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Why I Don't Say Yes To Guys Who Approach Me (Page 2)
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You know, the longer I'm on this website the more I ask myself why women are so fucking stupid. I'm really hoping that women on here aren't representative of the general population because I'm having a hard time taking some of you girls seriously.
Nah man she's an outlier from what i've noticed.
I hope so. I really do. But I'm not that optimistic about this. I see too many girls on here who don't know what they're talking about, it just drives me up the wall. We're desperate for looking for partners outside our social group? For fucks sake, I can't deal with that much backwards, out of your ass logic.
@Prof_Don
Hasn't been an issue for me. There's no reason to insult my post. Everyone I know meets their bf/gf from friends or after they've seen them all the time in places.
I insulted your post because it's stupid, and I'm not sorry.
You being beholden to following what your friends do... is the problem.
Over time u will be more psychologically independent and socially opening.
So myTake owner... what should a guy do if for whatever reason (ugly, small social group, unconventional dating/sexual preferences) he runs out of appealing options within his social group? Should he tuck his tail between his legs and give up?
Stop generalizing
So if someone moves to a new area, he should just sit home by himself to keep from making you uncomfortable by trying to meet you?
You must be one of those people whose friends are all people she know in first grade.
I agree. She will drop her high school mentality eventually.
After high school, everyone u meet will be a complete stranger with zero familiarity.
I'm sorry but this feels more like your mental problem, you're categorizing every guy who approaches you as creepy?
It’s absolutely unfair for women to think that we only want sex, we want food too.
She will most likely die alone, she will drop the high school clique mentality eventually (I hope)
@Prof_Don now now let's cut her some slack.
A stranger is just a friend you haven't made yet.
How else do you expect people to meet someone? Your circle of friends is very limited and you'll run out of potential partners quickly.
Guessing you have been single most/all of your life?
Lmfaooo
@Polocrew I'm just not even surprised anymore at types of dysfunctional women like this are on gag
Yes because they can't get laid and now they can't figure out what they doin wrong lmao
I've nvr had any issues with men or having options for sex. No reason to try and insult me. And @Polocrew
In 2-3 years she will look back on this and realize how ignorant and wrong she was (and currently is).
@Prof_Don exactly!
She seems to be taking my words personally with me specifically, yet 90% of the users here agree with us.
Maybe my word choice needs more sugar? đŸ˜œ
@Prof_Don sometimes kids need tough love lol
... and We both deliver it! đŸ‘‰đŸ‘ˆ
@Prof_Don that's why we're just the best and everyone loves us and everyone wants be like us. Thank God we're here to hold this site together.
@Prof_Don U said you thought that I had been molested. @opinion owner U didn't read my comment to U?
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Then incest will be the only choice left because everyone in this world is stranger at first, except your family.
Poor logic.
If the guy don't approach you how are you suposed to meet new people? You're so closed mind, not every guy wants sex from you!
This is honestly among the two or three dumbest things I've read on this site. You assume that any and all guys who approach you are creepy. You are not only insane but also an unrepentant sexist to boot. This is equivalent to guys saying that they believe all women are gold-digging whores, pure paranoia.
Easy to say at your age. But wait till you grow up and get all in the work force and friends move up too. Your social circle will plumit to a point where the only new guys you can meet to date are strangers. In my experience and people I know, life is not like the movies where a friend of a friend will always have someone for you. sometimes youjusthave to make the jump.
I get that, but how many girlfriends are people supposed to have? Also, I think it would be easy to guages if a guy wants you for sex only, they speak a certain way, and give you certain hints. Many people would never have found love without running into somebody or approaching them.
Also is your view different if you someone you dont know approaches you at the mall or bar rather than at a party because hey are still an unknown person, even if someone you know, knows them
Lol, okay... so the only people you date or sleep with are friends? This is how people met people before the dating sites and Facebook, wake up.
I like TonyRyan's answer.
Look, I have never been one to approach girls like that since I learned early on that a majority of girls think like you and I am no creep so I do not want o bark up the wrong tree.
But, if eye contact and/ a "come see me" smile is what she sends to me -and I feel an attraction to her-This nice guy will maybe say hi.
... Sleping with your friends!
LOL
I don't feel so comfortable with strangers because I grew up in a sheltered religious environment. I am also part of a minority so a random stranger is probably not someone I can marry. However I don't always think random people are creepy. Some yes but not always. It also depends where I meet the person. Example I used to work at a court house and met a guy there. He was a lawyer. I was a legal intern. He was a stranger but having the profession in common made it safer.
Stuff like this is why guys say girls are stupid. It's such frustratingly bad logic.
Your choice, but I think you will be the one missing out on a potentially really great guy! You may change your mind someday, everyone is entitled to.
If you feel more secure just dating guys you know then so be it.
Maybe someone just finds you attractive and wants to ask you out, that's not desperate, it doesn't mean he has no other choices. But I generally don't really saybyes because they are people I don't know and I don't trust.
Maybe it's nature's way to tell you to stay single?
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I don't approach girls just because of this, I don't wanna come off As a " creep " usually though it's simple. I think you are cute my name is Dylan and some chit chat. Just cause I'm nice does NOT mean I want sex. Besides I'd be a girls boy friend befure I let her have sex from me anyway.
After reading this my brain cells started to disappear
No reason to insult the take. I actually like approaching guys by flirting with them first. I like to have guys that R seen around a lot so they're semi familiar already.
Lol I know how you feel. I take the trains and buses and I so not Mike guys who cold approach depending on the area. And they do seem desperate
Its like a gross feeling because a random guy obviously wants to have sex with you, any girl would be naive to think that a guy does not approach her because of the possibility of sex, do what works for you
So basically she only says yes to good looking guys stop
me if you heard that before,