
Thank for understanding.

This is actually hilarious! I used to kiss my hand the wall, anything. And when I got my first kiss I realized that I never factored in one major thing!!! How will I know when to open and close my mouth with his!! It was so freaking embarrassing when I had my first kiss. I actually vaulted it and barely ever speak of it. I opened my mouth when he closed his and I was like ahhhhh abort abort and oppressed it by layering other embarrassing things over it lol. Eventually I got the hang of it but I still get nervous. I’ve only kissed two people and the second one I was nervous because he chewed tobacco and his mouth tasted of it a little. While I really didn’t care about his breath, I got too insecure about my breath smelling bad so I avoided using tongue which I don't know to me seems kind of boring tbh
Your lips are one of the most sensitive parts of your body, and it's a huge erogenous Zone!! With the right person and the right touch it can be very stimulating - I think you're probably overthinking it, and maybe if you take the stress out of the thought of the actual kiss itself, it will just come naturally.
At the moment you're all in your head, and it needs to just come from your lips 💋😊
I had a friend who taught me how to kiss. I had a boyfriend who dumped me because he was way more sexually experienced than me and I was a clueless virgin. He was my first kiss and first sexual partner and so I was an amateur at everything. I was an especially bad kisser. He wasn’t satisfied with our sex life so he dumped me. A few weeks later I met a guy who I’ll call Marcus who had a crush on me. I wasn’t really interested in dating because I had just been dumped and wanted to be single for a while, but I did want to at least work on my kissing skills so I wouldn’t lose another boyfriend. Marcus offered to teach me how to kiss. So I cut school one day, went to house, he cooked me lunch, and then he taught me how to kiss.
Hormones and TV. Despite having a boyfriend, I never kissed him because he lives abroad. He lives in Pakistan and Ilive in England. It has been more than a year and never had a face to face conversation. I only saw him in Pakistan but didn't have a conversation and then I asked someone to tell him about my feelings.
By the way, I really had to reduce the screen size because I am in a uni library, didn't want students around me to see sexual content.
My sister, and she let me practice on her😂
Lmao 😂😂😂
I guess people didn't like my answer? Well I answered it honestly so that sucks.😂
Because it’s freaky... but it’s funny at the same time.
Yup that's me!😂🤡
Very😂
Sometimes we can't choose how some things go sadly.
I was 12 or 13 at a weekend school outing to the mountains. One night, girls and guys started playing spin the bottle. That's where you sit in a circle and lay a bottle in the middle. You spin it and whoever it is pointing at when it stops gets kissed. So one time it wound up pointing at me. I stood up and a girl who was one grade older than me stood to kiss me. I had no idea how to kiss. When she did, my mouth was closed and when she tried to stick her tongue in my mouth, my teeth were closed.
I immediately understood what I had done wrong. The next time I kissed a girl I got it right.
Nobody. It just kinda happened. Maybe - subconsciously- I'd remembered how couples did it in the movies and copied them?
Although, I dated this particular girl whose tongue could find places where I didn't even know there WERE places!
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My pillow got a lot of action for a while until my first boyfriend kissed me.
Lucky pillow!
Lol for many years...
I don't need a teacher is what I would say - its just common sense - I kissed my parents when I was 6 so I know how to kiss
@spartan55 No but you kiss on the cheek so you would be able to kiss on the lips too. It's the same muscles.
No one ever taught me, pretty much all came natural to me
Sonny Crockett from Miami Vice... I just copied him as a kid! LOL
Actually, my mom taught me to kiss as a toddler.
She puckered her lips and instinctively, I knew I had to do it too. Basically, every baby probably learns the same way.
But as a baby, the first kiss is a slobbery thing because you don't really master those lips yet and you just go ahead and kiss this other baby, regardless of gender. That is the cutest and most innocent kiss that you will ever give, respectively get.
Sixth grade, and the cutest brunette, with long hair, and these little brass clips, holding her hair back. Still love those barrettes, whenever I see them!
I never knew why, but she just liked me, and I was a total nerd, and she was super-popular! All through 6th grade, whenever we were alone, she just 'sneaked' a kiss, even when I wasn't expecting!
Nobody taught me because every person you kiss with has a different technique and moves that they like. So I’d say you learn how to kiss a particular person the more you do it.
Totally true.
With my ex. He was I think 18 the first time we kissed and I was just turning 21 or almost 21. And he kinda showed me what to do since b4 meeting him I knew nothing basically
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@WhiteShoulder I still suck at kissing though lmao
But you’re really good at other stuff...
@WhiteShoulder lmao only one thing. And apparently still not great enough to make him only wanna b with me lol
He doesn’t deserve u. Or ur mouth.
@WhiteShoulder lmao maybe not but I still can't seem 2 get over his dumb butt
I know...
