Girls how to learn to take a hint?

[Lightoning]

Most of the time there isn't any hint at all mostly mixed messages leaving most of us confused

[Cynicaldreamer]

Trial and error really. Other than outright asking how they feel about you, you have see how they act around you. However little things they say or do can sometimes be a hint-

Do they seem interested in you or want to spend time with you? Or does she push you away and not try to get to know you?
Also watch her body language.

Yeah, some people are STILL hard to read, or hide their feelings well, which is why I said just asking is probably the easiest way.

[Lightoning]

How should I ask without looking like an idiot then

[Cynicaldreamer]

How long have you known the girl? If she's pretty close to you, I'd just come out and ask her what she thinks about you! Trust me it's not as weird as it sounds, lol.

But if you barely know her, I'd wait until the next time you see her or hang out with her, and ask her what type of guys she is into, or better still, would she date a guy -like- you?

[btbc92]

You don't. You go ask the person unless it's completely obvious. Listen to their words, but watch what they do. If they say no, it their body says the opposite, their word for it. And maybe next time it will teach them to tell the truth.

[VIVANT]

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[crazy8000]

That works. also when you have to deal with someone that does the guessing game.
Like
It's fine.
It's okay.
I don't mind.
Do what you feel is right.

[btbc92]

Well that depends on the type of person your dealing with not what they say.

When I say "Its fine." I mean it's Fine. Whether it is or isn't, I'm telling you to mind your business at the moment.

If I say "I don't mind." I do mean that I don't. And the same for the rest. It's left on me to be honest or dishonest. And its immature to expect everybody to get what your saying. And most people sadly are not mature enough to be honest these days. It's one thing when you grow up in an abusive environment where you're forced to keep your mouth shut. It's another when you choose to play games with other people's lives because you want drama.

[sparke328]

Sorry, we overthink things. Like a lot. "Should I wear the blue dress to bring out my eyes or should I wear the white t-shirt to match my shoes?" yeah sorry...

[Lightoning]

I find no relation to the question I had asked

[taterthot]

I’m assuming ur in college. Seats are pretty close, chances of u working together are VERY high. Introduce urself and shake her hand. See if she gets nervous, red, whatever.

[reptocarl]

It isn’t up to us. It’s up to them to tell us what they want with no room for misinterpretation. We can’t read minds

[Lightoning]

It's easier to change than try to change someone else :) that's why im asking this question so I won't be single or in unsteady relationships for the next 40y

[reptocarl]

Just ask what they want

[Lightoning]

Thats how the mixed signals come and once i act it was of course misunderstood signal. If i don't act and ask on the next day it was free pass but I didn't act...

[Angie_sa]

Just ask haha and u can tell by body language eye contact all these things about what she means it says a lot ahha

[reptocarl]

No we can’t

[Lightoning]

Thanks for the answer I'm gonna watch some videos bout body language. The eye contact thing doesn't work since I find it important to look people in the eyes when communicating

[Angie_sa]

Like there are different types of eye contact hah but it depends where u live and where u are from to

[itsthatgurl]

So you want to know how to tell if a girl likes you basically?

[Lightoning]

And also when she doesn't like me

[itsthatgurl]

Well think about what you do when you like someone. Really nice to them, among, laughing, wanting to spend time with them. And if they don't like you that way they may act a little more shy towards things that have to do with moving forward and asking questions and stuff. She'll be more casual and you probably won't really get flirty vibes from her if she doesn't like you that way. Also if she talks about other guys she likes then ya you're in the friend zone

[BrotherFrost]

Stop looking for signals and go for girl you like. Either that or take any unnecessary conversation or physical contact she starts as a hint and go for it.

[incelposting]

Females don't hint for men they're genuinely attracted to. They make it plainly obvious

[IWannaKnowAlso]

If you're confused why don't you just ask?

[Lightoning]

Thats how the mixed signals come and once i act it was of course misunderstood signal but if i don't act and ask on the next day it was probably "free pass" but I missed it.

[IWannaKnowAlso]

Exactly!

[Lightoning]

Exactly what? I just said that they confirm that the opposite was true like:
Me: do you usually drink coffee with milk in it?
She: no
Me: Ordering coffee without milk
Next day again at the coffee shop
Ordering her coffee without milk waiter comes and serves and she asks for milk because somehow I remember what she told me yesterday.
Me: so you drink your coffee with milk?
She: Yeah I do if you don't know that I drink coffee with milk why didn't you just ask

[Lightoning]

Its basically always the opposite and this isn't only one girl its most of the girls I'm speak to so its not just that one has strange behavior