Why some men are bitter and mean to the girls after rejection? (Page 6)

Question

It seems like they liked you a lot, told you many compliments, wanted to spend as much time with you as possible, but after rejection they kinda start hating you and try to hurt you. When I say rejection, I mean a nice way to say "No", not being rude or something.  It's very immature thing to do, just was curious why do they act like that.

shayan7107 · Answer

this is because they get angry after hearing a no... they expect a yes but after hearing a shcking no their mind changes n get they angry..

kieran0byrne · Answer

it's to do with when a woman decides to change her mind, and ends up wanting to be the person person who wants to be with the guy instead.

Anonymous · Answer

you try getting rejected a lot and see how it feels

red07net · Answer

it's basic human nature. being ignored or rejected has the same neural effect on brain as physical wound. so it is instinctive.

chrisbigman · Answer

Probably because they REALLY wanted her and just showing anger/frustration towards the rejection by being bitter and mean to her.

belliii · Answer

for man it's so annoying to give everything and at the last moment they get rejected. it's like a women waiting for a new baby and at the 8th or 9th month the baby die, how does that make u feel?

Anonymous · Answer

They want to show you that they're over you and you missed out and are nothing to them

Anonymous · Answer

Isn't it obvious? A person rejects you, you're going to be nice to them? Or even want to talk to them?

timidmale · Answer

Because they're immature little wimps, i can't stand it when a guy is are mean to girls, we are supposed to take her of them and protect them not the other way around.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

Because they are just immature. Simple as that.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe in their mind they got up the nerve to ask finally and then got rejected after a few times it frustrates them so they tend to take it out on you

Kylesar · Answer

It's honestly just salt. A defense mechanism to protect their hurt ego

Galvin · Answer

because they can't handle reality and they think thr world revolves around them

Dingsbums · Answer

At least u know that u made the right decision then

christian_witch · Answer

Because they are only into you to date. Outside of that they really aren't interested in you.

JonathanThorn · Answer

for a number of things. top two are we are idiots and because we didn't exactly get let down nicely in the first place.

Muhammad1999 · Answer

maybe they have been rejected badly , she can at least reject him nicely but her personality will appear to him after he approaches to ask her out

techfx3 · Answer

it is difficult to get out of it if the guy seriously loves you

MrDiamond · Answer

we are trying to hide sadness but then it turns in to anger

omykb1_one · Answer

you now they lost control and now they need to have the last word..

Blackyz · Answer

What else do you expect him to do? :D ofcourse he is being rejected.. so yeah he will move on to another chick which is normal.. he won't cry over her and beg her ofcourse :D

Jshu6979 · Answer

Humans are biologically evolved to feel high sensitivity to rejection for procreative reasons. This is what pride does as an emotion for both men and women

fireblast950 · Answer

It's like they spent all that time being nice and in return they got rejected so yeah they feel bitter towards you. The best thing is for them to not show it

aboringuy · Answer

Its not much about rejection, but how you manage to do it.

Jonestaylor16 · Answer

It means, to act bitter all because of rejection is just signs that the guy hasn't grown up.

GreenRocket59 · Answer

I have a bad habit of Ghosting because I can't take conflict.

xjxssica · Answer

im not sure. its happened to me before tho and it was funny to me how childish he acted

jesusnicolas97 · Answer

Because some guys can't handle being rejected so they become immature

Liisjak · Answer

For the same reason when you reject a girl she stops talking to you. Butthurt.

maturedlibra · Answer

I think now-a-days both men and women are doing same you can't blame only man for this

the3ghzpc · Answer

i dont. why do some girls do it? like after breakup?

Blitzkrieger · Answer

Because they lose face. It is humiliation for them to be rejected, rejection means failure.

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Same reason girls are mean to the guys after rejection. Is that a Question lol?

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

Because some people just can't take rejection. A girl called me gay once for not being interested

chuy10 · Answer

guys get hurt like anyone else some girls lead them on then don't want nothing to do with them when they see they are serious

Ja-Krispy · Answer

it's a childish ego defense. but it would seem to me and my experience, the dickhead of a guy succeeds far more than the calm respectful ones.

nimit_u · Answer

it's not just about men rejection is something not everybody can handle doesn't matter you are a boy or girl

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why some women are bitter and mean to the guys after rejection

Mounirkhiro · Answer

I really really hate this (NO) answer.. because me or all boys will take it personally...

Adrian99 · Answer

Its easier to accept a rejection if u get separated of that person

michael45 · Answer

Those who aren't use to rejection act like that. It's called pride and ego.

SilverRain92 · Answer

Not all men act like that. Only those who have a big ego.

SwolDishWasher · Answer

I honestly dont care after she says no. I have no reason to care.

Illmatic4 · Answer

Depends on how it happens. It's not okay to lie to make us feel better, a genuine direct response is better and helps to move on.

Anonymous · Answer

This is not a guy thing. Both guys and girls do it.

Anonymous · Answer

Well cause the truth hurts, most likely the girl had a good reason to break it off with him.

Marchosias1739 · Answer

Some guys are immature and egotistical. others seem to be stuck in the old "man is king" mindset despite not actually being much of a man at all.

Anonymous · Answer

It goes both ways. Ever hear the adage "Hell has no fury like a woman scorned." The reason is that people are hurt. Pain often becomes anger. And we want to hurt those who hurt us.

coolandgood · Answer

some guys feel as if since they spent time with you, they are entitled to a date.

Whatthefluff · Answer

They got their hearts broken

judgerlight · Answer

How would you feel if you don't get what you want op?

Evanmcneil · Answer

It is just hard for us to accept that we have been rejected.

kush12 · Answer

they do so because they are very tensed because of the rejection and the release it as frustration

coleman1798 · Answer

upset you don't like them back. Nothing to really do about it.

Danneman · Answer

It's a normal reaction. No one likes to get rejected, whether it's a guy or a girl.

elegatoVI · Answer

Cause it hurts the guy

Anonymous · Answer

If she's still in my face afterwards then she deserves it.

stellal7099 · Answer

Maybe angry after the time they invested

Browneye57 · Answer

Uh, goes both ways honey. :)

coleebreck1998 · Answer

simple, it's like really frustrating to them mostly

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