I’m 14 and I have a crush on a 23 year old man? (Page 2)
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
28Opinion
do what you know is right for you.
Found the pedo.
You are too young for him.
Stay well away, don't know what else to say
Bad idea
Grow up m8
No it's fine, all girls want older men.
It’s illegal
For him, you get to have fun and get him criminally charged if he gets you upset. You hold all the power in that relationship
I'm 23 and girls my age say they want guys in their 40's. Girls always want guys older than them because they assume they're more mature than guys they're age and that they're entitled to "real men". Since you're a girl noone will tell you no.
That is such horrible advice. You are so fucked in the head.
No need to be rude, if you have a different opinion that's fine, I'm going off my observations.
I hope you can give something more substantial than just an attack on my opinion. im treating you with respect, I hope you can do the same.
I'm sorry, you want respect for giving advice to a 14 year old girl that she should pursue a sexual fantasy that could possibly ruin someone's life forever? I suppose you give razors to suicidal people huh? No you don't deserve my respect, and neither does your opinion, considering the majority of the world finds your opinion to be seriously messed up enough to put guys in prison. Yeah, I notice the fact that underage girls are attractive and the fantasy comes up from time to time, but it's never okay to tell someone to act on that shit.
I had no problem getting girls my age since I was 19. In fact they were too immature for me, I preferred older women. Most girls I know or talk to, don't want a guy who is twice their age unless they need therapy.
You're assumptions speak more a kit you than they go about me. I'm sorry you are intolerant of opinions other than your own. If you can't listen to anyone, consider ignoring posts and focus on your own.
I don't assume anything. I merely read the words that you typed. And you're right, statutory rape is really just an opinion. How horrible of me not to have an open mind. So, share your opinion please, how young is too young?
I voiced my opinion, it's up to her to decide what she wants. I have no power to. force or anyone to do anything. Statutory rape, or any verb for that matter, cannot be an opinion. Either drop your sarcastic attack on me, understand that I'm helping her with her options.
No, no you're not helping her. She has no options in this, without being a horrible people on the level of service assault herself. She has one clear choice to make. And yes your opinion, so far stated, is that it's perfectly fine to participate in sex with a minor, which is called statutory rape. Which is law in every country where women aren't still considered property.
I would wish you would answer my question though. You said this is your opinion, if I'm wrong, then correct me. Also what's the age you think is appropriate for informed consent?
Once again i did not say "my opinion is statutory rape" that make 0 sense in the English language and isn't even grammatically correct.
I personally am not attracted to girls under 20, and I observe laws around the age of consent. In this case I'm just encouraging a girl to do what she wants and think about options to see if that's what she really wants. Like I said , I can't force anyone to do anything.
If you want a specific age, I believe most people are able to consent around 16 or 17(age of consent in NY). But people all mature at different ages. So maybe she is mature for her age, I don't know her.
Her question is "it is very wrong" I don't believe it is. I'm not sure if you remember what puberty is like, but I found myself attracted to women around age 12-13, and *gasp* i started to watch porn around then too. Most of the model where older than 23, but I was attracted to them. I don't understand how you can tell a person they feel wrong.
Now you're not reading my words. I said that your opinion so far was that it was perfectly fine to engage in or encourage others to engage in underage sex. And rape is a noun as well as a verb. I don't see why you keep bringing this up as a grammatical error? It's like you're trying too hard to appear that English is your first language.
And I never told her that her feelings were wrong. But my opinion was that she shouldn't act on those feelings because the action would be wrong. "Do whatever you want, and remember you won't get in trouble, the other person will" was your advice, and that's reckless and stupid advice to give.
"my opinion is run" does that make any sense to you? I never even said "my opinion is statutory rape". So your wrong for claiming that's my opinion and your wrong that it's even able to be an opinion because a singular noun can be an opinion either, try again.
Okay, maybe you think my advice is bad, that's fine. At this point I think you started this altercation for attention.
No, I started it because your opinion was fucked up. Even 4chan normally frowns upon that shit. And again with the grammar. Dude you're trying too hard to prove that colloquial phrasing that would be understood by most Americans/Brits/Aussies, is confusing. It's only confusing if it's being translated. Nice attempt to grammar Nazi in a Second Language though, I commend you.
In both contexts it sounds dumb. Please by all means if that's how you speak, keep doing it. Im not even being a grammar Nazi.
"my opinion is grammar nazi" lol
are u there?
He is here and I’m here
do you like muscular men? :)
heyyy?
answer pls