Why some men are bitter and mean to the girls after rejection? (Page 5)

Question

It seems like they liked you a lot, told you many compliments, wanted to spend as much time with you as possible, but after rejection they kinda start hating you and try to hurt you. When I say rejection, I mean a nice way to say "No", not being rude or something.  It's very immature thing to do, just was curious why do they act like that.

urs_truly · Answer

simple answer is, you hurt them and they feel betrayed.

momo770 · Answer

I don't say this is just men, but I think some people respond negatively after being rejected to hide the hurt.

Thebestyoucan · Answer

The same reason women are bitter and mean after rejection. Humans don't like rejection. It causes psychological pain.

ken718 · Answer

Cause you wasted are time time is money I can't get back the time invested in a person making them a dick so say it from the jump like you have a spine

hdjfhk · Answer

It is at least as often the person posting these stories trying to look for a way to say everyone else in relationships, or even daily interaction, of the opposite sex is Wrong. lol wuteva

naraku · Answer

If people get hurt they tend to lash out. Guy's AND girls do this it's a natural reaction unfortunately no matter how nice you might reject someone , that person gets hurt.  Sad but true.

tulls5 · Answer

In my experience the reasone we do that is bc we like to feel vulnerable and want to feel important to the female and when the shoot us down then our pride kicks in

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Why would you post his picture? you seem like you are the one who is spiteful and bitter

PipeGodoy · Answer

ButtHurt
An inappropriately strong negative emotional response from a perceived personal insult. Characterized by strong feelings of shame. Frequently associated with a cessation of communication and overt hostility towards the "aggressor."

NajemEddine · Answer

lets see who gets crazy when she get dumped or a guy doesn't like her  we have a crazy girlfriend meme for the love of god

Anonymous · Answer

One upon a time, there was a fox and some grapes. The fox said "I want the grapes" and jumped and jumped but could never get them. Then he exclaimed "You suck, grapes!" and went away.

Zac15 · Answer

They have their egos standing up more than self respect... always remember rejection and acceptance are two sides of a same coin

someho · Answer

It kills guys ego or reputation... It's not right but many people do it, girls and guys.

Niyar_62 · Answer

That's coz he never loved you! . . he just wanted you

glitterguts · Answer

dont care if u reject him its a good thing if he fucks off

HOAAH · Answer

Because they are reactive. They take things way too personally. They have victim mentality.

KINGNIGGA123 · Answer

Excuse me? I had never stated that women don't get face rejection. I was simply saying that more men face rejection than women. Don't twist my words.

JayLiche · Answer

Imagine just about every guy you talk to  telling you he's not interested  or to "fuck off" That's why i don't chase relationships

inti95 · Answer

It hurts their ego and especially if they revealed/confessed their true feelings which some men don't like to do then take it personally.

anmari2001 · Answer

because those guys are butthurted and expected something from u but they cabt get it

iSpankYou · Answer

They are not yet ready for rejections so act immature.

720XP · Answer

Rejection causes pain. It's that simple. It hurts, and often people want to hurt back those who hurt them.

Rangers · Answer

They no longer have feelings and may feel insulted that she didn't think they'd make a good boyfriend

Anonymous · Answer

No one taught them how to handle rejection. Society told them if they did XYZ they'd succeed. Then they grow up do XYZ and society just says "fuck you" to them. So they don't know how to respond.

Whiterecluse · Answer

Does anyone react well to rejection? I would assume that I would internalize it and try to disappear or die. It depends on how severe or blunt the rejection is.

kelvinmed · Answer

They had a plan to get a certain girl, maybe the girl wised up and realized what the guy was up to or the guy wasn't her type and because the guy has a sensitive ego and it's hurt they get bitter

castratedwhiteguy · Answer

I've done that. It's my way of moving on. She's rejected me so she should just get the fuck out of my life completely. If she tries to hang around as friends than we have a real problem...

darylmichael98 · Answer

in my experience, we are just hurt. its nothing personal but we just loose confidence in ourselves and deal with it a different way

masterotaku · Answer

because rejection sucks... and unfortunately boys spend most of their lives resolving those sorts of issues with anger or physicality. it takes maturity to not succumb to ones nature.

