes him look cocky I guess. I agree with removing them, but I don't know how! :/
even your parents? damn. lol
"THE ONLY problem with this is that he attracts some really big sluts that don't want to do with anyone BUT him." Its funny how you're calling them sluts cos they don't want to have sex with you.. if they did would they not be sluts?
i didn't mean to say it like that. I call them sluts because I know what happens when they hook up with my friend
Lol to be honest he's not that good looking.. it must be his personality or something.
Yea I've had friends that are more attractive but I don't know it never really bugged me unless like I caught my boyfriend checking them out or something.
maybe its his confidence that makes him stood out during partys and that's just it. y'all good looking
and oh yeah the question Do you have a friend who you KNOW is better looking than you? YES I do! all of them ! but I'm the more social one so I get the attention mostly
I like it when a set of girls will go after the "hot" guy, because now I know which girls are superficial and who to stay away from.
I wouldn't say they are better looking than me we are all the same. But they all have pretty good personalitys and are really outgoing, I am shy and reserved so I get overlooked.
Lol I'm always the friend that gets hit on and tries to hook guys up with my friends. But of course, there will always be someone better looking then you are. And by the way, that guy is really attractive, but I think you're cuter, so I don't know why the girls would ignore you.
Me and my best friend are equally good looking, he's just less outgoing towards strangers than I am. If he's bringing you girls to have fun with, then I guess just roll with it.
ahem. give him my info. clearly, he needs a penile fashions consultation :D
Lmfao nooooo! I want to be the unique one in the group!
brando junior needs to share the spotlight. :D :D
Brando junior is just fine leading the group
My sister is definitely the more beautiful of the two of us, but I'm more social, we're never in competition. I could understand being jealous if she were just a friend, but she's my sister and we get attention for different things.