I have been through it so many times and i hate being attractive but then i don't really know if i am i just hate it if a guy likes me and flirts with me and ask me out or anything its so hard being a girl sometimes
Not really. He may be really smart or funny. I think too many people get intimidated just because someone's attractive. That doesn't mean they're not looking for companionship too
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This is normal, but a horrible way to tell how attractive you are. What women don't understand is that good looking guys often approach less attractive women in the hopes of an easy lay.
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and what about the myth that guys are intimidated with really pretty girls, afraid of regection, so they decide to approach less pretty ones. who approach really pretty girls then? if handosme guys approach less pretty girls or avarage, " 'cause they're easy"
That just further proves my point. You can't judge your looks based on the looks of guys that approach you. It has to do with his goals, and personal level of confidence. There are lots of good looking guys that aren't confident because of reasons not related to their looks, that only approach less attractive girls. An ugly guy, may be rich, have a huge dick, and be the funniest guy on the planet, and as a result can be a lot more confident than the good looking guy.
im confident too, but i can't help it and feel ugly when ugly guys approach me. ok i agree and understand your point. But , would you be offended by ugly girls approaching you?
If you feel offended when as you put it, an ugly guy approach you something wrong with you not the guy. Your trying to justify your beauty in reality you tell yourself your hot but you really not.
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Im not telling myself im hot. i just know that a lot of handsome, pretty guys like me and approach me. aldo i know that it makes me feel more pretty. but ugly guys make me feel ugly, just like them. desperate just like them. i hate it because im not.
no... many ugly guys are confident enough to approach any pretty girl.
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It happens all the time with me unfortunately:( but whatever. Would you be annoyed if I approached you?
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I don't assume that the guy like me just because he talk or smile at me even if he's ugly or handsome. you feel that way because you are too proud of yourself. Anyway, I don't think or feel that way.
You say your not shallow but don't like it when Ugly or average guys approach or look at you? And for someone who claims not to be shallow? Why are you anonymous?
Your shallow you just can't admit it. Even the title to the Question sounds shallow. I bet your the type of girl that dates guys who are 6'5 muscular and drives a Mercedes lol.
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I have been through it so many times and i hate being attractive but then i don't really know if i am i just hate it if a guy likes me and flirts with me and ask me out or anything its so hard being a girl sometimes
Not really. He may be really smart or funny. I think too many people get intimidated just because someone's attractive. That doesn't mean they're not looking for companionship too
This is normal, but a horrible way to tell how attractive you are. What women don't understand is that good looking guys often approach less attractive women in the hopes of an easy lay.
and what about the myth that guys are intimidated with really pretty girls, afraid of regection,
so they decide to approach less pretty ones. who approach really pretty girls then? if handosme guys approach less pretty girls or avarage, " 'cause they're easy"
That just further proves my point. You can't judge your looks based on the looks of guys that approach you. It has to do with his goals, and personal level of confidence. There are lots of good looking guys that aren't confident because of reasons not related to their looks, that only approach less attractive girls. An ugly guy, may be rich, have a huge dick, and be the funniest guy on the planet, and as a result can be a lot more confident than the good looking guy.
im confident too, but i can't help it and feel ugly when ugly guys approach me.
ok i agree and understand your point. But , would you be offended by ugly girls approaching you?
No, it doesn't offend me.
No, because I don't feel shameless self entitlement.
I'm so ugly when girls see me they get restraining orders against me.
Kevin you're angry. why?
You mean why I'm I ugly? I got slapped with the ugly stick.
This is disrespect to your parents by saying this.
LOL how is that disrespectful to my parents? If anything they own me an apology.
Get out! I start to like you XD
@Asker what?
You're probably not that hot if they have the guts to approach you.
this! they make me think this too. while when its a hot guy, then im feeling ok.
Yep I hear ya sister
If you feel offended when as you put it, an ugly guy approach you something wrong with you not the guy. Your trying to justify your beauty in reality you tell yourself your hot but you really not.
Im not telling myself im hot. i just know that a lot of handsome, pretty guys like me and approach me. aldo i know that it makes me feel more pretty. but ugly guys make me feel ugly, just like them. desperate just like them. i hate it because im not.
no... many ugly guys are confident enough to approach any pretty girl.
It happens all the time with me unfortunately:( but whatever. Would you be annoyed if I approached you?
I don't assume that the guy like me just because he talk or smile at me even if he's ugly or handsome. you feel that way because you are too proud of yourself. Anyway, I don't think or feel that way.
that sounds beyond ridiculous lololol
no, its true.
You're probably an ugly person then.
You see, this is what im talking about.
Nope. You can be anyones type.
So would you be offended if I flirted with you
no. i dont really like your nose, but the rest is fine.
What do you think of my body
You need to work you abs and V line. i like your shoulders and arms (not too muscular but in shape)
Dude this chick is shallow plain and simple. I honestly wouldn't waste my time with approaching a girl like her.
Im not shallow. here im asking and answering honestly because who knows me? Im honest.
I bet she's really hot:)
You say your not shallow but don't like it when Ugly or average guys approach or look at you? And for someone who claims not to be shallow? Why are you anonymous?
Im on anon because I can.
Im not shallow, ugly guys just make me feel ugly too and I dont like it.
Might sound like a ass here but at least I landed on the right side
Your shallow you just can't admit it. Even the title to the Question sounds shallow. I bet your the type of girl that dates guys who are 6'5 muscular and drives a Mercedes lol.
Ew no way! Hipsters...
Ugly Kevin I bet she's really hot too which is good
I ain't a hipster never have been one
Whatever, you're not ugly as for me.
I appreciate your opinion though
@medical2523 the sad part is even if she is hot? Her personality is shallow and superficial.
I'm sorry I really can't say anything against this girl because this was a looks based question and she said I was attractive
Hahaha this is funnay but.. ok...
No, I'm not that shallow
Egotistical much.
I'm doing girls a service then. :)
LOL me too.
Yess. I hate it
Many do, some don't.