Ever regret having a crush on someone, and why?

[Anonymous]

[UnknownReflection]

Never had crush on anyone. I don't understand the concept of crush at all and i can't understand how people accept to waste their life over overwhelming emotions and a very unclear unrealistic romance. It doesn't make sense to me.

Never regretted not having crush on anyone because i believe the whole concept is useless and unrealistic as well as a waste of time.

Good Luck.

[raggmopp]

I'm sorry to hear that you're missing out in something amazing it's a great feeling to crush

[UnknownReflection]

@raggmopp With all due respect; i don't find anything amazing in it. Because according to my analysis it's a confusion state and an unrealistic feeling where it most likely ends anywhere meaningful. I always been clear with my life; making clear decisions right straightforward so i can't understand this kind of bubble living methods at all. Maybe it's great for someone like you who connected with it but for me; i feel just so grossed out even thinking about it.

I mean; why would i crush a celebrity in the most unrealistic way? It's immature. Or why would i have this bubble of liking someone but never encounter and never speak about it just secretly create a fake romance and live in fantasy? ; It's totally a waste of time and emotion. And so many more type of crushes that are just so illogical.

Sorry i can't understand it nor stand it. But if you enjoyed; good for you! i wish the best for you down to that path!

[CandaceG]

So you've never been attracted to anyone?

[UnknownReflection]

@CandaceG I didn't know attraction and Crush are the same subject. Are they the same? I don't really believe so personally.

However; it's really important how you define attractiveness. For example; Katy Perry is my favorite Female singer in Pop genre. I love her and of course i find her to be such a beautiful lady. But i don't have "Crush" on her. To be like "Awww i wish i could marry her" or like create love books and attach Perry's pictures on them with little hearts around it. Orrr stalk on a random girl in college and fantasize a life with her and admire her in my privacy like crazy.

No i never felt any of them in my entire life.

I've had a long look into the state of Crush because for years i failed to understand it. From talking to people and getting real experiences and definitions from reading the websites; different blogs and how other authors defined the concept. Even speaking to my own girlfriend where she used to have a "Crush" on some singers in the past.

[UnknownReflection]

I have realized that crush come with various forms and each person experience it differently. But all of them have similar attributions which I'd describe them as: Bubble; Fantasy; Waste of time; useless and empty.

The concept of Crush is meaningless. You whether love someone or you don’t. We already have a defined word for it. (Likeness) or (Love). But (Crush)? Just a confusion state of Youth Hormonal Explosion. That is the reality of Crush for me.

If you are wondering; No I never flirted with girls because of the smell of their perfume is making my hormones to party; or I never got a infatuation for a girl just because they do this and that or look this certain way and that.

And what I have for people like Katy Perry as a woman adult with years older than me. It's love in concept of fandom followed by respect and decency. Not anything else like a empty bubble like "Crushing" after a professional artist which I'd call it immaturity.

[UnknownReflection]

But to your direct answer on my attraction would be I guess No. Because for me Love is Love and it comes with different forms. The only girl I got really attracted to with severe emotion and explosion of love from the within was my current girlfriend of seven years and the only girl I've ever been with.

[Anonymous]

Yes. It was back when I was 15 or 16. I had a huge crush on a girl and we went out for a few years actually, and things didn't end well. Looking back on it, I feel stupid.

[secretgirlxx]

Yes I regret a lot of crushes because they turned out to be horrible people and when I stopped liking them they were actually not that cute either.

[raggmopp]

No because it's amazing even if it doesn't work out with the person they've still made you smile

[emuumi]

Only once, because that crush wrecked my confidence completely

[Asker]

What did he do to wreck your confidence?

[emuumi]

Long story, there's a lot but main thing is that he started hitting on my more attractive friend behind my back, I introduced them, and then kept leading me on just so he could meet my friend, who is taken

[amel23]

Yesss bc i wasted time I could've done other things

[LuckyLlama]

Yes, it's someone I definitely shouldn't have had a crush on. Family related.

[jackyboyo]

Yes, she turned out to be crazy, abusive and stole from me

[Kenni]

Yes. Cuz you realize you wasted your time on a total asshole

[Storm_Soldier2377]

Yea I liked a girl five years younger than me. Yeah it sucked, but I don't regret it because it wasn't my choice to like her.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. I think I'm subconsciously attracted to crazy girls because that's how all of them have ended up being.

[Stan_Control_]

Yes. Cuz her boyfriend threatened me constantly when i met him.

[Anonymous]

Not really just annoyed because the guy wasn't my type nor was he a kind person

[Anonymous]

Yes all the time usually because the person doesn't like me back or they weren't compatible with me.

[txdiie_]

yes a lot of them
@SuperNovaRoyalty

[SuperNovaRoyalty]

lol same
but there some i dont regret cuz they taught me lessons
*rolls eyes*

[CandaceG]

Hmm so you've never been attracted to anyone?

[CandaceG]

Oops! Wrong send. Supposed to go on the person's comment

[GayHowellMeme]

Oh yes, my crush didn't like me.

[Anonymous]

Regretting it rn. He's got a girlfriend