Hope he comes back soon
@WhiteShoulder when he does I'm kicking his ass
And his balls...
@WhiteShoulder lol maybe. Though I was thinking other things 4 them as well
Good point lol
In that case, ride him till u cum all over his dick and he explodes all over ur kittycat. If ur still pissed after that, THEN kick him in the balls.
@WhiteShoulder lmao I will be. I'm super pissed this time. He just better hope he can distract me enough to make me 4get how upset I am at him
Call it a hunch, but I think he can...
Dw girl. Least u will enjoy being distracted :-).
Well it's quite a weird story actually but if you have time read along... I was probably about 7 years old and of course I was a horny little bastard. My parents had hired a neighbor girl to babysit me. She was (still is) hot AF! She had brought over her equally hot friend and of course I was showing off my extraordinary reading abilities, I could read any word they could find in the library.. lol. Well I decided to try a little reverse molestation I guess u would call it.. I told them I wanted to know how to kiss girls like they kissed on my mommy's soap operas! Long story short... they did!! Lmfao! So I was technically molested.. willingly!
The guys I've kissed... With some things experience is the best method of learning. I just learned from experience.
Its just a natural instinct that automatically happens. I've been kissed by a boy when I was 8. Yeah pretty young and that was years ago. Me now still looking for the right guy. I miss that feeling of being in love and kissing.
No one. I practiced on my hand and pillow and then when I had my first real girlfriend. I wouldn't say I'm good at it but I don't honestly know. I know my friend didn't seem to mind when I kissed her a couple years ago. I wished we could have done more.
Nobody ever taught me to kiss, I picked it up by osmosis. But if I ever needed to learn it would have been my last girlf who, once we established we were going out and she got her hands on me, kissed me over and over again in several different public locations. It became too much and I had to get her to stop, but not before a woman got up from another table in the pub and passed us saying "Kiss upon kiss upon kiss upon kiss..." which my girlf absolutely loved.
A very passionate woman.
This girl emerald when I was in school holiday daycare 7-8ish continued until we both no longer needed day care I think it was at 14 Helen the lady running it realised we were just using her house as a holiday hookup and removed us both from her program as we're to old ahhh have never seen her since but think about her all the time
I really really need someone to teach me one day 🙏 hopefully in a passionate manner too
Hit me up 😛Im an experienced kisser
Ha! You wish!
No thanks..
Honestly, I made it up as I went along. People tend to assume that I've dated/kissed/had sex much more than I really have - something to do with reputation - so I always freak a little when I'm about to kiss someone for the first time!
Personally, it was part instict and part experience.
Thats a good question, no one really "taught" me how to kiss. It was, for the most part, instinctual for me. From things I've heard and witnessed, plus common sense, I just sort of knew not to slobber, try to have clean breath if possible, and time it just right so the mood wasn't off.
my first girlfriend only liked kissing with their lips. So I learned with her, and just did what she liked.
Lol girl named Kaitlin back in kindergarten through 2nd grade. Then my friends older brother said practicing with half a lemon would improve your kissing. So I took that on blind faith. Never had issues
It is not a subject to teach. Lips automatically forward. However, sensual kissing can be taught.
A thick latina girl I almost made out in a pool. Her kiss was just WOOW, she used tongue in me she was kind of drunk tho, but boy it felt nice asf. I made my lips soft as possibly when kissing her. Heard after that she said my kiss was nice too. But I don't know if I should believe that because she was drunk LOL. It was my first kiss also
No one. Had my first kiss at 13 or 14. It was all instinctive and automatic. I've been told that I am a great kisser haha.
I kissed girls in high school, but wasn't until my first love that I tried to get good at it.
My first boyfriend really taught me how to "kiss" when I was 14yrs old and he was 16yrs old. It's absolutely nothing like kissing your parents, on the cheek kinda stuff, OR what you see watching TV. To this day every guy I've dated/kissed has said I'm an amazing kisser. I owe it all to my first boyfriend.
we were about 13 and one day said let's kiss like they do on the cinema. It came naturally from then on
Constantly "practicing" with my 1st boyfriend, who also had me as his 1st girlfriend, was how we both learned.
THE MAN STARTED IT , I PICKED UP ON IT AND THAT WAS THAT ! I EVEN TOLD ONE GUY THAT HE DID NOT PERFECT THE FRENCH KISS BUT HE SURE DID TRY TO WITH ME
My dog. Took a while to refine my technique as girls seemed not too fond of me licking up the side of their face.
No one, when we were 5 I kissed a girl I liked on a courtyard. It was my first kiss, and she was so cute and lovely, I couldn't stop myself. I know, 5, Ronald started early...
Never kissed a girl on the lips only on the cheek once
Self taught.
I'm naturally talented, so I'm told.
