When guys hug girls...

[hamachisakisan]

I want to get answers from guy, when you hug a girl do you smell her hair? Do you try to feel her breasts? I really want to know does every guy do that? Because I recently made friends with this guy who likes me. We hugged for the first time yesterday. I myself didn't want to let go because I missed him. But at the same time was he trying to feel my breasts and smell my hair? He's new to my country with a cute accent and he says I'm his first friend who's a girl. Please tell me if it's true for all guys.

[confused17yrold]

Okay the first time I hug a girl I do smell her. Smell is the strongest tie to memory so I like to smell my girlfriends hair. I think its weird to grab a girls breast while hugging actually you can't because that's not a hug. lol anyways yes I smell her hair when I do I feel more emotion because it brings back some of the memories with her, I know it sounds weird but I like to smell her hair for that reason. and trying to grab the breast is kind of a horny bitch move ( pardon my french) but I think that's super rude for a guy to do that definetly if you haven't been dating. I don't know maybe he's trying to take it to fast, if you don't like it just tell him if he really likes you he should say okay I'm sorry and never do it again unless he should be able to. I hope this helps you

[tazzy]

It really depends on the culture. Italians are big at hugs for example and cheek kisses for example. Also it depends on your friendship. Female friends I hug them and I can walk up to a female friend in a bar and hit her bottoms playfully.

Feel your breasts, or smell your hair is something I would do only to my girlfriend and feeling her breasts is done in a playful manner unless it's foreplay which is not the case when you are just meeting up and hugging!

From your short description, he sounds to be a creepy guy.

[hamachisakisan]

Lols, the first time I met him I thought he was scary but as I saw him again and again I started falling for him. and now I'm deeply in love with him but he's still unsure about dating because I'm his first and he doesn't want to get hurt. he said to me one day on the phone, "break my heart slowly" and it crushed me.

[wolfcreek]

no but who knows it could be a foreign thing or he is a pervert most guys do not try to feel a girl up just when hugging smelling the hair thing we might do that once in awhile but w e don't make a show of it

[hamachisakisan]

Lols, its obvious you guys would keep it to yourself. but I'm just saying, do you guy think that he would do that. I mean, it might be his first time hugging another female other than his mom? who knows? whats the chance of that tho.

[Evilsheepempire]

that's not a friend hug. A friend would hug you just as if you were anyone else, but this guy is crossing into enemy territory with those kind of moves.

[hamachisakisan]

Naw I dont think so, I'm asking if guys do that often. especially for a guy that's new to my country and has never had a girl as a friend.