Is it bad that I flirted with a 17 years old student of mine?

[Anonymous]

I am a teacher. I am 54 years old.

I am a laboratory teacher...

I teach the girl's class on weekends.

She had shown signs that she likes me, she would stare at me, smile at me often.

I got attracted to her, she was irresistible... Hot, cute and she had a great personality...

I would stare at her from the head to the toe...

I would stare at her and focus only on her while teaching.

Once, I stared at her for 45 minutes straight, and whenever she caught me, she would blush horribly... So cute!

She knew that I was married.
I am not a saint either, if someone flirts with me, I flirt back, LMAO. My wife doesn't care enough about me anyways.

If I could, I would love to have sex with her...

Anyway, we no longer see each other, as she's probably in college now.

That's disgusting.

That's OK, at least you didn't have sex.

Trolling much?

Results.

[CapricornHoney]

It’s certainly unprofessional and wrong of you to do. Especially considering you are married and she is underage (which you also knew). It’s your reputation on the line. If I were you, I’d hope she doesn’t tell anyone and quit flirting with underage girls.

[Asker]

But she flirted with me first, so it is her fault.

You play with fire, you get burned.

Besides, my wife doesn't know about this and will never know about this...

😂

[CapricornHoney]

In a court of law, you’re the adult here so it’s your fault. You knew what you were doing. You’ll get caught eventually if you keep it up.

[zagor]

Sorry dear, there's no law against staring.

At least, not yet.

[Asker]

Men will be men though, lady!

[Anonymous]

You should know it’s fucked up. As a teacher you’re in a position of care, meaning it would be very wrong to take advantage of her, even if she was 18. Quit teaching and learn some morals

[Asker]

Well, she flirted with me first, so it's her fault if she gets in trouble...

Besides, she liked the attention I gave her, too.

[Opinion Owner]

According to the law, you will be the only one at fault. Kids sometimes have crushes on teachers, but teachers are definitely not meant to have crushes on students. Why did you become a teacher if you’re attracted to minors?

[Penguino]

It's not professional and in my opinion totally wrong to go for a 17 year old. She's underage.
Doesn't change much if she's 18.
"love doesn't do numbers"
Well no, but it could be your daughter.
Plus you are married.

[Asker]

But she flirted with me first.

If she gets in trouble, it's her fault.

[Penguino]

No, it's your fault, you are the older and "wiser" person. You should take responsibilities, she is just a kid. Don't go for it.

Kids want to explore the unknown but don't know it's bad for them.

PLUS YOU ARE MARRIED.

[Asker]

Her reputation gets harmed, not mine.

Besides, my wife doesn't know about this and will never know about this.

[Isten]

You think your reputation won't get harmed? In your dreams maybe.

[Asker]

Not really, the girl's reputation will get harmed more, she shouldn't flirt with married dudes.

[zagor]

He actually didn't "go for her".

[Isten]

@zagor but he did flirt with her, and for a married teacher to flirt with an underage student isn't really the best thing one should do.

[zagor]

@Isten Playacting is harmless.

[Penguino]

He's planning to, the act to go for her is in my opinion morally wrong. It is my advice for him.

[Penguino]

@Isten finally someone who understands this

[zagor]

How many people planned the murder of their boss? I think you are confusing actual planning with fantasizing.

[Asker]

Many married people watch porn, isn't that cheating then? 😂

[Penguino]

You know what, you are a teacher and yet you don't have the moral capacity to see that it is wrong to have sex with a student. You think about doing it, I advice you not to. I know doing it is not the same as thinking, but you are seriously considering it. That's fucked up.

If you do it, you will see that you will lose your job, you will lose all respect from people. And that is the least of your concern.

[zagor]

They are not having sex with the student, and haven't even seen her for some time. The question is "is it bad that I flirted..." not "is it bad that I fucked...".

[Penguino]

Oke. To answer that question.
Yes, it is bad to flirt with students.

It's not professional. You are not supposed to give in to these things. That's all.

[Asker]

@zagor Yeah, I will probably never see her again.

We don't have our phone numbers either, we don't text each other either.

[zagor]

OK I will concede that...

[Penguino]

My reactions were on
"if I could, I would love to have sex with her"

I just advice not to, you can't change the past, but just don't go for it

[Thatsamazing]

"Doesn't change much if she's 18." Then why are you even mentioning that it's "totally wrong" that she's 17, if it wouldn't matter if she was 18. Fail.

[andreasderjuengere]

Fiction only

[Asker]

No, it's a true story.

[andreasderjuengere]

As true as you are :D

[Thatsamazing]

Not a big deal.