First time I "kissed" was actually making out with someone who wasn't their first time and I was told I'm a natural
I dont think I was ever taught... it was just natural
Well... uh... ehh.. umh even my first kiss is fucked up 🤦♀️
@kherms143 my brother.. 🤢🤮
@aangelena yeah. I was 8 and he was 13
@kherms143 home sweet Alabama
@Notabadguy ohio dickface. It's ok I've came to terms with it. He molested me for years...
@aangelena my mom knew all along. Oh no I haven't and refuse to see him since I was 16.
@aangelena
I'm telling you, holding anger against someone is like drinking poison and expecting them to die. You have to forgive so that you will be forgiven.
@Jesse0 I’m not saying to hold anger either but one can let go without bringing the pain of the past right back and letting them get away with it without a slap on the wrist.. and no you don’t. you have to let go not forgive.. and she has absolutely nothing to be forgiven for in this situation. She didn’t do anything wrong
@aangelena
You can't let go if you don't forgive and when I say to forgive others so that you may be forgiven, I am saying to be forgiven by God. No one is innocent in life. Trust me, when you have nothing against anyone -- you essentially don't have enemies. You can only overcome by forgiving not by forgetting and running away, that's why it's so hard to forgive because it's true.
@Jesse0 oh of course you are.. I just knew you were gonna bring god into this. Even so you can let go and forgive by yourself without inviting toxic sick people back into your life. So you think Hitler or Stalin or John Wayne Gacy deserved forgiveness? They’re dramatic examples but what I’m trying to say to you is some people don’t deserve it and it isn’t the only way to move on.
@aangelena
Wow aangelena, just gonna forsake it all because I brought God? And I never said inviting toxic people back to your life, if they don't change -- by any means walk away and wipe the dust off your feet, they're no good for you.
@aangelena thank you ❤.
TV and the internet so got a hang of it really fast when started dating my boyfriend.
Worst boy scout camping trip ever... Lol First girlfriend when I was 14 I assume you mean french kissing. Wasen't exactly taught just followed my instinct.
My cousin. He was 19 and I was 3 years old. Still tourment me
I taught my myself I guess, I've only ever done more than a peck twice
No one. I just kiss whenever it happens. I believe im pretty bad at it tho
I used to practice on my childhood friend’s brother lol
I think this is something u learn naturally but if not that then i think my parents
How?
@minuteman12 well I don't know tbh but maybe since our childhood we see them kissing us or each other so we learn
Did your dad kiss you?
@minuteman12 is that strange lol... every parent dad and mum kiss their kids i think countless times
I've never kissed anyone and have no sure way how to. My belief on how to do it is based on educated guesswork...
Pfft, nobody. I either got it right the 1st time or got treated like shit because I didn't Matrix download the art of kissing into my brain.
An older guy. I was 13, he was 16.
Not trying to judge but wow seriously that much of an age gap, the reason why I say is because when I was sixteen I wouldn't have tried going out with a 15 year old most of the time nevermind a 13 year old but at the same time I suppose it depends on the person and please don't take this as offence because this is just me being very shocked
@CuriousGuy555666 we were part of the same church youth group. I thought he thought of me like a little sister till one night in the basement he brushed a lock of hair away from my forehead, then bent down a little and kissed me.
Technically he was my second kiss. My first kiss was 13 like me and did it on a dare from his friends. But I don’t count that.
Ah fair enough and a bit suprising, I guess you obviously made him attracted too by accident, possibly because he liked your personality, well that's my best guess anyway
@CuriousGuy555666 must’ve been my personality lol. I defo wasn’t that hot at 13. He did tell me I was pretty a lot though.
Ah fair enough
First kiss was with no previous practice and it was horrible! So then I practiced with one of my older friends... but really I think it was just experience that helped me learn...
This might sound like the typical answer but my pillow! I PRACTICE A LOT! Mainly when nobody is at home for 30-40 minutes! I am a kiss/make-out virgin! TBH!
No one. I dont kiss that much
Kissing is a very vunerable thing i dont like being vunerable
A girlfriend in eighth grade.
A. Never had one
B. Probably will never have one
C. Someone tell me am I missing out for being a loner
@kim45456 GODDAMN No I’m just a loner
And I’m 17 I turn 18 soon leave me alone
Nobody I was naturally good at it
My first girlfriend. She already had a previous ex so she also gave me some pointers as well
My friends got me to kiss a girl and told me how to do it
I taught myself by experimenting on my first girl friend
I'm crap, I've not got the experience.
Your only job is sucking lips and tongue. There is nothing to taught.
By the way i have never ever kissed someone yet
Who are they? Haha
I haven't ever kissed.
noone, you just sort of find out your own. why would people "teach you" to kiss, that's weird
Why skip answering?
Trial and error taught me
I prefer to
Okay
Destiny will decide
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