Are men oblivious to hints or are women's hints just very vague? (Page 2)
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I try not to assume anything. Girls must be REALLY obvious for me to make a move, even if I am seriously suspecting that she's into me.
I think it's for the most part male oblivion but yes women can be too vague because they don't want to creep you out and go too far but sometimes I swear I'm giving great hints aND the guy never notices!!
That's your own fault, I'm afraid.
Maybe guys are picking up on your hints but they don't want to creep YOU out.
Yeah but that doesn't make much sense. If they like me and they are catching my hints it's pretty obvious that I won't be creeped out if they like me back
Your 'obviously obvious' hints aren't as explicit as you might think. If it were me, I would read any "hints" as friendliness or just me seeing what isn't there. To avoid creeping you out, I would ignore your hint. No matter how "great" your hint apparently is. UNLESS, you SAY that you are interested. This way, I wouldn't have to risk possible prosecution.
Honestly, just fucking SAY when you like someone and you won't be so frustrated at your own mistakes. I promise you. You're just pissing yourself off at the end of the day. It's nobody's fault but your own. Men aren't as adept at picking up on hints as females are, that's just the way it is.
Woah ok calm down :) I'm just trying to get to the bottom of this. And yeah lately I've been trying to be more evident and once I find a guy a really really like again I'll tell him
Sorry, that was rude. I'm in a kind of irritable mood since I haven't slept, my bad :/.
It's cool, man. I get you! We all get like that sometimes. Thanks for the advice anyway
Usually the guy... I've seen a few guys literally not pick up on a girl's hint before and just left them heartbroken. ... And I've done it too... A few girls slipped away from me because of that.
It is 100% the woman's fault tho.
Yeah. Like "I'd love to stay with you forever" - said the girl, is 100% the girl's fault.
What?
Hahaha classic story :-)
But clearly that doesn't work!!!
Women are too vague. Women should go after what they want instead of getting the guy to do it.
"Are men oblivious to hints or are women's hints just very vague?"
I think it's yes to both.
Her hint to you isn't what I'd call vague though.
Why did you turn your pic around?
No reason
Ok😊
I'd say it's both of our faults. I'm pretty oblivious to hints.
Flirting is not my forte. Just in general.
It's a little of both.