What flirting tips will drive him crazy?

[Blonde401]

Guys, If you wanted a girl to flirt with you, what kind of flirting drives you crazy and makes you flirt back?

girls what’s your best flirting technique?

[Pamina]

It's hard to explain, but I do a lot with my lips when I talk to them, and look at them in certain ways. And of course also do the casual physical contact thing, like placing my hand on his thigh for a moment, and then a moment longer and so on.

It's mostly body language. You just have to make all your movements sensual, in a subtle but not too subtle way.

[Blonde401]

Great tips!

[Dragon6901]

Wow. Yup. That would work methinks

[Val_Evo2]

Small things you KNOW he'll notice and think about.

Touching my hair real quick, looking away, then looking back with a smile.
A quick touch on his hand after he says something funny.
Sliding close if I'm sitting next to him.

Just some examples lol.

[parkerlesueur45]

Resting your head on his shoulder at the movies or in the car. Umm... Laughing at things that aren't even funny. Just act like an innocent kid making childish remarks and being silly. I'm 18 but this kind of stuff will still drive me crazy for many years to come.

[Blonde401]

Ahh no chance of getting to do those things for me haha but thanks for the ideas :)

[parkerlesueur45]

Lol why not?

[Blonde401]

We work together.

[parkerlesueur45]

Oh haha well you can still laugh all the time at what he says

[iamshan]

So if he said yo, ma grandma just dies and she be like hehehe oh you're so funny.. Now that'll sure get the ball rolling xD

[parkerlesueur45]

Haha ok not everything

[iamshan]

Hahaha xD

[1derfulguy]

There is an ancient scroll buried beneath a pyramid that describes a flirting technique so devastating it is said to cause spontaneous orgasms within a radius of hundreds of miles.

Many have sought it, many have failed...

[Blonde401]

God damn it why aren’t we funding a mission to find this?

[1derfulguy]

We blew the money on strippers. Also, we sent a Tesla into orbit. And tax cuts.

[Blonde401]

Hmmm all valid points 🤔

[GRIZZadams]

Lip biting, hair play, distance closing, softer tone, opening up, buying drinks, smiling, eye contact, ask about him, approaching him, constant glancing, compliments.

[kenworth]

I saw you said you work together. Go up to him and whil asking about anything. Twirl some of your hair with a finger. And play the absent mind thing. Then say oh yeah could you help me with this. So ething to get him over to your area. Then have him do something. Or say somebody must have already taken care of it. Then ask him if he would like to get a drink with you after work.

[AndrewMG]

Intelligence, humour and willing to share their Toblerone's... against that attack I have no defence!

[Blonde401]

I’ve got all three of those down I feel!

[AndrewMG]

@Blonde401 2 out 0f 3 I knew, was 50/50 on your willingness to share your Toblerone though! lol

[Blonde401]

Sharing is caring ;)

[AndrewMG]

True, true! But also " Not sharing Swiss Choc, is an effective Block"... This rhyming game is confusing! lol

[awarapagalbanjara]

I like smart girls, love when a girl knows her thing... So there was a girl, she was amazing at flirting and could pickup guys without uttering a single word, Smile, eye contact, basically facial expressions. We are visual creature, no matter what a guy says. All we think about is Angelina Jolie.
Ask how do I look? If the guy is smart he will understand...

[Blonde401]

All guys think about is Angelina Jolie? Then I’ve no chance.

[awarapagalbanjara]

Well we are no Brad Pitt 😉😆

[ProtocalXXIV]

Joke with him... even if it's a sad attempt. Tell him what you find interesting about him. If he doesn't do those things back that's a quick way to figure out who is emotionally unavailable.

[Blonde401]

I’ve tried all this. I’m sort of wondering if he’s just the type to not get a hint 🤔 or maybe you’re right. He’s unavailable.

[ProtocalXXIV]

Don't feel bad if he is unavailable. There's a lot of people out there who make people feel shitty because they are selfish. Sometimes you find the right person it's just the wrong time... it happens

[Blonde401]

I don’t think it’s as bad as all that. Maybe I’m just not his type haha. Oh well.

