Quiet girls. Where do I find you and what would be the best way to approach you? (Page 2)
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well I'm definitely not that type but I know several girls who fit that bill and they are not hard to find at all, especially if you're in school. unless you go to a really crappy school, you usually have a library. lol look there first. also some people who frequent museums are the quiet, shy types but beware we loud party girls like museums at times too. lol There are book clubs/stores, lectures, certain clubs at school, etc. Meeting them out at night would probably be unlikely if you want the type who prefers to spend the night in, but sometimes they come out to concerts.
honestly, you must be quite dim not to know all this, let alone find it rare to see them around...Are you even in university? you mean to tell me that while you're sitting in school you NEVER notice girls who don't speak up as much, who may be in the corner by themselves all the time? that's weird. they're everywhere.
if all else fails you could just meet someone online.
Im quiet and I'm never in the library and haven't been to a museam in years... maybe you should answer a better suited question that you actaully have some knowledge in?
lol sorry darling did you not hear me say they are everywhere? just because you aren't there doesn't mean there are no quiet shy girls there. there are about 20+ people below me who have said similar things to my answer. I have tons of friends of all different personalities, and yes I see a LOT of shyer/quieter girls in museums and libraries. lets not be stupid here darling. your individual experience doesn't speak for all quiet/shy girls and my answer isn't declaring exclusivity. now p*ss off, love
Wow, you just described me. I'm rather surprised, no one seems interested in us type. :/ I think people assume of us too much, we can be fun and outgoing with people we like. It's not like we are always shy, 24/7. We just prefer different things. I'm sure you can find a lot of us out there, but most of us are like wallflowers, so maybe there isn't really a certain specific spot where we all hang out or anything.
totally with you. throug my growing time, I feel like indrawn= unwelocomed/ freak. Luckily find my boy friend. We have been together for 6 years; he is one of my very rare friends, also the best.
i like the quieter girls they seem a lot more caring and interesting but veru hard to find :)
I beg to differ Mircricjac. Quieter girls may not even bother that much about people and thus not necessary caring.
music4life... quiet people do not not bother with people, and we can be some of the most caring persons out there. I have a ton of friends, they just had to stick around long enough for me to get out of my shell and become outgoing around them. As for the caring part, I doubt you can find a person that does not count me as caring. I'm sure I am not the only shy girl like this.
Yeah I absolutely agree with your point that quiet girls can be some of the most caring people out there, but quiet girls are not necessary and not always the most caring people out there. The same applies to the more chatty girls. Chatty girls can be some of the most caring people out there, but they are not necessary and not always the most caring people out there.
I disagree with mircricjac purely because he said "quieter girls seem a lot more caring". The point we have to be very careful and very aware is that we don't assume, perceive or prejudge that quiet girls are definitely more caring/more cold, nor should not assume or perceive that chatty girls are carefree or less caring either.
A lot of people are relating to geeks on here.. quiet girls aren't geeks.
I'm quiet, to some extent. Especially at first.
I rarely party.. because I don't mix with the type who do.
I'm found at home, down town, shopping, walking my dog, at work, cinema..
everywhere but a party.. or downtown with a bunch of loud p*ss head girls trying to impress guys that don't even care.
Personally, I'd prefer a quiet relationship. :) I'm not at all into clubbing/partying/drinking, etc.
Aside from school, I hang out around book stores, video stores, parks, movie theatres, bowling alleys... haha, pretty much anywhere. :P And in terms of being approached, I think just saying 'hi' would be amazing-- smalltalk can easily lead to a longer conversation. :)
Girls don't have to be shy to not be in to that wild scene. Anyways Bubbly is right go to the places you mentioned or try the public library. I went to a comedy show and cafe lastnight...much prefer a night out like that then getting boozed :).
Just try to make some subtle eye contact, if she is too, then go for it just discretely give her your number or make small talk about where ever it is you are. Good luck :)
Well I'm pretty quiet and I spend my Friday nights walking downtown, browsing bookstores, working out, or checking out local artists.
Do what you like doing! That's where you want to meet someone.
When you do meet her, find something to start up conversation about even if she doesn't make eye contact. Make it OBVIOUS that you're interested in her. If she's quiet, she's probably shy and won't just give you her number or pick up on many flirting cues at all.