Wyjies · Answer

I always thought it was a defence mechanism. like the guys are hurt by the rejection and they lash out at those that hurt them

RD196 · Answer

Men can't handle rejections and their expectations are not met they feel hurt n hence turn bitter sometimes. This is also applicable in case of girls as well..

massa · Answer

most men or "boys" unfortunately weren't taught or learned Reconciliation from their gaurdian/s

hellokitty96_18 · Answer

It bruised their egos. Or it hits their self esteem issues really bad

Eddieniceboy · Answer

We are assholes don't mistake that for being bitter!

mrsingle · Answer

Girls cry and eat chocolate, guys get angry, we both deal with it in our own ways.

bobsterr · Answer

from my experience I was only bitter coz she was being a Cunt about it

lEat70sBush · Answer

I simply quit asking so haven't had such issues in over 20 years since I'm no longer rejected.

Anon70 · Answer

Go to a shoppe, ask for an item. Be told you cannot have it.

alice55 · Answer

Their ego hurt or they really liked her and want to hurt the girl as much as she hurt them.

troychapman · Answer

same reason some girls do it there hurt feel humiliated

abundantlyrich · Answer

Sexual frustration and they are depressed because of it. Sucks to be them.

notlrac · Answer

some guys are hemorrhoids what can you say if the shoe fit

WantAnswersNow · Answer

either he's Narcissic and not used to rejection and it took a blow at his ego. OR he's tired of being shot down.

Sweet_serenity11 · Answer

it's because some act very egotistical, and very selfish. who the hell wants to hear all that bitterness and psychotic tendencies.

ChocEyes1 · Answer

They are overly emotional. Should pull themselves together. Maybe too much soy in the diet? @Warmapplecrumble

Foseumate · Answer

Because people don't like being rejected and it's usually a sign of immaturity to start tripping when you get turned down.

genericname85 · Answer

that´s how you get over people. you try to antagonize them a bit in order to easier detach the emotions you built up for them. it rarely works tho xD

geonator · Answer

If he has faced a lot of rejections then he doesn't know what's wrong with him and he thinks of the girl as a cause of him having to wonder about that

TheSpartan · Answer

They take it personally, like you're rejecting them just to be nefarious or hateful. A lot of men take rejection very, very personally.

Maxemeister · Answer

I feel like it's something to do with upbringing. Either that or they weren't humbled enough in their lives

ernest1 · Answer

that's one thing I don't engage myself in, Nevertheless rejection ain't no big deal but brooding on it makes it looks disastrous.. Always respect her decision and move on ps

shubhamchachapara · Answer

it happened to me also. I started harassing her by calling but fortunately I and she both became strong. now it's 2 years passed and I didn't texted her

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are potential serial killers and rapists.

GoodGuyGregGGG · Answer

Salvage what little pride they had cause by you telling them no it puts you above them. so in order for them to be equal or above you they meed to put you dow n

RedThread · Answer

Fragile egos. People think that lashing out is justified when rejected.

mnyamweya · Answer

I used to love my x-GF and could do everything for her. but when she decided to cheat on me I decided that am not gonna give 100% trust to any girl

villiam · Answer

a person who does that probably have dedicated a bit to much time on being in love with you. ether that or he's just a jerk

MPeoples · Answer

no one likes rejection, most guys are not entitled jerks who thinks you owe them anything. some of them get mad when you politely tell them no.

DizzyAster · Answer

He's a goddam baby. Even the most desired men get turned down sometimes, so why take it so seriously?

blackstar4801 · Answer

some guys are putting all there frustration out on one girl; from the multitude that rejected them

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