Guys have you ever fancied a customer, if so how do you act if you do?

[MysteriousChick93]

So you work at a store, supermarket or somewhere like that. You see a girl come
in regularly. How would you act if you liked her an would you not make a move due to the need to be pprofessional.

I've liked a guy few weeks now, i catch him staring as i walk past shop. He doesn't turn away he continues till i am. out of sight. When i go in store his eyebrows raise an his head turns to follow my movements so i know his eyes are on me.

Then at counter he looks down to ground seems bit shy, then looks up an says hello you alright? Then when adding up what i bought which was only like two items. He manages to overcharge me, he messed up on register.

Then apologised an corrected it. Also our hands touched when he gave me change. On other occasions he will be stocking items outside but pretending not to see me. it seems.

I like him an i get feeling he could be somewhat interested but as his job is to be friendly i am. finding it hard to get it out of him. I do go in when there's few customers there an he's not weird or shy then.

I do have a stern or resting bitch face. Should i smile, make convo to show i like him to?

[MrScTi]

Whoever has the least responsilities at the point of contact should be the initiator. Usually it's the person not working who should make the move. By default, the customer is a customer and it's the employee's job to serve the company's best interests.

Yes, I have experienced this as an employee, rarely as a customer. My lack of game made it impossible for to mix romantic interest with work, although one gorgeous girl managed to push the right buttons and pull the words out of my throat. She smiled and flirted hard yet didn't ask for shit, basically. She also paused for a moment before leaving, to give me time to figure out what she wanted.

[MysteriousChick93]

Hey great answer the worker has to be professional so it would have to be me to make move

[unknown513331]

Well I worked as a waiter and on reception and there is no way I would make a move during my working hours. Its not worth losing a job and how can he know that you like him? It all goes down to you , how much you like him and will you be able to gather some courage to make the first move.

[MysteriousChick93]

Very true its difficult on his part an yeah he doesn't know i like him so i see your point

[unknown513331]

Well if you like him a lot you will have to make the first move... its daunting I know...

[MysteriousChick93]

Yeah very lol

[mistninja314]

IRL I see cashiers flirt with customers all of the time AND IT'S KINDA ACCEPTABLE BY THE BOSSES. Since it makes those same people come back and spend more money in their shops just hoping to get with thei employee LOL

So I say that you should just ask him how he feels already ^^. y'all both are about 22+ I'm guessing so it shouldn't be a problem for y'all to man/woman up and lay it all out on the table

[MysteriousChick93]

Haha hey stranger. Yea very true. Time to act i guess

[mistninja314]

Better than what you guys are doing now ^^

[MysteriousChick93]

Which is nothing right?

[mistninja314]

Naw y'all just building up the tension so when y'all finally do grow some balls it can be fun and exciting

[MysteriousChick93]

Hahaa indeed

[gobsmacked3]

When i was in college ( LONG time ago) i used to work serving drinks and security in pubs. Had many times that I fancied women who came in. So, usually took advantage of it, and told them my regard for them.

But, that was before cams were everywhere and things were much more casual. These days i wouldn't even breathe around a woman i like for fear of consequences

[MysteriousChick93]

Oh i see yeah women are quick to call men creeps which is wrong. Not all are

[gobsmacked3]

No, more referring to bosses looking at cams and balling me out for flirting, rather than working. very hard to get jobs these days

[MysteriousChick93]

Yeah very true

[1GuyOpinion]

Uh yeah? If you interested, ask to hang out after work or something. Get his number, be friend and go from there!

[MysteriousChick93]

I will. Thanks :))

[Strider90]

There are coming hot chicks every day where I work. I mean really HOT CHICKS exactly how I want them. I see them every day but I won't dare to make any move there. And they are most likely not single anyway.

[MysteriousChick93]

Hey u never know some could be :)

[Strider90]

Even if they are they are too good for me. Really too good.

[MysteriousChick93]

Don't ever think that looks aren't everything personality is more important

[KidInk2]

Yeah in fact my last real girlfriend, (if you wanted to call it that) was a customer at my job. I was a page at a library, and she said she "recognized me". I was like, "huh?". Well, we went out and had fun but it turns out she was just using me until her ex boyfriend got out of jail. Interesting, eh?

[MysteriousChick93]

Oh dear. Well i am not out to use anyone iam ready to date an have bf potentially

[Klaatu51]

i'd try to stay proffesional if i wanted to keep my job basically

[marksmith108]

Sounds like you're really looking too much into it honestly.

[MysteriousChick93]

No as i am not saying i am certain just get the feeling there's an attraction . I guess you have to see for yourself to understand

[marksmith108]

Well then the only way for something to happen is to make something. Asking for a girl's number on the job is really unprofessional.

[MysteriousChick93]

Yeah i realise that thanks