Let's say if you see a cute bartender, a waiter, a sales person, etc. How to flirt with him without being creepy?
How do you flirt with a guy you don't know?
Just start talking to him. Compliment something about him that is outward noticeable, such as his hair, or outfit. Such as "I like your haircut, it suits you" or "I notice your shirt has Johnny Cash (or ACDC), do you like his music?". Guys like receiving compliments like that, especially from girls.
Don't ever use the word "cute" when complimenting a guy, it is a real turn-off. Instead, use handsome or something similar.
Once this happens, he will start talking to you, he may be shy at first so keep that in mind, but he will open up.
Make sure that you pay attention to what he says, and grab them. Such as, if he says that he likes Johnny Cash because his grandfather used to play his songs in the car, pick up on that. Tell him what you like about Johnny Cash, or a memory of why you like his music.
If he is working, do keep in mind that he can get in trouble if he is seen talking to you for too long, yes there is such thing as that. Just keep the topics small, and let him talk.
If he is interested, he will be doing the exact same thing; he will want to get to know you.
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A girl does not have to do much to flirt with a guy. That doesn't mean it's easy! Essentially: eye contact (don't stare), giggle or laugh, smile, make subtle compliments (just a few, too much is a turn-off!) and try to keep the conversation going. If there's awkward silence, say something. Anything. Even if its "girly stuff", he will be thankful. Guys usually feel the pressure to keep a conversation going, so with you actively taking party of the conv, he will be more relaxed and comfortable talking to you
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Honestly I think just talk and smile a lot. “If your having a good time that is”
If it’s for a one night stand literally just wink at him or call him sexy ahaha would work for me :p
But if you wanted something serious
I think it is a lot easier to pick up a guy then a girl. I’m sure if you spent enough time with them and just kept asking them if they want to hang out and do activities they’d definitely get the picture - 978 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Girls aren't creepy to guys because they are rarely physically threatening. You can just had a guy your , name and number and say "call me sometime?" Or get his number and text him. Attach a picture.
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Start giving little signals.
Like look at him. If he smiles back. You may call him to get some drink.
You can then show more signals.
A girl should actually not need to flirt, instead be able to make a boy flirt with her.
If he still doesn't respond to your signals. Find someone new. -
Talk to them like you would to anyone else but with more eye contact, some smiling and laugh at their jokes, regardless of how stale they may be.
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Go in with no expectations or intentions. Find out if you actually like the guy. The people that are creepy are the ones that are too forward
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Say hi, ask about his name and let him do the rest lol
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Just talk. Lead the conversation to where you want it to go.
You’re a girl, it’s *really* hard for a guy to see you as creepy on approach. That’s more of a girl thing. -
Well just start conversating and hope he catches on. Based of the rules of our society you would really have to fuck up to creep HIM out.
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When would it be creepy for a young woman such as yourself to flirt with a guy?
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I have never felt creeped out from a girl who approached me. Of course.. It doesn't really happen often at all
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For me to a female I always compliment her on her best feature whether that’d be her smile, eyes, hands/nails, etc.
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Crack jokes and touch him subtly in appropriate places, like on the arm or shoulder
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You sit and wait because all girls are entitled to attention from men without having to lift a finger
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Just say hi. Start the conversation and then gradually laugh and have jokes with him..
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Start with his looks that's it he will flattered
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it's also my question
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she will just flirt to get her ways with men...😂
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Flriting is sexual harassment i wouldn't risk it.
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Just try haha
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