[ProtocalXXIV]

You are cute so I'm sure you can be a lot of other people's type

[Blonde401]

Ahh thanks. Single three years though 😒

[ProtocalXXIV]

Took me about 7 last time but I'm recently single. Time does suck. Where are you from?

[Blonde401]

England! You?

[ProtocalXXIV]

Canada! Lol Just across the big pond.

[Blonde401]

Cool :)

[ProtocalXXIV]

Lol. Feel free to ask me if you have any other questions or if ya wanna know me

[Blonde401]

Cool, same. My inbox is always open

[ProtocalXXIV]

I haven't unlocked that yet I just joined today. Do you know when it unlocks?

[Blonde401]

Level 2 I think?

[ProtocalXXIV]

thanks I just did that this morning

[Blonde401]

Woop!

[Jeremy8]

Bluntly pointing out how much you are attracted to the guy if you find him hot with a hint of playfulness, is a good way to get him blushing and him flirting back

[Blonde401]

Can’t tell him, has to just be through flirting!

[Jeremy8]

Ok well then just stare at him in the eyes, give him a little smile and say "hey" in a somewhat slow cute voice 👌

[Blonde401]

Good tips! Thanks :)

[Jeremy8]

Np :)

[jackthesipper]

Basically I found that as a guy, I'm mostly attracted to girls who show an "I know what I want" confidence. For example, a girl that wouldn't expect me to flirt back nor would be disappointed if she doesn't get me, yet displays joy when I react well to them. It's the basis of acting childishly to keep him hooked. Hope that made sense.

[Blonde401]

I kinda get what you’re sayin, know what you want and show it.

[jackthesipper]

All WHILE doing your thing. Guys have insecurities too. Not talking about a dominance thing, but if you make it clear that flirting is a go, you'll get wonders. Since he'd be less into how you might react, he'll flirt back and laugh like an idiot and such. In other words, you'd drive him crazy :)

[JSmuve]

You've gotta give him this look, make him feel like he fell out of the "I just wanna suck your dick" tree and hit every branch on the way down

[Blonde401]

I’m trying! Either he doesn’t get it or I’m not doing it right 😂

[JSmuve]

Probably the latter. Try this
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[Blonde401]

I’m like one step below it 😂

[JSmuve]

Definitely wanna be below it 😉

[Blonde401]

😂 well duh

[JSmuve]

Just makin sure you knew 😛

[Blonde401]

😉 thanks

[Waffles731]

Honestly I'm AWFUL at flirting and recognizing it.
Like seriously awful at it.
So I got nothing for you

[Blonde401]

There’s someone I’ve been trying to flirt with and I am getting nothing. I’m hoping it’s cause he’s clueless and not cause I suck at flirting 😂

[Waffles731]

He might just be completely oblivious, that is the kind of person I am

[Blonde401]

He’s tough to read. I’m hoping that’s the case... though that doesn’t help either 😅 what could a girl do that you would notice?

[Andrew6]

Anything if we like you... if we like you we answer back instinctual

[Blonde401]

What if he’s the kind who doesn’t get a hint?

[Andrew6]

There are 2 things...1 he is prettending to see how far you go...2 he is that stupid and u need to make it obviously

[Blonde401]

Hmm you’re right.

[Andrew6]

Glad to bw helpful

[1nittol3arn]

I don't think there's a perfect answer for that. Usually when a person is interested they voice it or show it. However there's many strike outs because only one person wants that.

[dejakris9988]

Hahaha if a girl has the balls to flirt I'd give u my answer but they dont..

[MaeX1992]

Haha, you made my day. All those online dating thing even have one thing in common. Every girl always: "write me". Like hell no get some balls or get some sneaky a**hole whos playin with ya.

[dejakris9988]

Hahahahaha same dude.. life these days is so ass backwards.. fucking stupid.. but glad I made your day lol.

[Blonde401]

I’m trying real hard to flirt actually... though I have to do it covertly. I love a good flirt, maybe it’s cause I’m English!

