I'm scared to have my first kiss?

[Anonymous]

I've never kissed a guy or anything like that.(BTW I'm going into my sophomore) I finally met this guy who I really like.😊 We just met yesterday and, today he asked for a kiss but, I wouldn't give him one because I was too nervous. I wanted to kiss him so bad but I was scared. What should I do? I'm going to be working with him for the whole summer and I know this conversation is going to come up again. Also be knows that I never kissed a guy before.

[Nylesnylesnyles]

I was so nervous for most of the opportunities I had for my first kiss so much so that I just couldn't. I didn't have my first kiss until my junior year, when it did happen it felt right to do. I was on vacation and I knew I wouldn't see this girl again so the nervs were gone.

I met her one night at the beach and it was under fireworks that same night. If you don't feel ready then don't, go at things at your pace, you have the control here.

[Asker]

Awww that sounds cute. Yes, I'm trying to go slow but, I really want to kiss him, I just don't want to mess thongs up.

[Nylesnylesnyles]

Then just start with a closed mouth and slowly open and close it. Focus on your lips and not your tongue, then slowly introduce tongue as you go. I just watched a bunch of movies and used to pretend in the shower. Good luck!

[Asker]

Thank you! This helped me a lot! Thanks😊

[Xelebrum]

I highly advise you actually get to KNOW him first. He could easily be a fuckboy, because asking a girl you just met for a kiss is some fuckboy shit.

[Asker]

I told him, we've only been knowing each other for two days. Then we made a promise to kiss on our last day. He's a really sweet gentlemen. I don't think he's a fuckboy.

[Xelebrum]

Okaaay, just don't be surprised if he cuts off all contact with you once you guys do the deed.

[Asker]

Were not going to have sex. We are both virgins

[lemonlimetime]

I'm in the same boat as you and my boyfriend was going to kiss me but he was too scared 😂 it's ok though because I was probably a million times more scared. Anyways my advice is going to be poop because I still haven't had mine yet either. Just don't stress out and think about it I guess.

[BlueEyedHipsta]

Just get over your fear and do it if you really want to.

If you don't know how to kiss watch the movie band camp, I learnt how to from there 😂

[Asker]

Okay lol I'll have to check it out

[BlueEyedHipsta]

Sorry Bandslam* not camp

[Asker]

Oh okay thanks.😊

[sailorjupiter]

just let the magic do itself. just kiss and enjoy it

[Anonymous]

Just go for the regular kiss and don't try for anything elts. He'll let know know how good you were and how you can improve or how he can kiss you better.

[Asker]

What's the regular kiss?

[Opinion Owner]

it is where both your lips meet for a few seconds and then part, nothing but a normal kiss. For get what you have see on tv just kiss him when your ready

[Asker]

Okay. Do you like open your lips slightly?

[Touglyforfemales]

Your 15 that's nothing. I'm a 29 yr old kissless virgin how the hell do you think I feel?

[sobg71124]

Just kiss him on the cheek. That's plenty for now!

[Asker]

I want to kiss him on the lips

[sobg71124]

Let that be up to him. IF he wants to kiss you on the lips, he will. There isn't much to it. Just follow his lead; do what he does.

[Asker]

Yes, he wanted to kiss on the lips today but, I was too scared.

[sobg71124]

Well, there's nothing wrong with that. That's a good thing. Remember, every advance toward you is a test, to see how easy you are, or how quick you are to be physical with a guy. It tells a lot about you. Just because he offered, by no means, means that you should. Hold him off as long as you can so as not to appear overeager. There is NO rush!

[Asker]

Alright. We made a deal to kiss on our last day of work.

[HelloGirlyCurlyBirdy]

Kiss your TV, arm, leg or mirror.

[Asker]

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