I agree! I am really shy about expressing my feeling. If I have strong feelings for a guy I will find it hard to even look at him. But will easily chat to a guy I have no interest in.
Bottom line is, women like confidence in a man. Just go out and talk to her, and be classy. Don't give her a line. Be honest and streight forward. Tell her you find her attractive. Don't come up with bs excuses for talking to her. Respect her intelligence. Look her in the eyes, not boobs. Be yourself from the beginning. (I feel like I'm writing a book). Don't hesitate. You may miss out on the greatest romance of the century.
She either really hates you or likes u. So dont hesitate. Hold eye contact, act like ur goin to her, n swith lanes. Lounge around, n casualy walk up to her n start the chase.
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if smile, liked, or if 2-4 seconds good but longer just staring and shorter just saw and stopped
Just a feeling. Also, if you have mutual attraction, you can lock the gaze and the other person will start smiling eventually.
You're pretty much splitting hairs at this point. Quit worrying about what ifs, and just go talk to em.
Usually its the signals that come afterwards, so lock eyes persist maybe smile see their reaction initiate convo etc
If the girl or the guy slightly smiles, even a slightest hint, then it is mutual attraction. Tried and tested my friend.
If they keep on looking at you.. ik a guy who would raise his eyebrows and smile or do goofy things to get my attention 😝
Using eye contact as a way to figure out interest doesn't work as well as knowing the person and the way they talk you you.
I agree! I am really shy about expressing my feeling. If I have strong feelings for a guy I will find it hard to even look at him. But will easily chat to a guy I have no interest in.
Attraction usually has other signs. Dilated pupils, touching of hair and face, flushing of skin (blushing), smiling, double takes.
Bottom line is, women like confidence in a man. Just go out and talk to her, and be classy. Don't give her a line. Be honest and streight forward. Tell her you find her attractive. Don't come up with bs excuses for talking to her. Respect her intelligence. Look her in the eyes, not boobs. Be yourself from the beginning. (I feel like I'm writing a book). Don't hesitate. You may miss out on the greatest romance of the century.
Good luck.
(How I love young romance).
You can tell by their facial expression. They stare into your eyes. That isn't normal. It's like her eyes brighten up to your presence.
you can't. eyes are eyes. you can't tell that one is happy just by the millimeter it has dilated.
It's really hard. You really can't. It's just a feeling
If she also locks eyes back on me then I think it is mutual attraction. But still hard to tell
if you're shy. then you would probably look away. even if you have feelings for the other person. it isn't exactly a full-proof way to tell.
My husband doesn't look me in the eyes. He's always staring at my tits.
I don't, and the doubts are killinnggg me right now!!!
You can tell when they sort of smile after the first glance, look away, and then look right back.
I have quite frankly no idea. However, I do always assume the second as it is the safer and more probable reason.
You can't, because there's no difference really.
She either really hates you or likes u. So dont hesitate. Hold eye contact, act like ur goin to her, n swith lanes. Lounge around, n casualy walk up to her n start the chase.