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I think much of the issues you've addressed as far as guys hating women for rejecting them has come from the fact that our culture has become one of instant gratification. "I should be able to have what I want right now, and if I don't get it I will throw a fit." It's like a baby who wants candy and throws a fit when their mother doesn't give it to them, and then when the mother does, maybe later, they'll refuse just to be difficult. It's the same mentality.
"Yay, you'll have a 10 on your arm who likes to sleep with the pool boy. Is it worth it in the end?" Yes absolutely. Fat girls are garbage. I don't hate women. I hate fat girls. There is a difference.
what's my crime? this question is for males. you find youreself dumpend in the middle of the night end up on the street because her ex boyfriend cheated on her with a guy
.how about this one you work day and night for the money and you're sweet wife and her mother steals you're money and run off.
wait it's getting better how about ending up in the hospital stabbed with a butcher knife for no reason not even a fight .
i have a longer list but I'm limited to 500 characters!
F*** you.The way you made this sound is it's totally disgusting and horrible if a guy is shallow but expected and okay in women. It's that kind of double standard that makes me want to watch the world burn.The lower the score on physical appearance the more REDEEMING QUALITIES YOU NEED. Most women have not one practical thought in there heads let alone a useful or interesting thing to say.I keep myself in at least not fat shape.But it's unreasonable to say I want my girl to do the same. F***you
All I read was: "I can't attain an imaginary alpha male that I feel I'm entitled to, so I'll aim my frustration at the losers who have trouble attracting women."
Oh, and regardless of how you may play the "pity card", you're no better than the toxic women you mentioned in your article.
Conveniently, they're often more attractive.
Be careful about the way you word things, and what you compare things to. Throwing in a line about Hitler when talking about dating is exceedingly off putting to a reader, especially if you want credibility.
I think you have thought these things out, but not enough. You need to refine your points. You need to change the language used. The whole thing comes across as a rant that you did not really think about until you started typing. When I read this, I think, "Glad I've never met you."
practice what you preach for gods sake then. you truly are sitting on your high horse and only blaming the guys. The jaded guys are usually the "nice guys that really didn't have the intention of just getting into her pants but an actual meaningful relationship and would do anything to make her happy but they walk all over him and take advantage of him. Here's some advice that would make less jaded guys. Don't play the games, be honest upfront instead of leading him on for the attention you seek
I have to honestly say. This article is fair and balanced. The author practice what I can call tough, but honest and sincere advise.
Thanks Epiphanies
Okaay, KillerrMike. I don't really think you understand what I'm trying to say so I'm just going to cut this off right now. Thank you for your feedback and have a nice week.
" Yes, I know there are women out there who manipulate men and try to use them to their advantage but I am not that girl. Neither are my friends. "
Sure *eyeroll*. I bet most of your friends don't put 1/2 the effort into their relationships as the guys they are with - do they do it to 'use' them? not intentionally, perhaps, but they are socialized to always be looking for something 'better', or easier. Lets face it you don't care about the quality of your man, just the convenience.
feminism wimped men out- and encouraged female worship... that's why you have all these wimps calling themselves nice guys... and women HATE that... women want men... not bad boys, nice boys, etc...
Men want the one with the widest hips and biggest breasts, women want the hunk who seems built to protect and provide. It's survival instinct. BUT sleeping around until 30 and passing up real providers for "he makes me wet" "hotties" is NOT INSTINCT. Hence: YOU are the crux of the problem, women, because you adapted the worst slovenly behaviors of the worst men and call it freedom. Heaven forbid the providers hate you for hating them until your market value drops and you are all used up.
Men want the one with the widest hips and biggest breasts, women want the hunk since he can protect and provide
BUT women being sociopaths who pass up the REAL providers & f*** brainless alpha hunks until age 30? Nothing to do with nature. THAT'S the me-first generation fool, not to mention evidence of declining standards, childlessness and women adapting the worst behaviors of the worst men and calling it freedom. Oh but shame on the providers hating women for their 30 yrs. of abuse. F***you.
Pure Rubbish.
Men in general do not reject women based on traits that are innate and immutable. A lot of women do that. Is there a parallel from men? No. Don't even try to promote the fantasy that men ONLY want blond barbie dolls. That's just a rationalization created by jaded women that have been out competed by their peers.
It goes much deeper than that basic study of women's behavior and psychology there a huge differences in the way men and women think and behave yet there's the feminine cry for equality which is cherry picked at choice when given freedom to be independent and live there lives as they see fit they have accomplished very little in in the world women are meant to be more loving creatures but this is only a ruse of the feminine shadow
All of these claims can also be made about women. I don't know how many female face book statuses I see about girls saying that "all men are a**holes" or "all men are the same". I will agree some of this is true about some guys. But some of this is also true about some women. Don't act like men are the only ones that make these mistakes...
good article. most men that can't get with women usually can't look past themselves, it seems
and they bitch when the nice gestures they do so they can get laid don't make the girl wet and wild
@Hades: Whatever works for you, man.
@justanotherguy00001: You're right. I think the best thing to do is keep an open mind at all times.
Don't worry, I'll never be at the stage when I'll be able to understand your logic and I wish I never will be. Good luck to you.
I like the article because it goes both ways 100%
People in generally need to take a step back and observe themselves for a minute