[dejakris9988]

Oh than ya that's it see in America girls don't flirt with guys.. or maybe just not me.. lol.. but if u where trying to flirt.. I don't know everyone is diffrent..

[Blonde401]

I flirt. English girls are known for being flirty mo’fos. Any tips then? How would you want a girl to flirt with you?

[MaeX1992]

If you wanna flirt don't ask what they do for a living nor how much they make. Tell a joke, and the ultra thing is, ask him if you can buy him a drink. If he tells no he will buy one for you guys... well you will most likely like him better than most a**holes.

[Blonde401]

@MaeX1992 well I’m not interested in what he makes cause I already know, the same as me 😂 I’m genuinely not interested in his money. But you’re obviously quite upset by some treatment you’ve had from women in the past and that’s unfortunate and I’m sorry about that. But we aren’t all the same you know :)

[MaeX1992]

Na i haven't bean treated in any of this way. I just see so much stuff around me that i automatically start disliking many persons. Flirting ain't hard, it works most like it did before. Search for eye contact, break out of the girly section you are with, give him the chance to talk with you alone. Keep smiling, get a bit touchy but not too much and if it feels right a good night kiss. Then he knows where he is and can use his whole reportoir of flirting withou having doubts if there is something or not. (so much sexual herassment atuff going on today)

[Blonde401]

@MaeX1992 nah can’t do any of that. We sort of work together lol. But thanks for the advice. The world ain’t as scary as you make it seem you know?

[MaeX1992]

Well if he is a coworker just ask him if he wanna hang out sometime and get smth. to drink or a little hike somewhere.
Not that scary? In? norway? u have to sign a paper if you want to have a seyual relation with another being. Without it you can be sued for rape. A damn legal paper! Thats kinda really scarry.

[Blonde401]

@MaeX1992 that’s Norway. And nah I can’t do that. I kinda just wanna have a flirt and test the waters. I don’t wanna make a fool of myself. He probably doesn’t like me anyway 😅

[dejakris9988]

See that's the thing.. why not just go out of your way.. it's like people are so afraid to just be straight up with people. Yes I get it rejection sux.. but their are millions of people in the world.. it's bound to happen

[Blonde401]

Nah I work with him. If it was a random person in a club then that’s fine but when it’s someone I see at work most days. Nope.

[dejakris9988]

Ok so than keep is professional and find someone else

[Blonde401]

It’s not that serious. I just want a flirtationship.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

A girl who constantly stares and looks away is complete turn on.

[Gedaria]

Smiling and direct eye contact keep touching his knee. Keep crossing your legs , twiddling with your hair. If you are really naughty. a quick flash of knickers !!!

[Blonde401]

I wear jeans permenantly due to winter so no chance of that 😂

[TallGuy96]

Staring with flirty eyes and biting lips from time to time

[jdrrichmond]

It always gets my attention when a woman bits her lower lip.

[Sublime45]

Hey there smexy how you doin' this FINE ASF evenin' ?

[COCOCHANEL]

looking at him often and holding eye contact

[COCOCHANEL]

Have you ever tried godiva liqueur? ↗

[Blonde401]

I’ve never tried it no.

[COCOCHANEL]

is it not popular there?

[Blonde401]

I guess not? I’ve heard of it but just never had it.

[full_Deer]

Just be warned, all this super subtle stuff. Guys often miss. I've had many times where my friends told me after the fact oh that girl was flirting with you, and I had no idea. Always be a bit more direct than you think you should be.

[Blonde401]

@full_Deer how can you be more direct though?

[full_Deer]

My personal favorite is compliments, but it's more of a general guideline. Girls should be doing more than what they THINK should be necessary. While on the flip side guys should be doing LESS. Huge oversimplification of course. But it's worth remembering.

[COCOCHANEL]

@full_Deer is this good → "oh! you changed your hair!"

[full_Deer]

Is that a compliment? I think it would just confuse me. Why not just say "I like your new haircut" or even throw the word handsome in there. Shy guys, especially, need a bit of an ego boost to make a move.

[AthleticMom]

Touch always works everytime

[DellBoy]

Look deep into eyes every so and so