The guy is in your age range 18-22 years old it looks like, and the vast majority of men in this age range aren't looking to settle down (first of all).
Secondly, men, we all have egos, and we love to feed them. He likes to feed his ego by flirting with you and keeping you on the hook. He probably knows that you like him by now, so he knows he has you in a pretty good position.
Third...depending on how long this has been going on, if he really did "like you" in the way you are thinking (like to ask you to be his girlfriend, or go out on dates) he would have done so by now.
Fourth...the guy knows how to push buttons...he knew you liked him and he talked about another hot girl in front of you. Now he has you flustered and thinking about it... you're sill on the hook.
My advice (if you are even looking for it) is to move along...stop the flirting. Flirting is fun, but it seems you are now investing feelings into the flirting. If he likes you he'll ask you out (he probably should have already). He's playing the whole: flirt with you, but I'm just some aloof cool guy thing right now. It's now your turn to play the (if you want to go this route): I'm over the flirting game, I don't need to flirt with you for validation game.
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