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Because, to guys, a girl being friendly and a girl being flirty look the exact same.
But whyyyy
Cause we've never had a girl flirt with us so we wouldn't know the difference 😂
Oh dear...
Oh dear?
Because a lot of girls are just not polite/friendly, so when some more one is we think that there is a reason because that is what experiences have taught us
Because men are not good at reading body languages and signs. We aren't women. Women are experts in those things. Men are more inclined on other things. Most men know sports, mathematical based games and mechanics to higher electronics.
I don’t know but I wish that kind of thinking would stop
Because they obviously don't interact with women on a regularly so anything a woman does with them or cracks a smile must mean she is automatically flirting.
Those who do mistake it have probably been deprived of positive attention. Guys aren't as good at reading people, so we have no idea what you truly mean.
they think if a girl is the least bit interested in them that they want to sleep with them...
Usually cuz they want to flirt with you, so if they see any positive feedback they try
Because flirting isn’t set in stone. It can differ wildly. It’s easy to mix them up.
But why are guys jumping to conclusions its definitely flirting instead of being friendly
When you take a moment and really watch how shitty most women are towards men, you'll understand.
This is why they have to be. If a woman is not shitty to a man, he gets stupid ideas in his head about her.
@Porcelaine It's definitely a self-feeding thing. Boys see women acting shitty to men, who teach the boys to be on the look out for a woman who treats them well. Girls see women treating men poorly, and want to be one of the women who doesn't treat men poorly. Then the girl tries to be nice to a guy and he misinterprets things, so the girl then realizes why the women act the way they do, and then the boy and girl grow up to repeat their mistakes.
This is why my approach to people in general is simple: don't suck, treat people with respect.
Haha this was me in high school
"She is nice to me? 😍😍😍"
*instantly falls in love
Lot of girls are cunts, don't even smile etc. Take my neighbor for instance. Hardly a hello as we walk by on the stairs.
cuz they want to think they have lots of girls attracted to them
The guys who do it are probably just confident (possibly arrogant). Don't be mistaken though, women do this too.
Because those guys don't get a lot of that daily, so when they see girls smiling, they imagine things. It's understandable.
I think that I explained myself bad.
A lot of guys don't usually find girls being friendly and even flirty thoards them.
So... When they find one, they mistake it.
I don’t know. I guess girls are usually cunts to guys they don’t find hot. Keep in mind many guys never get any ass so a girl being nice to them gives them hopeful thoughts...
Hopeful thoughts is fine, but jumping to conclusions that she already has romantic interest simply because she is friendly is just annoying
@Porcelaine well as I said they think this because girls are usually cunts to guys that they don’t find hot so a girl simply being nice may give shy and insecure guys some hope.
so a girl can be either rude or romantically interested? there is no middle of just being polite and talk to them? that's absurd. they have to at least consider the possibility she is being nice that is all, if they immediately think she is interested that's just inconsiderate
So... Girls aren't polite or friendly when they flirt?
Because guys are starved for attention from the opposite sex.
I don't. I am however guilty of mistaking flirting for being polite/friendly.
Some guys just have not much experience with politeness and it's disarming for them.
Those guys aren't used to the concept of women as friends
Being polite is diffrent from being friendly. It depends on how u act and talk. But some guys are nkt open minded too.
Cos thats what we want. We wish this girl would be flirting bh she s just being nice. Bh we take it as flirting anyways
They're probably used to deal with green-haired feminazis.
So if she is not a feminazi then she wants him? Where is the middle ground allowing girls just tp be nice and polite
Because women never say what they mean, so we're guessing one way or the other.
I guess because we're so desperate for a relationship that we can't tell the difference.
Well we're desperate for affection and female attention... dunno if that means we're desperate for a relationship. I know I'm not.
I wasn't really speaking for all guys, just the ones seeking a relationship
I would imagine an overly eager guy would mistake this but an actual man would know the difference
Because there is a fine line between friendliness and flirting. Some guys can't tell the difference.
Because some guys have never hung out with the female for longer than 10 minutes.
They're simply bad at reading signs, or are desperate.
Because us guys seriously do not know how or when women flirt.
Most girls act mean to guys they aren't interested in because of this.
Well somewhat yes. I'm looking for a woman that has those qualities. Very important qualities.
I have the same problem with women doing that to me.
Same reason females assume just because a man is polite to you that he wants to bang. Assumptions
Cause guys are dumb and only want to get one off, other assume this person likes them
Signs are very close and some people can't tell the difference.. Common mistake
I don't know why do girls mistake guys being friendly and talking to them as being into them?
Because if you weren't interested in someone why would you waste energy being friendly to them?
I could be friendly to a women -this does not really mean I want to get in her panties. I work with a certian number of women so I am friendly with them. It does not by any means mean that I am hitting on her.
So you can’t be a nice person to people unless you think their attractive? Kind of would be a fucked up world if that was the case imagine if people were literally only treating people they think are attractive good 😂 also I know theirs humabeings that already seem to belong to that dystopia in this world but besides them
I'm nice to people I work with so I can get them to agree to better deadlines I guess... And I'm nice to restaurant staff so they don't spit in my food.
Is that what you meant?
I think everyone is regardless of what you look and yes little things like that just like how you interact with human beings and also in friends groups you see everyone hanging out regardless of look only thing that has to be similar in friend groups is stuff in common lol
No one should ever just be mean to someone for looks as an adults I know bullying and shit happens when you’re young but typically towards college that’s different when you actually view the world for what it is and realize human beings are more than their shell
Nice and mean isn't a binary. I'm not mean to ugly people I just don't put the effort in to be nice to them, if I have no reason to interact with them I don't.
Men can never win, if we don't do anything we are questioned as to why we are cowards.
We are not complaining if you make a pass at us, of course its better to try than not try and regret. What is annoying is guys jumping to conclusions if we are simply polite and talk to them.
@Porcelaine have you read the questions here? Many of them are why men can't read clues. I think the best thing is to wait for women to make undeniably obvious clues.
because it sometimes appears like that. because very few woman actually talk to me first and offer things and checks if your ok.
Most guys hve thinking of negative side. So they strt flirting girl when they see aroun there
Because a lot of us don't get any positive attention
Bc most girls are shallow so they think it’s unlikely that they’ll be targeted
What
Had this happen once with a girl it was devastating it was the first time a girl was friendly to me in almost 7 years
Bruh I literally wrote a post about that before lmfao
Because gentlemen crave sniz.
They lack social skills.
Hope springs eternal
Girls do it too 😊😊
Because men are stupid
Lol very.. ;)
😒😒
i guess this is their manufacturing default
I don't know. Guys, why do you?
Because girls flirt. They are Ho's.
... Because some women think thats flirting?
They dont get girls and are desperate
Because that's how some girls flirt *shrugs*
Because it’s misleading
Because we want to believe you are.
How can we be certain which one is which? That is not a rhetorical question. How can we?
90% of girls are never nice, anf friendly to me.