If a quiet/shy girl seems like she's in a good mood and even if she's not alone but with her friends and she's laughing you should definitely approach. If a person is in a good mood you've got nothing to lose. Even if she rejects you, the rejection will be so mild you'll feel rejuvenated. If she's in a bad mood, if she looks glum or pissed off do not approach by any means! It is NOT a good idea.
Well, I'll be at that coffee shop at 12pm tomorrow. Meet me there... or? Yeah, so this question is kind of weird because those kinds of girls are everywhere you just have to know where to look. Thing is, you just need to snag one and make her your girlfriend, so it shouldn't be that hard to find one. It terms of approaching, just strike up a conversation and then don't forget to ask for her number afterwards!
why don't I know guys like you lol? seriously, you sound amazing. my suggestion is to go to libraries, art museums, or approach the cute girl reading at starbucks. you could also go to the beach when it's not sunny or full and if there is a girl there in clothes (not a bathing suit) then you know she is more down to earth and unique. just literally go up to them. ask what they're reading, what they're looking for what they like about the beach etc etc. just be friendly and make the first move.
I'm quiet and shy. I go to the grocery store (lol hey I gotta eat), the mall, the library, and the park. The other hard thing about meeting people out and about is that guys are always with their girlfriends. Not that I would date someone who is attached, but esp. on weekends I do not see single guys walking around very often.
REally? I see a lot of single guys. When I see a girl on her own, it's kind of attractive to me, because that's one area where I feel girls don't like to do things alone
there are groups or duos of single guys but I don't usually see loners walking around
for me ill be with my friends I will always have one friend with me, all you have to do is start talking to me show that you like me, act kinda confident but not over powering. compliment me and find out something interesting about me then ask for my number. Work almost every time :D
im shy and usually instead of going to parties with a bunch of people I stick with a small group of people and go into town, the movies, out to eat, ice cream...stuff like that. you shouldn't approach really shy girl for the first time when she's alone she might feel awkward and uncomfortable its better when she surrounded with some friends at first. so maybe you should get to know her friends and plan just to go out somewhere or to one of there houses and have them invite the shy girl.
when you see a girl alone at colg, and she is into herself doesn't really look at the guys passing by her...who is reserved at the parties..who doesn't really wear revealing clothes...they are everywhere! lol you just need to look more around you! and if they are shy adding them on Facebook and initiating contact wouldn't be a bad idea because they don't like to reveal who they are talking to..dont confuse this with shadyness!
Right here :)
I also have a hard time to find people compatible with me, they all want the easy party girls but that's just me.
Well in my case I like steady stuff. So you would probably find them like in movie theatres, the library, the beach, a gym, the park, theme parks, or look online for girls your area who have the same interest in you.
I know it's hard but it will come when you least expect it.
Library or friend shopping or with mom..my mom is kinda protective :( I wanted to go out at night by myself like my bro for an adventure..yay I dint know guys actually like shy girls..I'm 1in 2 weeks so I guess guys my age want easy girls..pl think go to church but I haven't in a long time but I pray and read my bible..I've never been to a party
quiet girls think more than loud girls, that's my opinion. So you need to be really careful with them, make a good impression and try to make them genuinely laugh. You'll usually find them hanging with their more confident friend, they usually work in a group of two or three, and they might seem uninterested or rude, but often its because they're shy. I'm a shy girl.
well try not to be too intimidating and over confident, make me laugh il love it, be really laid back and warm felt, show that you're interested, compliments bla bla
and the nice quiet relationship sounds great to me, you should like mix it up a bit :)
Daytime in the Library. At school in the daytime. At the mall in the daytime. A quiet relationship sounds very appealing to me, I want consistency and stability-not crazy. And if there were exhausting parties, it better be no more than 3 times a month. As long as I spend enough time with a guy, I wouldn't be bothered if he was considered adventurous. I would be adventurous for the both of us...Good luck with finding your shy/respectful/quiet girl :)
I am in the library studying, in the gym working out, or just walking around town, popping into bookstores, vintage clothing stores, and bakeries. Sometimes I go on nature walks in the park, too.
The best way to approach me is to walk up to me, say hello, and start a conversation. Try to start talking about mutual interests like the book I picked up or ask me why I'm out strolling and taking pictures of flowers. I'm more than happy to chat.
We're a rare specie which can be found in swamps,in the library,and even MALLS :O
warning:don't fall for the hipster chick,they seem interesting and shy,but really,they're just dense
Don't hate on the hipsters. I have a few hipster friends who are actually really great. Some are pricks, though.