You need to approach him. And I'm sure you are (as a woman) capable of bringing up things that he's done without having to think to hard. Bring them up and talk about it, let him know that certain things bother you and it shouldn't have to get to the point of you getting pissed for him to stop and apologize. There are boundaries and he needs to know what they are. If he can't abide by those boundaries, or even if he's just unwilling to listen to you talk about this... then you need to break up with him, and don't accept an apology. Forgive, but then move on. There has to be a time where enough is just enough and you stop taking it from him. I won't say its a matter of insecurities, because in a relationship, it is his responsibility to see to it that you feel secure and loved, not to be the one that brings those insecurities out.
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Sounds like a good opportunity for a sit down. 1.) Ask him if he has insecurities, and whether this is the reason for making beefs with you all the time. 2.) Tell him you are getting tired of this crap. 3.) Explain to him that if he can't stop it then you will help him find professional help
4.) If he continues and does not agree to professional help, tell him you are out of there.
Good luck
It could be any number of things with him. I would suggest being blunt and telling him how you feel and that you are fed up,but get down to the core of why he is doing what he is doing. Give him an ultimatum...either he stops the nonsense or you are leaving. Life is too short to deal with this type of rubbish on a regular basis. You're not actually enjoying the relationship,youre just tolerating it.I hope things get beter for you.
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